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We have a few spots left for couples ready to transform their relationship. If you’d like to work directly with Tarah and EJ Kerwin, apply below:👉 Apply Now for Exclusive Couples Coaching led by Tarah and EJ KerwinOr email us directly at coaching@relationshiprenovation.com with the subject line “Couples Coaching Application.” On this episode of Relationship Renovation, Tarah and EJ Kerwin share the secret weapon they use to bring calm, clarity, and connection to even the most stressful parts of daily life: the “Predict, Plan, Prepare” (Triple P) tool, developed by renowned relationship expert Dr. Stan Tatkin. Listen in as they break down exactly how Triple P works, why couples struggle without a plan, and how this simple mindset shift can minimize conflict and help partners feel like a true team—even during life’s most hectic moments. With honest anecdotes about their own home routines (think school mornings and dividing chores), Tarah and EJ show you how implementing this tool can help dissolve tension, foster emotional safety, and prevent the cycle of disconnection from taking hold.Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

We have a few spots left for couples ready to transform their relationship. If you’d like to work directly with Tarah and EJ Kerwin, apply below:👉 Apply Now for Exclusive Couples Coaching led by Tarah and EJ KerwinOr email us directly at coaching@relationshiprenovation.com with the subject line “Couples Coaching Application.”  In this episode of Relationship Renovation, EJ and Tarah Kerwin share real-life experiences and expert insights on how couples can "change the season" in their lives rather than letting external events dictate the tone of their relationship. You'll discover a simple yet powerful three-step framework—awareness, boundaries, and intentional rituals—to help you and your partner name your current season, create practices that support your relationship, and shift out of reactivity into empowered connection. Whether you’re navigating a hectic school schedule, a major life transition, or just the everyday grind, this episode is packed with relatable stories and actionable advice to help you stay grounded, connected, and in charge of your relationship journey.Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

We’re opening 8 spots for couples ready to transform their relationship. If you’d like to work directly with Tarah and EJ Kerwin, apply below:👉 Apply Now for Exclusive Couples Coaching led by Tarah and EJ KerwinOr email us directly at coaching@relationshiprenovation.com with the subject line “Couples Coaching Application.”   In this heartfelt episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosts EJ and Tarah Kerwin sit down with Ben and Julie, a couple who met in high school, faced the challenges of teen parenthood, and nearly reached their breaking point after 27 years together. Through their honest and vulnerable conversation, Ben and Julie share what brought them to couples counseling, how learning tools like emotional check-ins and self-soothing changed everything, and why healing old wounds transformed not only their relationship, but their whole family. Whether you’re on the verge of giving up or just looking for hope, this episode will inspire you to believe that deeper happiness and connection truly are possible—no matter how long you’ve been together.Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

We’re opening 8 spots for couples ready to transform their relationship. If you’d like to work directly with Tarah and EJ Kerwin, apply below:👉 Apply Now for Exclusive Couples Coaching led by Tarah and EJ KerwinOr email us directly at coaching@relationshiprenovation.com with the subject line “Couples Coaching Application.” Are you struggling to support a loved one dealing with anxiety or OCD?Wondering how to recognize the difference between comforting and enabling anxious behaviors?Curious about what practical steps actually help when someone you care about is overwhelmed by fearful thoughts?In this heartwarming episode, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin welcome their daughter Mia to share her candid journey with OCD and anxiety. Together, they explore Mia's experience from early challenges and therapy breakthroughs to the communication strategies that made a difference within their family. Whether you’re a parent, partner, or someone seeking stronger emotional connections, you'll discover actionable advice for building resilience, offering support without reinforcing fears, and fostering trust in your most important relationships. Tune in for insights that will empower you to navigate anxiety and strengthen your bond with the people you love.Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

We’re opening 8 spots for couples ready to transform their relationship. If you’d like to work directly with Tarah and EJ Kerwin, apply below:👉 Apply Now for Exclusive Couples Coaching led by Tarah and EJ KerwinOr email us directly at coaching@relationshiprenovation.com with the subject line “Couples Coaching Application.”  Are you or your partner navigating the challenges of a chronic condition like diabetes in your relationship?Wondering how you can support a loved one without overstepping, or how to maintain open communication and intimacy?Curious about strategies to set healthy boundaries and foster empowerment together? IIn this heartfelt episode, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin sit down with Ben Tzeel—a registered dietitian, certified diabetes educator, and strength coach who’s thrived with type 1 diabetes for over 25 years. Ben shares invaluable personal and professional insights on managing diabetes without letting it define your life or your partnership. You'll learn about balancing care and autonomy, the impact of stress on health and relationships, and practical ways couples can communicate, set boundaries, and build trust around health challenges. Whether you’re seeking hope, guidance, or relatable real-life stories, this episode is packed with empowering advice to help couples and individuals strengthen their relationships in the face of adversity.Connect with Ben TzeelPurchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

