

Relationship Renovation: Marriage Advice, Intimacy & Couples Communication
EJ and Tarah Kerwin
Stronger relationships start here. The Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosted by licensed therapists and partners Tarah & E.J. Kerwin, gives couples the tools to improve communication, rebuild trust, and create lasting intimacy.Tarah and EJ share practical strategies, real-life stories, and therapist-guided insights to help you break negative cycles and deepen your connection.Each week you’ll learn how to:Practice couples therapy skills at homeStop fighting and start communicatingRebuild trust after conflict or distanceStrengthen both emotional and physical intimacyHear real couples share struggles and breakthroughsWith over 20,000 monthly downloads, Relationship Renovation is trusted worldwide by couples who want advice that is expert, relatable, and actionable.Whether you’re dating, married, or somewhere in between, this podcast is your roadmap to transform conflict into connection.Subscribe today—and start building the relationship you’ve been hoping for.
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May 26, 2023 • 38min
122 - Overcoming Burnout in Relationships: Tips and Tools for Building Resilience Together - Interview with Renay and Aaron
How does burnout impact relationships, and what are some common signs to watch out for?What are some practical strategies and tools couples can utilize to overcome burnout and build resilience together?How important is self-care in maintaining a healthy relationship and preventing burnout? What are some effective self-care practices couples can adopt to support each other's well-being?In this episode, we explore practical tips and powerful tools for building resilience together, ensuring your relationship thrives even during challenging times. Burnout can take a toll on any relationship, but by implementing the strategies we discuss, you'll gain valuable insights on fostering emotional well-being, strengthening your connection, and rejuvenating your love for one another. Join us as we uncover effective techniques to overcome burnout, prioritize self-care, and create a resilient foundation that enables you and your partner to navigate life's obstacles with confidence and harmony.Tune in to this episode to discover expert advice and actionable steps to address burnout within your relationship. Our guest speakers share their personal experiences and offer valuable insights into building resilience together. From effective communication techniques to self-care practices, you'll gain practical tools that will help you and your partner overcome burnout and create a stronger, more resilient bond. Whether you're facing work-related stress, parenting challenges, or simply feeling overwhelmed, this episode provides a roadmap for nurturing your relationship's well-being and rediscovering joy in your journey together. Don't miss out on this empowering conversation that will transform your approach to building resilience and cultivating lasting love.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 19, 2023 • 47min
121 - Navigating Decades of Love, Challenges, and Growth with Tim Mills, Owner of Cathexis Mental Health Facility
What does it take to sustain a long-term relationship?How do different family backgrounds impact a relationship?What role do friendships play in our personal growth and relationship success?Welcome to a captivating episode of Relationship Renovation! In this installment, we have the privilege of interviewing Tim Mills, an extraordinary individual who wears multiple hats as the owner of Cathexis Mental Health Facility, a loving father, and a dedicated husband. Join us as Tim delves into the depths of his long-standing relationship with his wife, unraveling the intricate dynamics they encountered over the course of several decades. Get ready to explore the challenges that tested their bond, as Tim fearlessly opens up about the personal struggles he faced and how they affected their relationship. Furthermore, we delve into the captivating narrative of merging two distinct family backgrounds, an endeavor that was far from easy. But that's not all—our conversation also delves into the transformative power of friendships and the profound journey of self-reflection and growth. Tune in for an illuminating and heartfelt discussion that will leave you inspired to enhance and cherish the relationships in your own life.Relationship Renovation DiscordTo learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 12, 2023 • 49min
120 - The Power of Asking “What Happens for You?”: Enhancing Emotional Connection in Relationships
What is the missing piece in many relationships when it comes to sexual connection?What is the OOH and how can it improve communication strategies?What question can be more effective than "why" when trying to understand someone's perspective?How can emotional safety and connection impact a couple's sex life?On this episode of Relationship Renovation, we follow the journey of a Dr. Glenn and Phyllis, who found hope in realizing that they weren't alone in their struggles. They learned the importance of emotional connection in sexual intimacy and discovered helpful communication strategies through reactivating emotions. We also explore the speaker's mission to focus on what causes couples to connect instead of disconnect and their approach to counseling using "following the energy." Join us as we delve into the core emotions shared among people and the importance of empathy and understanding in relationships.Learn More About Dr. Glenn and PhyllisTo learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

May 5, 2023 • 37min
119 - Personal growth: The pivotal role it plays in relationship growth – Interview with Noah Providence
How does personal growth impact our ability to form and maintain healthy relationships?What are some practical steps we can take to prioritize personal growth in our relationships?How does the past create obstacles to healthy, loving relationship and personal growth?In this episode, we sit down with Noah Providence, a healer, husband, and father, to explore the crucial role that self-growth and self-awareness play in cultivating healthy, loving relationships. Noah shares his own journey of personal growth and how it has positively impacted his marriage and family life. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, he emphasizes the importance of introspection, vulnerability, and communication in maintaining strong relationships. Whether you're single or in a long-term partnership, this episode offers valuable insights into how self-growth and self-awareness can help you build deeper, more meaningful connections with those you love. Tune in now to hear this engaging and inspiring conversation. Please connect with us at info@relationshiprenovation.comLearn more about Noah ProvidenceTo learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Apr 28, 2023 • 46min
118 - The Importance of Expressing Your Needs in Your Relationship - Rebuilding Intimacy with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell
Why is it crucial to express your needs in a relationship to rebuild intimacy?What are some common challenges couples face when trying to communicate their needs to each other?How can partners learn to identify and prioritize their own needs to avoid compromising in their relationship?In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, a renowned relationship and intimacy expert, to discuss the importance of expressing your needs in a relationship for rebuilding intimacy. We explore how expressing your needs can lead to a more fulfilling and healthy relationship, and some of the common challenges couples face when trying to communicate their needs to each other. Dr. Stockwell shares practical tips on identifying and prioritizing your own needs, and effective communication strategies that couples can use to express their needs clearly and respectfully. If you're looking to deepen your intimacy and strengthen your relationship, then this episode is a must-listen.Learn More about Alexandra Stockwell, MDTo learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Apr 21, 2023 • 23min
117 - Navigating Emotionally Disparate Relationships: When One Partner is Less Expressive
What impact does emotional expression have on relationships, and how can it affect communication and intimacy?What are some of the challenges faced by the less expressive partner and their more expressive counterpart in emotionally disparate relationships?What practical tips and strategies can be used to improve emotional intelligence, communication skills, and understanding of each other's needs in such relationships?How can couples build emotional connections and strengthen their relationship when one partner is less expressive of their emotions?In this episode, we explore the challenges faced by couples when one partner is less expressive of their emotions. We discuss the impact of emotional expression on relationships and how it can affect communication, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. They also provide practical tips and strategies for navigating these challenges, including ways to improve emotional intelligence, communication skills, and understanding of each other's needs.The hosts draw on their own experiences and expertise to provide valuable insights for both the less expressive partner and their more expressive counterpart. They offer guidance on how to communicate effectively, build emotional connections, and strengthen the relationship.Whether you're in a relationship where one partner is less expressive or you're looking to improve your communication and emotional connection, this episode is packed with helpful advice.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Apr 14, 2023 • 27min
116 - Navigating Emotional Ups and Downs in Marriage: Supporting Your Partner Through the Tough Times
