Relationship Renovation: Marriage Advice, Intimacy & Couples Communication

EJ and Tarah Kerwin
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Oct 3, 2025 • 19min

245 - From Despair to Repair: Injecting Hope into Relationships

Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation CoachingOr email us directly at coaching@relationshiprenovation.com with the subject line “Couples Coaching Application.” Order Relationship Renovation at Home Manual from AmazonJoin Our Patreon CommunityTake the Emotional Safety Assessment QuizIn episode 245 of the Relationship Renovation Podcast hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin dive deep into the transformative power of hope in relationships. Drawing from both their own experiences and years working with couples, they reveal how losing hope is a common stage for struggling partners—and how the right support at the right time can be the spark that ignites real transformation. The Kerwins candidly discuss those pivotal moments when despair feels overwhelming, yet just one person’s belief, whether a coach, therapist, or loved one, can breathe new life into a relationship. You’ll also hear personal stories and relatable examples, making it clear that everyone—even the “experts”—faces these tough times.Tune in to discover what it takes to become a holder of hope for your relationship, why seeking outside guidance isn’t just helpful but sometimes necessary, and how the skills for emotional safety and deeper connection are learned, not innate. Whether you’re struggling with chronic friction, communication issues, or just feel stuck in a rut, this episode offers practical wisdom, encouragement, and a roadmap for rekindling joy with your partner. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation that could be the very first step on your journey to a happier, healthier relationship!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
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Sep 26, 2025 • 36min

244 - Are You Emotionally Safe in Your Relationship? Try Our Assessment and Learn More

Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation CoachingOr email us directly at coaching@relationshiprenovation.com with the subject line “Couples Coaching Application.” Order Relationship Renovation at Home Manual from AmazonJoin Our Patreon CommunityTake the Emotional Safety Assessment QuizEJ and Tarah Kerwin dive into the power of their Emotional Safety Assessment—a free tool now available on their website. They openly model the entire process, walking through all 13 questions and sharing their honest scores and reflections. Listeners will get a behind-the-scenes look at how the hosts use this assessment both personally and with the couples they coach, highlighting its ability to reveal strengths and pinpoint areas needing attention. With real-life examples, self-awareness, and moments of humor, EJ and Tarah demonstrate how understanding your individual and shared emotional safety is the foundation for deeper intimacy and connection.This episode is a must-listen for couples seeking practical, actionable ways to improve relationship closeness and trust. Whether you’re wondering how emotionally safe your partnership feels or seeking new tools for growth, EJ and Tarah guide you through using the assessment and interpreting its results—without judgment or resorting to blame. Discover what emotional safety really means, why it matters, and how couples at any stage can move from surviving to thriving. Tune in for vulnerable storytelling, expert insights, and the inspiration you need to start your own path to a more connected, emotionally safe relationship.**Take the Emotional Safety Quiz***Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
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Sep 19, 2025 • 20min

243 - Boosting Connection in Relationships: How to Predict Plan Prepare for Daily Challenges

Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation CoachingOrder Relationship Renovation at Home Manual from AmazonJoin Our Patreon CommunityTake the Emotional Safety Assessment QuizOn this episode of Relationship Renovation, Tarah and EJ Kerwin share the secret weapon they use to bring calm, clarity, and connection to even the most stressful parts of daily life: the “Predict, Plan, Prepare” (Triple P) tool, developed by renowned relationship expert Dr. Stan Tatkin. Listen in as they break down exactly how Triple P works, why couples struggle without a plan, and how this simple mindset shift can minimize conflict and help partners feel like a true team—even during life’s most hectic moments. With honest anecdotes about their own home routines (think school mornings and dividing chores), Tarah and EJ show you how implementing this tool can help dissolve tension, foster emotional safety, and prevent the cycle of disconnection from taking hold.Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
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Sep 12, 2025 • 31min

242 - Creating Intentional Seasons: Tools to Keep Your Relationship from Getting Lost in Life’s Chaos

Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation CoachingOrder Relationship Renovation at Home Manual from AmazonJoin Our Patreon CommunityTake the Emotional Safety Assessment QuizIn this episode of Relationship Renovation, EJ and Tarah Kerwin share real-life experiences and expert insights on how couples can "change the season" in their lives rather than letting external events dictate the tone of their relationship. You'll discover a simple yet powerful three-step framework—awareness, boundaries, and intentional rituals—to help you and your partner name your current season, create practices that support your relationship, and shift out of reactivity into empowered connection. Whether you’re navigating a hectic school schedule, a major life transition, or just the everyday grind, this episode is packed with relatable stories and actionable advice to help you stay grounded, connected, and in charge of your relationship journey.Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
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Sep 5, 2025 • 51min

241 - Rebuilding Connection: How Ben and Julie Transformed Their Marriage After 27 Years

Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation CoachingOrder Relationship Renovation at Home Manual from AmazonJoin Our Patreon CommunityTake the Emotional Safety Assessment Quiz In this heartfelt episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosts EJ and Tarah Kerwin sit down with Ben and Julie, a couple who met in high school, faced the challenges of teen parenthood, and nearly reached their breaking point after 27 years together. Through their honest and vulnerable conversation, Ben and Julie share what brought them to couples counseling, how learning tools like emotional check-ins and self-soothing changed everything, and why healing old wounds transformed not only their relationship, but their whole family. Whether you’re on the verge of giving up or just looking for hope, this episode will inspire you to believe that deeper happiness and connection truly are possible—no matter how long you’ve been together.Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
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Aug 29, 2025 • 30min

