Relationship Renovation: Marriage Advice, Intimacy & Couples Communication

What are some effective ways to support your partner when they are going through emotional ups and downs in your marriage?How can empathy and communication help couples navigate the emotional landscape of marriage during challenging times?Why is it important to practice self-care and set boundaries when supporting your partner through emotional struggles?What are some common challenges that couples face when supporting each other through tough times, and how can they overcome them?Being supportive of your partner when they are moody, emotionally activated, or struggling can be difficult, but it's essential for a healthy relationship. When your partner is going through a tough time, it's important to remember that their behavior is not about you. It's about what they're going through; they need your support now more than ever.We've seen many couples struggle with this issue in our therapy practice, and we've found that the key is to practice empathy and communication. Empathy means putting yourself in your partner's shoes and understanding how they're feeling. Communication means having an open and honest dialogue about what's going on and how you can support each other.It's also important to set boundaries and take care of yourself when your partner is going through a tough time. It's okay to take a step back and practice self-care when you need it. This can be as simple as taking a walk or talking to a friend.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

What are the warning signs that a couple is falling into a platonic pattern, and how can they avoid it?"What practical tips can couples use to rekindle their passion and intimacy?"How can communication help couples break out of the friend zone and reignite their romantic spark?Do you ever feel like you and your partner have become more like friends than intimate partners? In this episode of our podcast, we explore breaking the friend zone in intimate relationships. In this episode, we'll discuss the warning signs of falling into a platonic pattern and provide practical tips on reigniting the spark and intimacy in your relationship. We'll also explore the importance of communication, physical touch, and their role in maintaining a healthy, passionate relationship. Join us as we dive into this important topic and learn how to avoid the friend zone and rekindle your passion.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online Course.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

How does practicing mindful self-compassion improve our ability to form and maintain secure attachments in relationships?What are some practical techniques for cultivating mindful self-compassion, and how can we incorporate them into our daily lives?How does attachment theory help us understand the importance of self-compassion in building secure relationships, and what are some common attachment styles we should be aware of?What role does self-compassion play in healing and repairing relationships that have been damaged by trauma, neglect, or other factors?We will be exploring how mindful self-compassion is the missing link to building strong, securely attached relationships. In this episode, we will dive into the importance of self-compassion in building secure attachment, the science behind it, and practical ways to cultivate mindful self-compassion in your daily life.We speak with Audrey Darnell LAC, who will share their insights on the benefits of self-compassion and attachment theory. Whether you're single, in a committed relationship, or seeking to improve your emotional connections with others, this episode is for you. Join us as we discover the power of mindful self-compassion in building stronger, more secure relationships that last. Don't miss out on this insightful and informative episode that is sure to leave you with practical tools and insights for cultivating more self-compassion and stronger attachments in your relationships.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

What are some common reasons that partners may be resistant to attending couples counseling, and how can you address their concerns?How can you effectively communicate with your partner about the importance of attending couples counseling, even if they are initially resistant?How can setting boundaries and being patient with the counseling process help to overcome resistance, and improve the overall health of your relationship?We understand that couples counseling can be an uncomfortable and challenging experience, but it's often a necessary step toward improving a relationship. In this episode, we explore why some partners may be resistant to attending counseling, the potential reasons for their hesitation, and how to navigate this sensitive issue.Tarah and EJ bring their expertise to the conversation, sharing their insights and practical tips on how to approach this difficult situation. We delve into how to communicate with your partner effectively, understand their perspective and concerns, and address any misconceptions or fears they may have about counseling. We also discuss the importance of setting boundaries, and how to find the right therapist who can help both partners feel comfortable and supported throughout the counseling process. Whether you're struggling to convince your partner to attend couples counseling, or you're the one feeling resistant, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to improve their relationship and overcome resistance to therapy.Leave a comment or ask a question regarding this episode!Relationship Renovation DiscordTo learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

How does shame impact intimate relationships, and what are the signs to look out for?What are some common triggers of shame in intimate relationships, and how can they be managed?How can individuals overcome the grip of shame and cultivate healthy communication in their intimate relationships?Are there specific strategies or techniques couples can use to overcome shame and strengthen their bond?In this episode, we delve into the power of shame in intimate relationships, exploring its profound impact and providing practical tips for overcoming its grip. We discuss common triggers of shame in relationships and how they can manifest, as well as the detrimental effects shame can have on communication and trust. Through insightful interviews and expert analysis, we explore effective strategies for overcoming shame, cultivating healthy communication, and strengthening intimate relationships. Whether you're struggling with shame in your own relationship or seeking to understand better how it affects those around you, this episode provides invaluable insights and actionable advice for moving forward.About Kelby Jones MS/LAC - After realizing that his dreams of working in Film and Television production were not aligned with his personal goals and needs, Kelby began a 4-year journey of finding himself and his purpose. Through his healing journey, Kelby realized his passion for therapy and guiding others along their path. Kelby’s experience in his education and career has cultivated an approach that utilizes elements of CBT, DBT, mindfulness, psychosomatic and affective neuroscience to help individuals understand how and why past trauma interferes with or inhibits our interpersonal connections and the way we live, work, and love. Kelby specializes in LGBTQIA+ experiences, religious trauma, disordered attachment, anxiety, depression, and relationship dynamics through this approach. Kelby’s goal is to provide the space and structure for individuals and couples to examine their experiences and process them through various modalities and interventions that seek to soothe the nervous system allowing us to show up for ourselves and our loved ones without fear, shame, or blame. To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