What are some effective ways to support your partner when they are going through emotional ups and downs in your marriage?How can empathy and communication help couples navigate the emotional landscape of marriage during challenging times?Why is it important to practice self-care and set boundaries when supporting your partner through emotional struggles?What are some common challenges that couples face when supporting each other through tough times, and how can they overcome them?Being supportive of your partner when they are moody, emotionally activated, or struggling can be difficult, but it's essential for a healthy relationship. When your partner is going through a tough time, it's important to remember that their behavior is not about you. It's about what they're going through; they need your support now more than ever.We've seen many couples struggle with this issue in our therapy practice, and we've found that the key is to practice empathy and communication. Empathy means putting yourself in your partner's shoes and understanding how they're feeling. Communication means having an open and honest dialogue about what's going on and how you can support each other.It's also important to set boundaries and take care of yourself when your partner is going through a tough time. It's okay to take a step back and practice self-care when you need it. This can be as simple as taking a walk or talking to a friend.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Apr 7, 2023 • 24min
115 - Breaking the Friend Zone: How Intimate Couples Can Rekindle Their Passion and Avoid Falling into a Platonic Pattern
What are the warning signs that a couple is falling into a platonic pattern, and how can they avoid it?"What practical tips can couples use to rekindle their passion and intimacy?"How can communication help couples break out of the friend zone and reignite their romantic spark?Do you ever feel like you and your partner have become more like friends than intimate partners? In this episode of our podcast, we explore breaking the friend zone in intimate relationships. In this episode, we'll discuss the warning signs of falling into a platonic pattern and provide practical tips on reigniting the spark and intimacy in your relationship. We'll also explore the importance of communication, physical touch, and their role in maintaining a healthy, passionate relationship. Join us as we dive into this important topic and learn how to avoid the friend zone and rekindle your passion.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Mar 31, 2023 • 43min
114 - Mindful Self-Compassion: The Missing Link to Building Strong, Securely Attached Relationships - Interview with Audrey Darnell LAC
How does practicing mindful self-compassion improve our ability to form and maintain secure attachments in relationships?What are some practical techniques for cultivating mindful self-compassion, and how can we incorporate them into our daily lives?How does attachment theory help us understand the importance of self-compassion in building secure relationships, and what are some common attachment styles we should be aware of?What role does self-compassion play in healing and repairing relationships that have been damaged by trauma, neglect, or other factors?We will be exploring how mindful self-compassion is the missing link to building strong, securely attached relationships. In this episode, we will dive into the importance of self-compassion in building secure attachment, the science behind it, and practical ways to cultivate mindful self-compassion in your daily life.We speak with Audrey Darnell LAC, who will share their insights on the benefits of self-compassion and attachment theory. Whether you're single, in a committed relationship, or seeking to improve your emotional connections with others, this episode is for you. Join us as we discover the power of mindful self-compassion in building stronger, more secure relationships that last. Don't miss out on this insightful and informative episode that is sure to leave you with practical tools and insights for cultivating more self-compassion and stronger attachments in your relationships.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Mar 24, 2023 • 26min
113 - Overcoming Resistance: Navigating When Your Partner Doesn't Want to Attend Couples Counseling
What are some common reasons that partners may be resistant to attending couples counseling, and how can you address their concerns?How can you effectively communicate with your partner about the importance of attending couples counseling, even if they are initially resistant?How can setting boundaries and being patient with the counseling process help to overcome resistance, and improve the overall health of your relationship?We understand that couples counseling can be an uncomfortable and challenging experience, but it's often a necessary step toward improving a relationship. In this episode, we explore why some partners may be resistant to attending counseling, the potential reasons for their hesitation, and how to navigate this sensitive issue.Tarah and EJ bring their expertise to the conversation, sharing their insights and practical tips on how to approach this difficult situation. We delve into how to communicate with your partner effectively, understand their perspective and concerns, and address any misconceptions or fears they may have about counseling. We also discuss the importance of setting boundaries, and how to find the right therapist who can help both partners feel comfortable and supported throughout the counseling process. Whether you're struggling to convince your partner to attend couples counseling, or you're the one feeling resistant, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to improve their relationship and overcome resistance to therapy.Leave a comment or ask a question regarding this episode!Relationship Renovation DiscordTo learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands


