Contempt is Toxic: A Relationship's Acid

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Defensiveness in a relationship fails to address responsibility for issues and can further damage the connection. Among negative behaviors, contempt stands out as the most destructive, akin to sulfuric acid for relationships. It involves criticizing a partner from a perceived moral superiority, often expressed through sarcasm, mockery, or facial gestures such as eye-rolling. This attitude instills shame in the partner, conveying a deep disdain that undermines emotional intimacy and respect.

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