Good Moms Bad Choices

Motherhood doesn’t mean losing your identity, your sensuality, or your freedom. This week, Erica and Milah confront the outdated “perfect mom” stereotype and challenge the idea that motherhood means: dressing conservatively, hiding your sex life, or being ashamed of smoking weed. This episode is a reminder that you can be a loving, responsible parent and still show skin, smoke a blunt, and have good sex. It’s not about being reckless, it’s about being real. You can expect to hear: The biggest lies society tells about “wild moms” Why it’s perfectly fine to smoke weed How to survive your hoe phase after motherhood The importance of showing kids how to properly clean themselves, even if you need to include props and Nutella Why Banana Republic and kitten heels might be a crime against moms everywhere The line between freedom and “put some damn clothes on, mom!” ------------------------ Watch This episode & more on YouTube!  Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your questions   Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Join our private Facebook group!   Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @Milah_Mapp ------------------------------------------------ 🏝️🧘🏾‍♀️ Good Vibe Retreat 🏝️🧘🏾‍♀️ Our summer retreats in Costa Rica are almost here! Book now, pay later because healing should fit your budget too!! Option 1: July 31st- August 5th Option 2: August 8th- August 13th Use promo code ESCAPE at checkout for a deal you don’t want to miss. ------------------------------------------------ 🥰😝🍆 Spice up the bedroom🥰😝🍆: LEXUS: An innovative couples' sex toy set that's designed to sync clitoral vibrations to your partner's rhythm and closeness. Its ergonomic design seamlessly enhances your intimate moments, heightening pleasure and deepening your connection without disruption. Check out using this link and thank us later!! https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/SHJM   Kiiro Toys: Theres something here for everyone, trust us! ------------------------------------------------ 💊Take your Vitamins! 💊 In the spirit of growing up, it's also time for you to grow up and start taking your vitamins! Check out www.Blackvitamins.co and find the best vitamins for Black Women, by Black women. Use Promo code GoodMoms20 at check out! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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The hosts tackle the contrast between traditional roles and modern motherhood, celebrating empowerment through unconventional choices. Delving into philosophical discussions about aging, they explore the concept of 'trans age' and its relevance to personal growth. Reality TV becomes a lens to critique societal expectations of motherhood, while the emphasis on nurturing creativity in children highlights the balance between discipline and freedom. They also reflect on parenting challenges and the importance of intentional living, sprinkled with a dose of humor and tarot insights.

The hosts dive into their rejuvenating retreats in Costa Rica and share how they're surviving summer by sending their kids to overnight camp. They reflect on America’s chaotic state and discuss the importance of genuine consumer behavior. With humor, they explore the challenges of parenting in the digital age while balancing freedom and protection for their children. The episode also features a light-hearted look at summer memories, embracing self-love, and navigating societal pressures as they juggle motherhood and personal growth.

In this lively discussion, the hosts react to wild internet clips, spotlighting bizarre reality TV shows and playful parenting takes. They explore whether cursing boosts kids' confidence and reveal surprising celebrity parenting stats. With humor, they tackle the chaotic nature of parenting and the intricacies of identity, while also sharing candid stories about dad culture and modern dog ownership. As summer approaches, they stress the importance of setting boundaries for kids, all while preparing for a fun retreat in Costa Rica!

“ Pleasure is not a luxury, it’s your birthright”   This week, the Good Moms are joined by intimacy expert, author, and as we’ve decided to call her “Sex Santa” Susan Bratton for a funny and informative look into  pleasure, partnership, and personal transformation through the exploration of your body.   From 12 years of sexless marriage to becoming a global educator on over 20 types of orgasms, Susan shares how she turned her own bedroom into a second career filled with vibrators, science, and soul-level healing. The three caht about everything from vulva-friendly sex toys to throatgasms, ethical non-monogamy, and the quiet power of a well-prepped yoni massage.  You can expect to hear: (12:10) Susan’s previously dull sex life, awakening through pleasure, and how orgasmic healing saved her marriage (20:00) What it means to be an “orgasmonaut” and why most women are settling for way too little in and out of the bedroom (28:45) Susan breaks down over 20 orgasm types, including throatgasms, analgasms, nipplegasms, and more (35:10) The science behind expanded orgasm and why it’s not just about sex it’s about source (44:20) Yoni massage, the Queen vibrator, and why most sex toys are designed without Black women in mind (51:50) Thrust-in-time: a Taoist technique to make intercourse more orgasmic and deeply connective (1:03:30) Why Susan loves sex toys that vibe with your partner, not just beside them (1:07:00) Grandmas use vibrators too (1:10:45) Cannabis and your libido (1:19:20) Ethical non-monogamy, kitchen table polyamory, and how she manages a husband and a boyfriend with her daughter’s full knowledge (1:27:15) STI testing without the awkward clinic trip and how new tech makes screening easier than ever (1:32:40) Affirmation of the Week: “More toys, more orgasms, more joy. Pleasure is my birthright.” Whether you're solo, partnered, or just vibing with curiosity, this episode offers a powerful reminder: pleasure is not a luxury, it's information, it’s medicine, and it’s yours to claim.   ------------------------ Links mentioned in this week's episode: orgasmicintercourse.com – A free resource for learning techniques for orgasmic intercourse. fullpaneltest.com – STI home testing service  thrustintime.com –Technique for deeper sexual connection and stimulation. betterlover.com – education and resources on sex, intimacy, and pleasure. Lexus/Kiiro- LINK HERE       ------------------------ Watch This episode & more on YouTube!    Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Join our private Facebook group!   Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your questions   Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @Milah_Mapp --------- Got a lover? Join our Couples Retreat Code: PleasureSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this lively discussion, comedian and podcast host Jessie Woo shares her journey from a strict Haitian upbringing to her rise in the entertainment industry. She delves into the complex dynamics of mother-daughter relationships, revealing how upbringing shapes intimacy and boundaries. Jessie reflects on the cultural expectations for girls versus boys and candidly addresses the emotional scars that can linger into adulthood. Plus, get ready for some laughs as she shares her unexpected "crush" on Morgan Freeman!