240 - What Families Need to Know About Childhood OCD and Anxiety

Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation CoachingOrder Relationship Renovation at Home Manual from AmazonJoin Our Patreon CommunityTake the Emotional Safety Assessment QuizAre you struggling to support a loved one dealing with anxiety or OCD?Wondering how to recognize the difference between comforting and enabling anxious behaviors?Curious about what practical steps actually help when someone you care about is overwhelmed by fearful thoughts?In this heartwarming episode, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin welcome their daughter Mia to share her candid journey with OCD and anxiety. Together, they explore Mia's experience from early challenges and therapy breakthroughs to the communication strategies that made a difference within their family. Whether you’re a parent, partner, or someone seeking stronger emotional connections, you'll discover actionable advice for building resilience, offering support without reinforcing fears, and fostering trust in your most important relationships. Tune in for insights that will empower you to navigate anxiety and strengthen your bond with the people you love.Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
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Aug 22, 2025 • 31min

239 - Beyond the Diagnosis: Ben Tzeel on Love, Self-Advocacy, and Lasting Relationship Success

Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation CoachingOrder Relationship Renovation at Home Manual from AmazonJoin Our Patreon CommunityTake the Emotional Safety Assessment QuizAre you or your partner navigating the challenges of a chronic condition like diabetes in your relationship?Wondering how you can support a loved one without overstepping, or how to maintain open communication and intimacy?Curious about strategies to set healthy boundaries and foster empowerment together? IIn this heartfelt episode, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin sit down with Ben Tzeel—a registered dietitian, certified diabetes educator, and strength coach who’s thrived with type 1 diabetes for over 25 years. Ben shares invaluable personal and professional insights on managing diabetes without letting it define your life or your partnership. You'll learn about balancing care and autonomy, the impact of stress on health and relationships, and practical ways couples can communicate, set boundaries, and build trust around health challenges. Whether you’re seeking hope, guidance, or relatable real-life stories, this episode is packed with empowering advice to help couples and individuals strengthen their relationships in the face of adversity.Connect with Ben TzeelPurchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
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Aug 15, 2025 • 37min

238 - From Divorce to Partnership: Real Skills for First Responder Couples

Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation CoachingOrder Relationship Renovation at Home Manual from AmazonJoin Our Patreon CommunityTake the Emotional Safety Assessment QuizIn this episode of Relationship Renovation, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin sit down with Heather and Paul Christensen, founders of Thin Line Relationships, to explore the unique challenges faced by first responders, healthcare professionals, and military families. Through their own deeply personal story—from survival mode and divorce, to healing, reconnection, and now helping others—Heather and Paul reveal the hidden patterns, practical tools, and mindset shifts that can transform even the most chaotic relationships. Listen in as they discuss real-world solutions for creating emotional safety, overcoming trauma, and rekindling connection, offering hope and actionable advice for any couple ready to thrive amidst life’s pressures.Learn More About Thin Line RelationshipsVisit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
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Aug 8, 2025 • 44min

237 - The Secret to Stronger Relationships: Embracing Emotional Differences

Leanne Rogers, a therapist with a unique background as a former wedding planner, shares her insights on emotional differentiation in relationships. She emphasizes the importance of maintaining individual identity while fostering deep connections. Leanne delves into recognizing emotional patterns and setting healthy boundaries, offering practical tips for couples. The conversation also explores how understanding and embracing emotional differences can lead to personal growth and stronger connections, encouraging vulnerability as a pathway to deeper intimacy.
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Aug 1, 2025 • 50min

236 - Marriage Unfiltered: Coping with Trauma, Busy Family Life, and Staying Connected

Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation CoachingOr email us directly at coaching@relationshiprenovation.com with the subject line “Couples Coaching Application.” Order Relationship Renovation at Home Manual from AmazonJoin Our Patreon CommunityTake the Emotional Safety Assessment QuizIn this special episode, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin sit down with Zach Brittle, host of Marriage Therapy Radio, for a deeply authentic and vulnerable conversation unlike any other.This is a replay of their appearance on Marriage Therapy Radio.Instead of focusing on their roles as therapists or podcasters, Tarah and EJ open up about their journey as a couple—sharing the real, sometimes messy, and absolutely inspiring moments that have shaped their marriage.Get ready to hear the Kerwins talk candidly about what it’s like to be both partners and professionals in the world of marriage counseling. From balancing the pressures of their work with raising a blended family of four kids, to navigating extraordinary personal challenges—including trauma recovery and the transformative impact of ketamine-assisted therapy—they hold nothing back. Zach guides the conversation with compassion and curiosity, asking the kinds of questions that will make you reflect on your own relationship and the growth that comes with adversity.Whether you’re a couple navigating your own ups and downs or just looking for honest insights into what makes a relationship thrive, this episode offers valuable lessons on intimacy, accountability, and the bravery it takes to be truly seen by your partner. Tune in to hear how Tarah and EJ have rebuilt, reimagined, and renovated their own relationship—and how their story can inspire yours.Learn More About Zach BrittleListen to Marriage Therapy RadioSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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