Not Alone

This episode is brought to you by the following: Lume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo codeVALERIA at https://www.LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepodCozy Earth: Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/notalone and use code VALERIA for an exclusive discount for up to 40% off Betterhelp: Give online therapy a try at https://www.betterhelp.com/notalone and get on your way to being your best selfValeria chats with astrologer Danielle Paige about the practical power of astrology in everyday life. Danielle, a renowned astrologer and spiritual teacher with over 16 years of experience, shares her journey from a successful career in interior architecture to a spiritual awakening that led her to astrology. They discuss how astrology, particularly through natal charts, sun, moon, and rising signs, helps people better understand their life purpose, emotions, and relationships. Valeria reflects on her own experiences with astrology, exploring how it can be a tool to reconnect with oneself and gain deeper self-awareness. The episode leaves listeners with a sense of empowerment through astrology as a guide for personal development.  Astrology Mystery School Level 1 is Danielle’s most popular masterclass and is closing its doors on October 27th. Danielle will teach you how to read your soul blueprint so you can get clarity in all aspects of your life. In AMS you will learn the language of the stars…which is the language of your soul. Enroll now: http://daniellepaige.com/AMS-enrollFollow Danielle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdaniellepaige/ Join Creator Method: Head to https://www.creatormethod.com and join our thriving community today. Use promo code NOTALONE at checkout to get 10% off your first year of Creator Method membership.Valeria is on:https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/ https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4UHxXWhat We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 00:56 From Interior Design Architecture to Astrology 03:35 Getting a Spiritual Hint 09:24 The Map of Your Soul 12:36 Life is a Repetitive Cycle   14:56 We’re All Multi-Dimensional Beings 19:31 Astrology is About Consciousness 21:33 The Natal Chart is the Blueprint of Your Soul 24:57 Our Consciousness is Expanding 28:16 The False Sense of Control 31:23 What is the Matrix? 33:07 Every Person is Intuitive 37:28 The Big 3 in Astrology 40:55 Valeria’s Natal Reading 49:38 Real Cycle Reading 53:48 How Often Should Readings Happen? 59:32 Is Astrology Connected to Astronomy? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following: Orgain: Get in on delicious protein-packed nutrition today! Head to https://wwwOrgain.com/VALERIA and use code VALERIA for 20% off your order. Nurture Life:  For 55% off your order, head to https://www.NurtureLife.com/valeria and use code VALERIA.  Green Chef: Go to https://www.greenchef.com/valeria50 and use code valeria50 for 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next two months.Today, Valeria and Gary get real about the feedback they've received from listeners. From Gary being called too harsh to comments about their relationship dynamic, they tackle it all head-on with humor and honesty. Valeria opens up about how she feels when Gary’s directness gets misunderstood, and Gary explains why he believes in being straightforward—even if it rubs people the wrong way sometimes.The two dive into how they’ve learned to communicate more effectively, share some laughs about the wild world of online comments, and reflect on the balance between staying true to themselves while also growing together as a couple. Follow Gary on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/garylipovetsky/ Join Creator Method: Head to https://www.creatormethod.com and join our thriving community today. Use promo code NOTALONE at checkout to get 10% off your first year of Creator Method membership.Valeria is on:https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/ https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky Shop this episode: Dress: https://www.zara.com/ca/en/trf-fitted-denim-dress-p03643181.html?v1=370178137 Oura Ring: https://bit.ly/46lWcym Gary’s watch: https://www.longines.com/en-ca/p/watch-longines-spirit-flyback-l3-821-4-53-9 What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 01:40 Every Married Couple Communicates Differently 07:24 Don’t Change to Appease Other People’s Views 09:58 Do You Feel Fulfilled in Your Relationship? 14:01 This is Why Our Marriage Has Worked 16:47 People Just Find Gary to be Harsh 18:02 Firm Communication is Welcome 21:58 The Conversation We Had About My Brain Cyst 31:48 Emotions are Necessary 33:45 Is Gary Threatened by Valeria’s Career? 39:44 Gary’s Pseudo-Intelligent, Snarky Remarks 44:46 Is Gary Being Domineering? 47:03 Let’s Talk About Age Gaps in Couples 54:21 Define an Alpha Male 56:00 Being Direct Might Sound Harsh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by Knix: Get 10% off Valeria’s favourite leakproof underwear at www.knix.com with code VALERIA10Valeria catches up with her stepbrother Denis, seven years after their first video together! They chat about their quirky family dynamics, the funny story of how they met, and Denis’ wild dating life. From family gatherings like Shabbat dinners to the ups and downs of blended family life, nothing’s off the table. Denis spills on his dating mishaps, including catfishing and dating app drama, while they both laugh about the pressure social media adds. They even get into the whole "who pays on dates" debate, with Denis sticking to his gentlemanly ways and Valeria weighing in on today’s mixed signals.Denis is on:https://www.instagram.com/yopdenis Valeria is on:https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWkDFq1pO7YNzifE3A4UsMA https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky Not Alone PodcastShop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4Hz9P Mentioned: The Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwartz: https://www.amazon.com/Paradox-Choice-Why-More-Less/dp/0060005696 Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg Mckeown https://a.co/d/8fifhy1 Tim Ferris: www.instagram.com/timferriss/ Chris Williamson: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx/ Old YouTube videos with Denis:  10 Things NOT TO DO On A First Date Featuring My Brother: https://youtu.be/aygt-N8gnuo  Taking Over My Brother's Tinder: https://youtu.be/cG2vXoWwWvk  I Made My Brother A Birthday Cake, Epic Fail Or Great Success?! https://youtu.be/cG2vXoWwWvk  What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 02:41 Meet Denis, my brother 03:47 Unconventional family connection 07:18 How we met for the first time 08:54 Operation: Move Denis to Miami 10:43 The advice he did not expect to hear 14:51 Introduction on social media 16:48 Ten things not to do on a date 21:51 Time to date intentionally 25:03 Everything closed during the pandemic 27:20 When a man is ready to settle 30:22 Being cautious on social media 32:49 Catfishing  36:11 Distorted expectation 42:56 Be intentional when you date 46:45 Who pays for the date? 49:40 Chivalry is dead 53:19 Guys need to step up 56:32 Are you happy? 59:30 Biggest lesson learned this year 01:07:10 You’re so much like your mom Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by Lume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code VALERIA at https://www.LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepodValeria sits down with her close friend, Aleks Malkin, to discuss the beauty and complexities of life's choices, personal growth, and the paths not taken. The episode dives deep into themes of self-reflection, hyper-independence, and the power of vulnerability, as the two friends share stories of their past, the defining moments that shaped them, and how their perspectives on life have evolved over the years.Aleks opens up about her journey with motherhood, marriage, and the importance of allowing oneself to feel deeply, even if it means facing uncomfortable truths. Valeria shares her own experiences of contemplating the "what ifs" in life, questioning the different paths she could have taken, and the realization that some choices were necessary for her growth. They explore how childhood experiences and societal expectations have influenced their definitions of love, success, and identity, and how they’re striving to create a more authentic and fulfilling life.Follow Aleks on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aleksmalkin/ Mentioned: Byron Katie’s The Work: https://thework.com/ Awareness by Anthony DeMello https://a.co/d/gfyPX0Q Chloe Macintosh: https://www.instagram.com/chloe_macintosh/ Inside Out 2: https://www.disneyplus.com/movies/inside-out-2/6MeZYf9JkFii Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4JhPf What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 01:36 Weekend contemplation 03:52 What could I have done differently? 07:24 Taking alone time 12:06 Self-awareness 14:11 Losing yourself in being a mother 17:08 The 4-Question Inquiry 21:13 Pause and then process the situation 22:02 Somatic way to heal 26:31 You model your values 27:49 How to raise a daughter 30:46 What younger you would have wanted 35:10 Hyper-independence as a coping mechanism 39:04 Pleasure has become synonymous to shame 43:07 The generation that needs a lot of self-work 45:42 Having comfortable conversations with your parents 47:05 Conversation with your mom 52:17 Compassion and space for people 56:06 It’s about creating a safe environment 01:00:56 How do you define real friendships 01:02:37 Are you still working on yourself? 01:03:40 Back from a social media break 01:07:25 Allow things to come to you 01:14:49 How do you give advice to someone? 01:20:23 What’s your purpose? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following:Orgain: If you want to get in on delicious protein-packed nutrition today, head to http://Orgain.com/VALERIA and use code VALERIA for 20% off your order. Orgain is also now available at Costco!Green Chef: Go to https://www.greenchef.com/valeriaclass for 50% off your first box + 50 FREE Credits with ClassPass!Cozy Earth: Visit https://www.cozyearth.com/notalone and use code VALERIA for an exclusive discount of up to 40% off.Better Help: Give online therapy a try at https://www.betterhelp.com/notalone and get on your way to being your best self. In today’s episode, Valeria sits down with Alison Cheperdak, an etiquette coach, author, and lawyer for a deep dive into the world of modern etiquette. Forget the stuffy image of rules about cutlery — Alison shares how etiquette is all about kindness, respect, and navigating relationships in a fast-changing world. The conversation covers everything from first-date dilemmas, setting boundaries in friendships, and handling workplace challenges to mastering the art of introductions and elevating your party & networking experiences Whether you're looking to polish your professional presence, improve your communication, or simply find better ways to connect with others, this episode is packed with practical tips and real-life insights. Valeria and Alison also tackle tricky situations like receiving unwanted gifts, dealing with gossip, and gracefully handling public embarrassment.Join Creator Method: Head to https://www.creatormethod.com and join our thriving community today. Use promo code NOTALONE at checkout to get 10% off your first year of Creator Method membership.Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4OWQE Mentioned: Open by Andre Agassi https://www.amazon.com/Open-Autobiography-Andre-Agassi/dp/0307388409 What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 01:10 What is modern etiquette? 02:21 Misconceptions about etiquette 03:44 Career shift 07:24 Should a woman pay for the first date? 09:16 How to deal with gossips 13:10 Ending friendships 15:35 Unwanted gifts 24:16 Etiquette in the workplace 28:22 Hype yourself up 30:26 It’s not about the gender 35:02 Unwanted attention 36:59 Dress code 40:09 Rude acquaintances 43:51 Backhanded compliments 44:31 Feeling excluded 47:20 Public humiliation 48:58 Incorporate modern etiquette into self-improvement 52:12 Topics to discuss 54:44 Missing the moment to connect 57:41 Etiquette in parties 59:59 How to join a conversation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following: Cozy Earth: Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/notalone and use code VALERIA for anexclusive discount for up to 40% off.Hiya: We've worked out a special deal with Hiya for their best selling children's vitamin. Receive 50% off your first order at https://www.hiyahealth.com/VALERIA. Nurture Life: For 55% off your order, head to https://www.NurtureLife.com and use code VALERIAIn this special episode, Valeria sits down with her 11-year-old son, Jake Lipovetsky, to reflect on their summer experiences, including family trips and Jake's camp adventures. Jake shares lessons on patience, responsibility, and decision-making, especially how he overcame his hesitation to extend his stay at camp. Their conversation explores personal growth, with Jake emphasizing the value of living in the moment and how challenges help build character. He also talks about confidence and self-belief as key elements in personal development. The episode wraps up with Jake discussing his admiration for his parents as role models, particularly for their public speaking and social skills.Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4Prlg Mentioned: Nas Daily Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EyoZdXszaKg What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 02:57 “I wanted to protect you.” 05:26 3-month summer break is boring 07:29 Outdoor activities and personal growth 10:57 How do you view personal growth? 14:35 Believe in yourself 20:35 Do you have limiting beliefs? 26:14 What would change this year? 30:52 Sharpen the skills you have right now 33:37 Jake scared Valeria  39:20 Who’s your role model? 43:22 Do you have goals for yourself? 46:51 “I’m lucky you’re my mom.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following: Green Chef: Go to https://www.greenchef.com/valeriaclass for 50% off your first box + 50 FREE Credits with ClassPass! In this episode, Valeria chats down with Dené Logan to explore the intricate dynamics of relationships, the concepts of feminine and masculine energies, and the societal shifts surrounding these themes. Dené explains the historical suppression of the feminine and the modern journey towards reclaiming it. The discussion covers the impact of these energies on personal growth, relationships, and societal structures, offering listeners profound insights into achieving a balanced and fulfilling life.Dené Logan is a Marriage and Family Therapist with an orientation in Depth Psychology (often referred to as ‘The Psychology of the Soul’), Group Facilitator, and co-host of the podcast Cheaper Than Therapy. She has a Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology and is notably the mentee of acclaimed psychotherapist Esther Perel. Dené is passionate about sharing tools and strategies to cultivate spiritual awareness, understanding the current shifts taking place within our societal structures, and empowering others in understanding how they can live the most fulfilling lives possible. Mentioned: Sovereign Love by Dené Logan: Mankind Project: https://mankindproject.org/ Sacred Sons: https://www.sacredsons.com/ Jane Fonda in Five Acts: https://www.hbo.com/movies/jane-fonda-in-five-acts Pema Chödrön: https://www.instagram.com/anipemachodron/ Dené is on:https://www.instagram.com/dene.logan/ https://www.tiktok.com/@denelogan https://www.flowhousetherapy.com/ Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4OMP3 What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 04:34 What is the feminine energy? 