

What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms
Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson
When you're a parent, every day brings a "fresh hell" to deal with. In other words, there's always something. Think of us as your funny mom friends who are here to remind you: you're not alone, and it won't always be this hard.We're Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables, both busy moms of three kids, but with completely different parenting styles. Margaret is a laid-back to the max; Amy never met a spreadsheet or an organizational system she didn't like.In each episode of "What Fresh Hell" we offer lots of laughs, but also practical advice, parenting strategies, and tips to empower you in your role as a mom. We explore self-help techniques, as well as ways to prioritize your own needs, combat stress, and despite the invisible workload we all deal with, find joy amidst the chaos of motherhood.If you've ever wondered "why is my kid..." then one of us has probably been there, and we're here to tell you what we've learned along the way.We unpack the behaviors and developmental stages of toddlers, tweens, and teenagers, providing insights into their actions and equipping you with effective parenting strategies.We offer our best parenting tips and skills we've learned. We debate the techniques and studies that are everywhere for parents these days, and get to the bottom of what works best to raise happy, healthy, fairly well-behaved kids, while fostering a positive parent-child relationship.If you're the default parent in your household, whether you're a busy mom juggling multiple pickups and dropoffs, or a first-time parent seeking guidance, this podcast is your trusted resource. Join our community of supportive mom friends laughing in the face of motherhood! whatfreshhellpodcast.com
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Sep 1, 2025 • 47min
BEST OF: How Involved Should We Be With Our Kids' Schools?
How do we help our kids succeed in school without becoming the dreaded "snowplow" parents? Here are some parenting tips for advocating for your child at school when necessary, while also empowering our kids to navigate their own learning.
Amy and Margaret discuss:
How school environments have changed in the last few decades
Best practices for helping kids of different ages manage homework
How to start a productive conversation with your child's educators about concerns you may have
Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:
Jenny Anderson for TIME Magazine: "Many American Parents Have No Idea How Their Kids Are Doing in School"
Carrie Bauer, et. al, for Slate: Help Me Help My Kid
Libby Stanford for Education Week: "Does Parent Involvement Really Help Students? Here’s What the Research Says"
U.S. Department of Education: "Raise the Bar: Resources for Parents and Families"
Cara Goodwin for KQED's Mind/Shift: "How important is homework, and how much should parents help?"
See our interview with Jennifer Breheny Wallace - author of Never Enough: When Achievement Culture Becomes Toxic — and What We Can Do About It
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Aug 29, 2025 • 47min
BEST OF: What Kind of Monster? Family Vacation Edition
Toddler meltdowns, stroller mayhem, ear infections. Doesn't that sound so relaxing? In this listener-sourced episode, moms everywhere unleash frustration over the "monsters" who have made their vacations difficult - nay, impossible.
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Aug 27, 2025 • 41min
Radical Acceptance—What It Is, and How It Can Help Our Parenting
Amy and Margaret dive deep into the concept of radical acceptance—what it is, what it isn’t, and how it can transform your approach to parenting, relationships, and life’s toughest moments. From the wisdom of the Serenity Prayer to Buddhist teachings about the “second arrow,” the hosts unpack how accepting reality (without judgment or resistance) can help you move forward, even when things are hard.
In This Episode:
What is radical acceptance? (Hint: It’s not denial or resignation!)
The “second arrow” metaphor: why our reactions often cause more suffering than the original pain
How radical acceptance helps parents deal with shame, guilt, and the pressure to “fix” everything
Real-life examples: from parenting challenges to personal setbacks
Actionable steps: mindfulness, self-compassion, and telling yourself the truth
Why acceptance doesn’t mean giving up—it’s the first step to wise action
Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:
Arlin Cuncic for VeryWell Mind: How to Embrace Radical Acceptance
Tara Brach: The Wise Heart of Radical Acceptance
Tara Brach for Counseling Center Group: Embrace Life with Radical Acceptance
Dr. Ramani Durvasula on YouTube: 6 Things You NEED to Know About Radical Acceptance
BorderLiner Notes on YouTube: How She Learned Radical Acceptance | MARSHA LINEHAN
RADICAL ACCEPTANCE by Tara Brach
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Aug 25, 2025 • 39min
BEST OF: What Fresh Hell Is Back to School?
It's back-to-school season, and even if that means you have a few more hours to yourself each day, there are still plenty of fresh hells in store, from preseason sports to parent portals to an unholy invention called "ready confetti". Amy and Margaret share their own stories of times when back-to-school meant drive-me-mad.
Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:
Phyllis Fagell for The Washington Post: "Five ways parents can help children have a better school year"
Ratchetdemic by Christopher Emdin
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Aug 22, 2025 • 39min
Fresh Take: Jyoti Chand, FITTING INDIAN
Margaret talks to author and mental health advocate Jyoti Chand (aka @mamajotes) about her debut graphic novel FITTING INDIAN. Jyoti shares how the novel integrates details from her own childhood, including the weight of cultural expectations in Indian families and the power of storytelling in healing generational trauma.
Jyoti Chand is an author, speaker, and mental health advocate with a dedicated audience of over 300k across social platforms, where she is known as @mamajotes.
