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#694 - Sadia Khan - Why Is Modern Dating Such A Mess?

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The Problem with Nice Guys and Weak Boundaries

The issue with 'nice guys' is not their niceness but their weak boundaries, and a lack of masculinity. These individuals often blame their niceness for their inability to attract women, but the root cause is their failure to set boundaries and assert masculinity. By not establishing boundaries and showing a willingness to walk away when needed, nice guys end up being seen as weak and unattractive by women. Women prefer men who can make decisions, set boundaries, and exhibit strength, rather than those who are overly accommodating. It is crucial for individuals to understand that being nice is not the problem, but rather the absence of assertive boundaries and masculine traits that hinders their success in relationships.

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