The discussion delves into striving for excellence, with an example of a high achiever, Tim Beck, who contributed to modern therapy and emphasized the importance of understanding human emotions. The conversation expands on the concept of balance by highlighting that extreme levels of emotions, even happiness, can be detrimental. Despite the caution of not overdoing things, the dialogue emphasizes the importance of striving, akin to continuously building sand castles while being mindful of not veering into perfectionism. The 80% rule, as advocated by Kristen Andrus, encourages avoiding perfectionism to achieve more and enjoy a satisfactory outcome rather than obsessing over perfection.
How can you strive for excellence without overworking yourself? Why is perfectionism on the rise? And is Angela part of the problem?
- RESOURCES:
- "For Happiness in the New Year, Stop Overdoing Everything," by Julia DiGangi (The Wall Street Journal, 2023).
- "Good Enough," by Thomas Curran (Character Lab, 2023).
- The Perfection Trap: Embracing the Power of Good Enough, by Thomas Curran (2023).
- "Perfectionism Is Not the Secret to Success (and Pursuing It May Guarantee the Opposite)," by Next Big Idea Club (Fast Company, 2023).
- "Zac Efron Rides Again," by Lauren Larson (Men's Health, 2022).
- "Tim Beck’s Final Brainstorms," by Stephen Fried (The Philadelphia Gazette, 2022).
- "Perfectionism Is Increasing Over Time: A Meta-Analysis of Birth Cohort Differences From 1989 to 2016," by Thomas Curran and Andrew P. Hill (Psychological Bulletin, 2019).
- "UCLA Senior From Alamo Among 32 Rhodes Scholars," by Steve Rubenstein (SFGate, 2008).