Margaret and Jyoti discuss:
The stigma of mental health in South Asian culture and how social media portrays parenting realities.
Breaking generational cycles and the importance of understanding and managing emotions for children
The importance of community in the healing process
Here's where you can find Jyoti:
@mamajotes on IG and YouTube
Buy FITTING INDIAN: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9780063237544
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Aug 20, 2025 • 41min
How to Make the Back-to-School Transition a Little Easier
Back-to-school season doesn’t have to be a chaotic scramble. In this episode, Margaret and Amy share practical tips to help parents make the transition smoother—without getting caught up in the “back-to-school industrial complex.”
From resetting sleep schedules to planning meals and snacks, they break down what really matters for your child’s success and well-being this fall. You’ll hear strategies for easing morning stress, tackling "after-school restraint collapse,” and checking in on your family’s values to make sure those priorities are aligning with your new-school-year schedule.
Margaret and Amy discuss:
How much sleep kids really need—and how to help them get it
Meal and snack strategies to keep your kid energized
Using visual schedules to stay organized
Why mental health should be your #1 back-to-school priority
If you know a parent feeling overwhelmed this season, share this episode with them—they’ll thank you!
Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:
Drew DeSilver for Pew Research Center: ‘Back to school’ means anytime from late July to after Labor Day, depending on where in the U.S. you live
Rachel Murphy for PennState blog: The Medical Minute: Parents, add these health tips to back-to-school to-do lists
Fousia Abdullahi for Fort Worth Star-Telegram: Expert advice for a stress-free back-to-school season for North Texas families
Bear in the Big Blue House potty-training episode
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Aug 18, 2025 • 43min
DEEP DIVE: Kelly Corrigan on Letting Big Kids Go
What does it mean to parent grown children? How can we embrace those changing relationships? Kelly Corrigan, host of "Kelly Corrigan Wonders", four-time New York Times bestselling author, and the host of PBS’ long-form interview show Tell Me More, talks with Amy about the process of letting our big kids go.
Kelly and Amy discuss:
why the thing our older kids might most want to hear from us is, simply, "I know"
why mothers and fathers might get different versions of the same stories from their kids
Kelly's top advice for younger parents
Here's where you can find Kelly:
https://www.kellycorrigan.com/
@kellycorrigan on IG
Listen to Kelly's podcast "Kelly Corrigan Wonders"
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Aug 15, 2025 • 42min
Fresh Take: Mike de la Rocha, SACRED LESSONS
Margaret talks with visionary strategist, artist, and activist Mike de la Rocha, author of Sacred Lessons: Teaching My Father How to Love. Together, they dive into masculinity, grief, intergenerational trauma, and how breaking cycles of emotional silence can transform families. Mike shares vulnerable insights into his father’s legacy, how ritual and presence shape connection, and the power of healing in community.
Whether you're parenting sons, navigating emotional communication in marriage, or seeking deeper understanding of male vulnerability, this episode offers a compassionate lens on love, fatherhood, and the courage to speak out.
Margaret and Mike discuss:
Emotional silence passed through generations of men
The healing power of ritual, community, and storytelling
Redefining masculinity and strength in today’s world
Parenting boys with presence and curiosity
How grief catalyzed the writing of Sacred Lessons
Building deeper emotional intimacy with the men in our lives
Here's where you can find Mike:
sacredlessons.com
Follow Mike on Instagram: @mrmikedelarocha
Buy SACRED LESSONS: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9798888454152
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Aug 13, 2025 • 44min
More Husband Crimes (Part One)
Margaret and Amy return to the courtroom of minor domestic infractions committed by the people we live with—our partners. Listeners shared their biggest household grievances—and the hosts delivered judgment. No offense is too petty when it comes to the everyday annoyances that drive us all a little bit bonkers.
Margaret and Amy discuss:
Thermostat wars
(Inaccurate) male descriptions of childbirth
Incriminating use of the royal "We"
Here is the NYT article Amy referenced:
Jackie Delamatre for the NYT: Is Going to the Bathroom ‘Just in Case’ Bad for You?
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Aug 11, 2025 • 40min
DEEP DIVE: Vanessa Kroll Bennett and Dr. Cara Natterson on Puberty
These days, early is normal for puberty onset—and early is REALLY early. That means kids whose brains might not match the way they look, and parents who are freaking out about how to bring these delicate matters up in conversation.
Help is here! Dr. Cara Natterson and Vanessa Kroll Bennett, co-hosts of The Puberty Podcast and co-authors of This Is So Awkward: Modern Puberty Explained, offer clear explanations (for parents and kids both!) and ways to start talking.
Margaret, Amy, Vanessa, and Cara discuss:
How puberty has changed in the past few decades
Why we should treat kids as the age they are, not the age they appear
Why "the talk" isn't a one-and-done conversation
Here's where you can find Vanessa and Cara:
https://orderofmagnitude.co/
IG and TikTok: @less.awkward
Buy This is So Awkward: Modern Puberty Explained: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9780593580950
Listen to The Puberty Podcast
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