There's two broad ways you can go on jiu-jitsu. You can either focus on promoting your own movement to create opportunity or by restricting the other person's movement. If you're a slower, less athletic opponent, then you should definitely focus on the idea of restricting the other fellow's movement. That's how slow unathletic people win in jiu-Jitsu. But Gary is a unique individual. I feel like I let him down by not giving him special attention for what he does.