Velvet's Edge with Kelly Henderson

Kelly and Chip are join PhD, Author and Dominatrix, Colette Pervette to talk about releasing fear and stepping into your own power. Colette gives her story of getting into BDSM and talks about why her sessions with clients give the biggest life lessons of finding power. The biggest form of power for ourselves comes when we let go of control and surrender. "It's typically the opposite of what human nature tells us about power. Power isn't in control. It's in releasing control." Colette also teaches about releasing judgement and how the real root of our judgements is usually fear and fear of the unknown. Stay curious, y'all. Sign up for: Mistress ClassWebsite: pervette.comSocials: @colettepervette Also mentioned: Renew BreakUp Bootcamp with Amy Chan  Follow Kelly: @velvetsedge  Follow Chip: @chipdorsch Email: theedge@velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It’s spooky season, which makes it the best time to look at the shadow selves within each of us. Master Astrologer, Marvin Wilkerson, joins Kelly to educate listeners on the deep repressed parts of ourselves called the shadow. Marv answers questions like: What is the shadow? How do we know something is a part of our shadow? How do we work with those parts of ourselves and use them to grow and evolve?    “The essence of bravery is being without self-deception. However, it’s not so easy to take a straight look at what we do. Seeing ourselves clearly is initially uncomfortable and embarrassing.” -Pema Chodron   Marv describes how the shadow will present itself in our lives and how we are co-creators in all that we go through as humans. It’s all here to teach us something and enlighten us.    “You learn best from pain and you don’t forget pain.” - Marv    “In this life, no one person is better than anyone else. We all have a shadow. In fact, the only way we recognize things in other people is because they are within us.”    Website: astromarv.com Email: marvin@astromarv.com Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's Spoooooooky Season!!! Kelly and Chip introduce this month's topic and discuss all the ways they will be working to overcome fear, face fear and expand their minds and yours with this month's guest. They also present a challenge for everyone to start the month that will be followed up on in the last episode of the month!  Follow Kelly: @velvetsedge  Follow Chip: @chipdorsch Email: theedge@velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kelly is joined by wealth strategist/business mentor, multiple six-figure entrepreneur and Forbes Coaches Council member, Hannah Koenig, to talk about healing our relationships with money. Hannah is the founder of the Lead Well Summit, a free workshop, that invites well respected experts, authors and entrepreneurs in the money world to cover topics like: trauma and shame around money, emotional spending, financial feminism, investing, credit, debt, budgeting, wealth embodiment and more. Hannah talks to Kelly specifically about the struggles she sees many women facing with money, how to start building wealth- especially if you are just trying to get by and pay your bills and discover the root problem around your relationship with money. Hannah uses similar analogies that are used in healing relationships to healing your relationship with money. Her approach as a young woman herself, makes it easy to digest and less overwhelming, while also giving listeners simple places to start regardless of current circumstances and financial setbacks. She also coaches Kelly on how to ask for more money in her job and own her value. website: Lead Well Summit Socials: @iamhannahkoenig Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kelly and Chip wrap up the month of September and reflect on the topic of acceptance. Chip has trouble focusing, Kelly talks about her spray tan that has her looking like tan mom and also her new relationship with social media. Follow Kelly: @velvetsedge  Follow Chip: @chipdorsch Email: theedge@velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr. Ingrid Clayton joins Kelly to discuss what healing from complex trauma looks like. She describes what trauma responses look like and explains that many people confuse these responses with thinking “that’s just the way I am.” Dr. Clayton explains narcissistic abuse in ways that are easy to digest and also breaks down why it is so important for survivors to feel heard.Book: Believing MeSocials: @ingridclaytonphdWebsite: ingridclayton.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Many of you may know singer/songwriter, Blessing Offor, as the outstanding vocalist who sang so strongly he had all four judges turn their chairs around. Although his talent is something only dreams are made of, it's his sroty of hardship and then his positive outlook on life that makes him the magnetic human that he is. Blessing was born without vision in his left eye and lost vision in his right eye in an accident as a young boy. To most, this would be a tragedy hard to recover from, for Blessing it was his call to channel that hardship into purpose. "If you told me I had the chance to do that moment (losing vision in his right eye) all over again, I would say, where do I stand? I would do it exactly as it happened, because that moment is the moment that shaped me into who I am today." Blessing talks about the one question he asks himself when he is having a hard time or bad day/moment: "We put so much energy into what's wrong, like the traffic, and what I know is that it's never really about the traffic. There is always something deeper that's actually going on." His favorite quote:"Grief carves a canyon, so that joy can overflow it." And the best tidbit his therapist ever pointed out to him about the human condition: "Sitting with yourself is a truly POWERFUL thing." Blessing also tells Chip and Kelly about his musical inspirations, new music coming up and where listeners can go on the journey with him. website: blessingoffor.com socials: @blessingoffor    Follow Kelly: @velvetsedge  Follow Chip: @chipdorsch Email: theedge@velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

International Coach and Intuitive, Amanda Marit, works with entrepreneurs, high level leaders and celebrities in all areas of their careers to tap into their intuition and lead successful business and relationships. She breaks down simple tools to tap into your intuition and leads Kelly and listeners through a two minute quick guide to listening to your higher self. Some Velvet’s Edge podcast turn into mini therapy sessions and this is one between soul sisters!    Website: amandamarit.com  Socials: @theamandamarit Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kelly and Chip welcome back New York Times Best Selling Author and practicing intuitive, Laura Day, to discuss how to use your intuition in love practices.  According to Laura, human connection is the number 1 need for survival, so how do we attract a love that fits. She breaks down specifics, even tips for building a dating profile that attracts the love you want.  Laura also explains why breakups can feel even physically painful painful and explains why many of us stay stuck after a relationship ending.  Socials: @lauradayintuit  Website: Lauraday.com Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Description: Kelly talks to New York Times Best Selling Author and practicing intuitive, Laura Day, about how everyone in life has their own intuition just waiting to be tapped into. She teaches and facilitates many workshops, helping others learn how to navigate our own intuition in life. Laura explains the difference between anxiety and intuition, how we speak to each other telepathically at all times and how we can tap into our intuition in business. Laura uses years of experience predicting stock market crashes, product launches and more to relate and connect to humans, even at dinner parties. Website: lauraday.comSocials: @lauradayintuit Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.