Velvet's Edge with Kelly Henderson

Kelly welcomes men’s sexuality coach, Taylor Clark Johnson, to discuss our culture’s relationship to sex and how you can change your own life and relationships by rewiring your brain in your own sexuality.    Taylor describes his own personal journey from erectile dysfunction, early ejaculation and porn addiction to becoming a men’s coach and helping other men on their journey’s to fulfilling and happy sex lives.      Topics discussed include:    -the impact of porn on relationships   -how porn contributed to his erectile dysfunction    -also why he isn’t shaming anyone for getting off on porn and ways to navigate changes in this area if you so desire    -the lack of education and discussion of sex and healthy sexuality in our society    -what is soul fucking?   -making love vs fucking    -self pleasure without porn or fantasy   -sexual astrology    -shame around sex and masturbation for women    -if you like anal play and are a man does that make you gay?   Socials: @taylorclarkjohnson  Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/links/ Book discussed: Getting the Love You Want;  Sexual Astrology   Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kelly tells a story of warning about her experience of almost being scammed by men acting like police officers. Please listen if you have received any PPP loans and make sure this doesn’t happen to you. Chip is back in the States. They introduce this month’s theme. Follow Kelly: @velvetsedge  Follow Chip: @chipdorsch Email: theedge@velvetsedge.com  Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kelly welcomed Master Astrolger, Marvin Wilkerson, back for Marv’s monthly astrology reading. The energy of October was pretty intense with two eclipses in Taurus wrapping up the month, so Marv discusses what lessons were tied to those eclipses and gives an update on what to expect moving into November with a new moon in Scorpio.Website: astromarv.comEmail: marvin@astromarv.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Chip joins Kelly from Australia, to wrap up this month in podcasts and give all the updates from his trip.  Follow Kelly: @velvetsedge  Follow Chip: @chipdorsch Email: theedge@velvetsedge.com  Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kelly welcomes back Enneagram informed therapist, Katie Gustafson to discuss each enneagram number’s core fear. In the often not discussed shadow side of the enneagram, Katie describes how each numbers core fear is a massive part of what drives their day to day life and decisions. The women give examples of the fears playing out in each number’s lives and Katie gives tools to work with and overcome the fears to live a happy and fulfilling life. Socials: @katiegustafson  Website: katiegustafson.co  Enneagram Tools: The Practice (https://katiegustafson.co/thepractice)Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kelly and Chip revisit a conversation with sex expert, Susan Bratton, that has them asking the question - does sex get better with age? Plenty of studies and research have suggested that sex does get better with age, and that it's a habit that only improves with experience and understanding of self. So contrary to common myth, you're unlikely to be having the best sex of your life in your 20s. That particular accolade kicks in a few years later.  -https://www.flashpack.com/us/solo/relationships/better-sex-30s-40s-empowerment/#:~:text=Plenty%20of%20studies%20and%20research,in%20a%20few%20years%20later. In this conversation, Susan is discussing the importance of sex for mental health, but ends up telling a story about having sex with her husband the night before and what that looks like in her 60’s. Susan addresses how unhappy she was previously in their sex life and what changed for her and them once she decided to voice her needs and they began exploring more. Susan also explains how that situation ultimately led her to create her current business of teaching couples about having heart connected, mind blowing sex at any age.  Resources mentioned:Moresexmoreoften.comExpandherorgasmtonight.comBetterlover.comInstagram: @susanbrattonFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Description: CONTENT WARNING: this podcast involves stories of childhood sexual abuse.  As a survivor of child sexual assault of the 1999 child pornography case in Willow River, BC, Jessalynn Biederstadt, has shown immense strength in her healing journey. She has spent years working to overcome the trauma she faced and one thing that has helped her most on her journey to building the extraordinary life she has today is speaking with others to share stories of strength and resilience. Jessalynn is now turning her pain into purpose and aims to break the silence and stigma surrounding trauma through honest conversations on her podcast Invisible Scars. She joined Kelly to tell her story of tragedy and triumph.    Podcast: Invisible Scars  Socials: @invisiblescarspodcast Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Amongst all the heaviness in the world this week, Chip and Kelly attempt to bring a little lightness and joy with Halloween discussion, costume ideas and stories.  Follow Kelly: @velvetsedge  Follow Chip: @chipdorsch Email: theedge@velvetsedge.com  Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

 Kelly talks to author, speaker and podcast host Katie Horwitch about confronting those often unknown negative narratives circling in our heads in order to unearth the strength in who you were all along.  Katie's new book, Want Your Self, breaks down the ways to identify these negative self-talk patterns, the difference between self like and self love and the 4 steps to self that are the foundation of it all. According to Katie, shifting your negative self talk is more than just speaking nicely to yourself. Katie and Kelly both also share personal examples of ways they have shifted the negative self-talk happening in their lives and the changes they have seen because of it.  Website: katiehorwitch.com Podcast: The WantCast  Book: Want Your Self  Socials: @katiehorwitch WANT website: Women Against Negative Talk --Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kelly & Chip reveal this month's theme word. The duo also describes their best Halloween costumes and Halloween street activity participation. Chip also tells Kelly what he thinks will happen to her if she ever eats gluten or dairy or anything that isn't labeled organic.  Follow Kelly: @velvetsedge  Follow Chip: @chipdorsch Email: theedge@velvetsedge.com  Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.