How does the ego affect our ability to have a loving relationship with our spouse?What are some common obstacles that the ego creates in relationships, and how can we overcome them?What strategies can we use to stay connected with our spouse during difficult moments and overcome the ego's negative influence?Can mindfulness and self-awareness help us recognize and overcome ego-based behaviors in our relationships? How can we cultivate these skills?In this episode, we delve into the topic of how the ego can create obstacles to having a loving and healthy relationship with your spouse. We explore the ways in which our ego-driven behaviors can damage our relationships, and share practical strategies for overcoming these challenges. We discuss the importance of self-awareness and mindfulness in recognizing and addressing ego-based behaviors in our relationships. Our guest expert Barry Nicolaou offers insights and actionable advice for staying connected with our partners, even in the midst of difficult moments. Tune in to learn how to cultivate a stronger, more loving relationship with your spouse by overcoming the ego's negative influence.Barry Nicolaou’s ability to locate and define his true purpose in assisting others began in 2015. The Inspiration Barry absorbed one fateful day at a cemetery led him to write and publish a #1 Best Selling book on Amazon. His book: The 11 Master Secrets to Business Success and Personal Fulfilment outlines the 11 areas that intersect economic freedom with personal fulfillment. His forte' is in deconstructing the layers beneath cognitive fear, indecision, subconscious paradigms, Inherited thinking, habitual thinking, and their intimate relationship to real-world expectations and expenses.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

What are emotional triggers in a relationship and how do they arise?How can emotional triggers affect the stability of a couple's relationship and lead to conflict?What are some common emotional triggers that couples experience and how can they be identified?Are there effective strategies that couples can use to manage their emotional triggers and maintain a stable relationship?In any relationship, emotional triggers can arise and cause conflict between partners. These triggers may be caused by past experiences, current stressors, or simply a clash of personalities. When left unchecked, emotional triggers can cause significant damage to a couple's relationship and lead to emotional instability. In this episode, we explore the hidden emotions that can destabilize couples in relationships and discuss effective strategies for managing these triggers.We'll delve into common emotional triggers that couples experience, such as jealousy, resentment, and fear, and examine how these emotions can lead to destructive patterns of behavior. We'll also discuss how emotional intelligence and mindfulness can help individuals identify and manage their triggers, leading to healthier relationships. With insights from experts in the field of psychology and personal anecdotes, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to improve their emotional intelligence and create a more stable and fulfilling relationship. Tune in to uncover the hidden emotions that can impact your relationship and learn how to navigate them with grace and compassion.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

What are some common roadblocks that prevent couples from having constructive conversations during difficult times?How can individuals recognize their own defensive reactions during a challenging conversation and stay calm and open-minded instead?What are some effective strategies for initiating a difficult conversation with a partner who might be resistant to discussing the issue?How can couples establish trust and create a safe space for vulnerability during tough conversations?What role does active listening play in navigating complicated conversations, and how can couples develop better listening skills to improve communication in their relationship?In any relationship, there will come a time when difficult conversations need to be had. Whether it's about a disagreement, a hurtful action, or a major life decision, navigating these conversations can be challenging and emotional. In this episode, we delve into the art of having complicated or activating discussions with your partner and offer practical tips on how to communicate effectively and constructively in even the most challenging situations.EJ and Tarah draw on their years of experience in psychology, relationship coaching, and communication to share insights and strategies for initiating, engaging in, and ultimately resolving tough conversations with your partner. We explore the common pitfalls that can derail these discussions and offer actionable tips on how to stay present, open, and compassionate in the face of strong emotions. Whether you're looking to improve communication in your relationship, deepen your emotional connection, or simply learn how to navigate difficult conversations with more ease, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to build stronger, healthier relationships.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

What strategies can be used to de-escalate conflict when tensions are running high, and how can we ensure that both parties feel heard and respected in the process?How can we build trust and foster communication in relationships that have a history of conflict, and what are some effective ways to rebuild damaged relationships?When is it appropriate to seek outside help or mediation to navigate high-conflict relationships, and what resources are available for those who may need additional support?Join us for this interview with Karen McMahon - Relationship and Divorce coach and founder of Journey Beyond Divorce. Karen founded Journey Beyond Divorce in 2010, after discovering that the pain of dissolving her marriage had been the very stimulus for her personal transformation.During her three-and-a-half-year tumultuous divorce, Karen’s life began to improve exponentially. With much hard work, she embraced her new life, created healthy friendships, found her true voice, and learned to set suitable boundaries and let go of what she could not control.Learning to live a healthy enlivened life is something that we can share with our children creating thriving relationships with them while helping them grow emotionally strong and healthy.Join us as we discuss common triggers that can lead to high conflict and learn how to recognize them early on to prevent further escalation. Whether you're dealing with a difficult coworker, family member, or partner, our experts provide valuable insights and actionable advice to help you navigate even the most challenging relationships. Don't miss this insightful podcast on navigating high-conflict relationships and finding common ground.Sign up for I've Got You Retreat in The Colorado RockiesTo learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

What do you feel are the most important qualities needed to create a loving relationship?How do you balance trust and openness with healthy boundaries?How can couples stay connected when their lives become busy?How do you handle disagreements or conflict in a loving way?What can couples do to stay on the same page when life changes, such as when children come into the picture?This podcast is an exploration of how two people can create a strong, loving relationship. We will explore the qualities needed in order to make such a relationship successful, including communication, trust, respect, and understanding. We will discuss tips and techniques to create a relationship that stands the test of time and develops deeper connections. Tarah and EJ demonstrate how they work through this exercise, role modeling how to have open-hearted and vulnerable conversations about your relationship. Tune in to see how we can create a relationship built on love, understanding, and acceptance.To learn more about our online program that helps couples improve their relationship and embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy building, click this link ------------> Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands