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Strengthen Your Self Esteem: Insights on Belonging and Social Approval | Dr. Mark Leary

Finding Mastery with Dr. Michael Gervais

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Understanding the Disruptive Nature of Self-Esteem

Self-esteem is not about feeling good about ourselves just for the sake of it, but rather serves as an internal monitor that indicates our level of acceptance by others. The sociometer theory suggests that self-esteem fluctuates based on the degree of acceptance or rejection we experience in social situations. People are not inherently seeking self-esteem, but are instead adjusting their behavior to increase acceptance and value from others. This insight challenges the commonly held belief that high self-esteem is necessary, emphasizing the connection between self-esteem and social acceptance.

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