Happy Father's Day Tribe!   Welcome back to Good Mom Bad Choices! This week we are joined by comedian, actor and voice over extraordinaire ‪@TonyBakercomedy‬! Tune into the conversation as Tony confesses his favorite sex position, porn category, journey to Hollywood as an extra.   In this week’s episode, we switch gears and deep dive into fatherhood, grief, and the tragic loss of Tony’s child in 2021. Tony shares advice to those who experienced the death of a child and the importance of loving our loved ones out loud while they are here. This was a hilarious and heartfelt conversation you don’t want to miss. In this episode, you can expect to hear:    Journey to Stardom: Tony Baker talks Transformers, stand-up comedy, his road to Hollywood (6:00) The Good Mom Effect: The ladies and Tony discuss Baby Boy roleplaying, cursing during sex, and bringing out your animal side (17:30)  Theater 101: The Good Moms and Tony have fun with voiceover improv (34:00)  Trigger: Tony talks fatherhood, favorite positions, and interracial dating (45:15) Men Heal Too: Tony shares his experience navigating the grief of losing a child and finding forgiveness (1:04:45)  ------------------------ Watch This episode & more on YouTube!    Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Join our private Facebook group!   Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your questions   Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @Milah_Mapp --------- Got a lover? Join our Couples Retreat Code: PleasureSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Erica and Milah are joined by podcaster, friend, and newwwww author, Mandii B!!     The ladies talk about the process and revelations of writing the book  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power” written by Mandii B and WeezyWTF.   The three chat about the unexpected connection between shame and true sexual empowerment, the hidden ways women their worth to male validation, and why the choices you made in the past shape who you're becoming.   You can expect to hear: Why Mandii believes you can’t talk about sexual liberation without talking about shame An honest conversation about dating married men and the emotional logic behind it How childhood shaped Mandii’s views on relationships, money, and emotional survival The hidden trauma of stealthing and the struggle to name sexual assault What a sober, celibate era reveals about your relationship with safety and sex The surprising lessons behind Mandii’s first (and worst) pegging experience A chaotic but consensual Whorie story you won’t forget (involving pasta and group play)   Support Black Authorsssss!! Pre-order your copy of the book, “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power” written by Mandii B and WeezyWTF. ------------ CONTENT WARNING: **At several points in this episode, the conversation touches on experiences of sexual trauma and assault. We encourage you to listen in a way that feels safe for you.** ------------------------ Watch This episode & more on YouTube!    Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Join our private Facebook group!   Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your questions   Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @Milah_Mapp --------- Got a lover? Join our Couples Retreat Code: PleasureSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Good Moms are joined by Kenya Stevens, spiritual teacher, mother, founder of the Progressive Love Academy, and a woman with not one, but four husbands to talk about polyamory, parenting, and partnership.   Kenya shares her journey from monogamous marriage to multi-partner love, and how she had to build the framework for her lifestyle without any roadmap or community to lean on. We talk about emotional safety, jealousy, communication tools, and why being poly is actually a spiritual practice.    You can expect to hear: (05:30) Bougie gym culture, baby daddy run-ins, and the art of co-parenting while sharing a house (17:10) Why Kenya believes monogamy isn’t natural and how her journey began with “just a dream” (28:45) How she and her husband of 30 years transitioned from jealousy to unconditional love (41:20) The spiritual side of polyamory—and why it’s definitely not about cheating with consent (52:50)  Relationship “repair,” emotional containers, and how to have hard conversations without losing your mind (1:07:00)  Feminine Choice Paradigm : Womb choice vs. heart choice vs. crown choice: yes, you can like that man and want to learn from him (1:22:15) Kenya’s talks about menopause, pleasure, and why she’s aging backwards (1:37:00) What it really takes to be “ready” for multiple partners  (1:22:15)  Menopause, orgasms, and the glow-up that came with sexual freedom (1:37:00) How to know if you’re actually ready for polyamory    Whether you're exploring new ways to love, reflecting on your emotional patterns, or just a little curious there’s something here for you! Make sure to send it to a friend! ------------------------- Watch This episode & more on YouTube!    Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Join our private Facebook group!   Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your questions   Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @Milah_Mapp --------- Got a lover? Join our Couples Retreat Code: PleasureSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.