Understanding love can be challenging for individuals, even though they freely use the phrase 'I love you'. The complex nature of love and the relationship between the 'I' and the 'you' can be perplexing. While some may argue that all ontologies are equally valid, I believe that drawing conclusions requires evaluating the evidence. Pragmatism plays a role in determining which ontologies are more comfortable or applicable in different situations. However, I prioritize ontologies that align with observable evidence. Being Bayesian offers a useful framework to assess probabilities and evidence.