We’re opening 8 spots for couples ready to transform their relationship. If you’d like to work directly with Tarah and EJ Kerwin, apply below:👉 Apply Now for Exclusive Couples Coaching led by Tarah and EJ KerwinOr email us directly at coaching@relationshiprenovation.com with the subject line “Couples Coaching Application.” Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseIn this episode of Relationship Renovation, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin sit down with Heather and Paul Christensen, founders of Thin Line Relationships, to explore the unique challenges faced by first responders, healthcare professionals, and military families. Through their own deeply personal story—from survival mode and divorce, to healing, reconnection, and now helping others—Heather and Paul reveal the hidden patterns, practical tools, and mindset shifts that can transform even the most chaotic relationships. Listen in as they discuss real-world solutions for creating emotional safety, overcoming trauma, and rekindling connection, offering hope and actionable advice for any couple ready to thrive amidst life’s pressures.Learn More About Thin Line RelationshipsVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Leanne Rogers, a therapist with a unique background as a former wedding planner, shares her insights on emotional differentiation in relationships. She emphasizes the importance of maintaining individual identity while fostering deep connections. Leanne delves into recognizing emotional patterns and setting healthy boundaries, offering practical tips for couples. The conversation also explores how understanding and embracing emotional differences can lead to personal growth and stronger connections, encouraging vulnerability as a pathway to deeper intimacy.

Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseIn this special episode, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin sit down with Zach Brittle, host of Marriage Therapy Radio, for a deeply authentic and vulnerable conversation unlike any other. This is a replay of their appearance on Marriage Therapy Radio.Instead of focusing on their roles as therapists or podcasters, Tarah and EJ open up about their journey as a couple—sharing the real, sometimes messy, and absolutely inspiring moments that have shaped their marriage.Get ready to hear the Kerwins talk candidly about what it’s like to be both partners and professionals in the world of marriage counseling. From balancing the pressures of their work with raising a blended family of four kids, to navigating extraordinary personal challenges—including trauma recovery and the transformative impact of ketamine-assisted therapy—they hold nothing back. Zach guides the conversation with compassion and curiosity, asking the kinds of questions that will make you reflect on your own relationship and the growth that comes with adversity.Whether you’re a couple navigating your own ups and downs or just looking for honest insights into what makes a relationship thrive, this episode offers valuable lessons on intimacy, accountability, and the bravery it takes to be truly seen by your partner. Tune in to hear how Tarah and EJ have rebuilt, reimagined, and renovated their own relationship—and how their story can inspire yours.Learn More About Zach BrittleListen to Marriage Therapy RadioVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseWhat does true intimacy mean, and how can couples move beyond just physical or sexual connection?Why do so many couples struggle to talk openly about their sex lives, and how can this conversation be improved?How can partners negotiate their different needs for emotional, intellectual, and sexual intimacy over the long term?In this transformative episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin sit down with Zach Brittle, renowned couples therapist and host of Marriage Therapy Radio, to unpack the complex and often misunderstood world of intimacy in long-term relationships. Zach, who is uniquely certified in both Relational Life Therapy and Gottman Therapy, dives deep into the many layers of intimacy—emotional, intellectual, physical, sexual, and spiritual. Instead of falling into the trap of viewing intimacy as a simple binary between emotional and physical needs, Zach introduces powerful new frameworks and negotiation strategies that empower couples to identify, define, and revive all forms of connection in their relationships.Listeners will hear candid, refreshing discussions on why so many partners feel disconnected—sexually and emotionally—even after years together, and how shifting your mindset and communication style can make all the difference. Zach shares insightful questions every couple should ask themselves, like “What is sex for?” and “What truly counts as intimacy in our relationship?” Whether you’re struggling with mismatched sex drives, navigating changing bodies, or just looking for more depth and openness in your partnership, this episode offers actionable tools and fresh perspectives. Tune in and get inspired to talk about intimacy in entirely new ways—these are conversations that could transform your relationship forever!Learn More About Zach BrittleListen to Marriage Therapy RadioVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Are you and your partner truly able to communicate your needs, desires, and boundaries around sexual intimacy without fear of judgment?Do past experiences, trauma, or upbringing impact the way you connect sexually with your partner?How can couples bridge the gap when one partner is satisfied with the frequency of intimacy and the other is not?In this transformative episode of Relationship Renovation, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin introduce listeners to their brand-new Relationship Renovation Sexual Intimacy Inventory—a powerful tool designed to spark open, honest, and non-triggering conversations about sexual intimacy. As Tarah and EJ model the inventory in real-time, they share personal insights, explore vulnerable topics such as emotional safety, sexual satisfaction, communication challenges, and the impact of trauma and upbringing on their intimate connection. This episode offers you concrete questions and strategies to bring more connection, understanding, and growth to your own relationship, whether you're struggling with mismatched desire, communication hurdles, or want to deepen your bond.Tune in to discover how Tarah and EJ have cultivated emotional safety and acceptance while navigating differences in their sexual relationship—and learn how you can apply these best practices to your own partnership. With practical tips, honest dialogue, and a free downloadable worksheet, this episode will help you move past avoidance, negotiate your needs, and foster an intimate, resilient, and satisfying partnership. Don't miss out on this invaluable conversation that will motivate, inspire, and equip you to renovate your sexual intimacy together!Visit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands