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#694 - Sadia Khan - Why Is Modern Dating Such A Mess?

Oct 16, 2023
Sadia Khan, a relationship coach renowned for her expertise in modern dating, shares her insights on the chaos of contemporary romance. She discusses the confusion caused by societal expectations and the rise of AI girlfriends in relationship dynamics. Sadia addresses why 'nice guys' struggle, whether men and women can truly be friends, and the impact of reality TV on our perceptions of love. She also explores the complexities of jealousy, the relevance of 'body count,' and the psychological implications of dating in today's landscape.
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  • Establishing strong boundaries is crucial for successful relationships, as excessive people-pleasing leads to unhealthy dynamics.
  • Cross-sex mind reading often leads to misunderstandings and missed romantic opportunities.

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The Impact of the Sexual Revolution on Relationships

The podcast episode discusses the effects of the sexual revolution on modern relationships. It explores how dating in the modern world has become more complicated and confusing, leading to increased frustration and uncertainty. The guest, a relationship coach, shares insights on topics such as the rise of hookup culture, the challenges faced by nice guys in relationships, the possibility of men and women being friends, and the cultural portrayal of love as toxic. The episode also delves into the psychology of people-pleasing and the unique dynamics that exist within male-female friendships.

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