Balance the Pencils of Development

Development functions like a network of interconnected elements, akin to pencils held together by rubber bands, where progress in one area influences the others. To achieve holistic development, one must address all aspects simultaneously, as neglect in one area creates detrimental tension. Improvement in nervous system function can significantly enhance overall development, particularly for individuals who have already done substantial emotional or intellectual work, indicating that resolving such tensions can elevate capacity and performance. Distinguishing between emotional and nervous system work involves understanding their causal relationships, emphasizing different responses such as freeze or fight or flight, which further highlights the complexity of emotional outputs in response to the same stimulus.