What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms DEEP DIVE: Why Kids Need More Time To Play
Dec 8, 2025
Kids today have less time for independent play, leading to a decline in their mental well-being, as highlighted by new research. The hosts discuss how past generations enjoyed free play without adult interference, contrasting it with today's structured environments. Risky play is emphasized as essential for building confidence and problem-solving skills. They also explore how parents can balance safety while granting children more independence to foster happiness. A thought-provoking conversation on the value of letting kids take some risks!
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Play Decline Linked To Child Wellbeing
- Peter Gray's thesis links the rise in children's mental disorders to a decades-long decline in unsupervised, independent play.
- Margaret and Amy find the claim bold but ultimately persuasive after reviewing supporting research.
Safer World, Less Independence
- Today's world is objectively safer but also more supervisable, which paradoxically increases adult control over kids' activities.
- That increased supervision reduces chances for independent risk-taking and skill development.
School Time Eats Play Time
- School demands have risen: longer school years, longer days, more homework, and less recess than decades ago.
- Amy and Margaret estimate kids now spend about 11 extra hours weekly on school-related activities versus previous generations.