06:08 Wounded masculine paradigm 05:38 Women are raised feminists 11:29 Healthy masculinity 15:27 Sacred connection in relationships 20:32 What defines a successful relationship? 24:34 Conversations are crucial 32:52 Is there a limit to what you can talk about with your partner? 35:54 Be your true self all the time  40:04 Moving out of codependent paradigms 45:19 Ownership mindset in relationships 48:33 Midlife awakening 48:33 Men also need emotional support 51:41 Men are struggling in secret 55:57 Men need more model leaders 59:52 Post-patriarchal society 01:02:18 The next stage of feminism 01:05:05 How to reclaim your feminine self 01:05:58 Surround yourself with authentic people Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following: Nurture Life: For 55% off your order, head to https://www.NurtureLife.com and use code VALERIAOrgain: If you want to get in on the delicious protein-packed nutrition today, head to http://www.Orgain.com/VALERIA and use code: VALERIA for 20% off your orderIn this episode, Gary and Valeria dive into how they have managed money over their marriage as a couple with and 18-year age gap. They explain how they have navigated financial dynamics in their relationship and family and explored the balance between independence and interdependence in a marriage. Valeria opens up about her journey from feeling financially insecure to becoming a confident contributor. They discuss the importance of clear communication, the role of prenups, and navigating the complexities of shared finances. With humor and honesty, they unpack the emotional and practical aspects of building a partnership and a family legacy that thrives on trust and mutual growth.Perfect for listeners navigating their own financial and personal dynamics in relationships!Follow Gary: https://www.instagram.com/garylipovetsky/ Join Creator Method: Head to https://www.creatormethod.com and join our thriving community today. Use promo code NOTALONE at checkout to get 10% off your first year of Creator Method membership.Follow Creator Method: https://www.instagram.com/creator.method/ Mentioned: Shoes argument vlog: I can’t find the link guys, sorry! If I find the video I will add it!Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4OmzM Shop Gary’s watch: https://www.longines.com/en-ca/p/watch-longines-spirit-l3-821-4-53-9 What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 00:18 Breathwork 05:48 Financial independence and interdependence 11:27 Bad financial habits 18:02 Money shouldn’t be an issue 24:53 Support your partner’s career journey  27:02 Our dynamic is different 28:18 Making money together 30:37 Financial planning 33:01 Did the relationship shift when the wife made more money? 37:20 Prenup talks 45:44 Don’t get married 48:21 Ten years from now 50:23 Life insurance 57:07 Setting up kids for financial success 01:04:56 Teach your kids to work 01:06:55 Spending money on luxury brands 01:11:25 Creator Method Disclaimer: The links in this description are sponsor or affiliate links. If you make a purchase through these links I may earn a credit or commission at no additional cost to you.Disclaimer: The use of information from this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk. The content of this podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional or personal financial management and education. This is information based on personal experiences and is not financial advice or recommendation. Do your own research and seek independent advice when required. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following: Lolavie: Get 15% off LolaVie with the code VALERIA at https://www.lolavie.com/valeria #lolaviepod BetterHelp: Not Alone is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit https://www.BetterHelp.com/notalone today to get 10% off your first month.This week, Valeria is joined by iconic Victoria's Secret Angel, supermodel, and entrepreneur, Taylor Hill. Taylor opens up about her journey as a model, beginning with her career's early start at the age of 14 and the challenges of growing up in the modeling industry, including dropping out of high school and navigating the pressures of public life. She also highlights the pivotal moment in her career when she joined Victoria’s Secret at 18, which propelled her into the global spotlight. Taylor reflects on the brand's past promotion of unrealistic beauty standards and expresses her support for its recent shift towards inclusivity and authenticity. Beyond her career, Taylor talks about the importance of family support, particularly her mother’s unwavering presence during her early modeling years. She also touches on her approach to body image, embracing the changes that come with aging, and the value of self-acceptance. The episode takes an emotional turn as Taylor discusses her deep connection with her late dog, Tate, and the grief of losing him, as well as her experience with the loss of an unplanned pregnancy. Taylor's reflections provide a candid look into the complexities of her life, both in the spotlight and behind the scenes.Visit the Tate & Taylor community & marketplace: https://tateandtaylor.com/ Taylor is on: https://www.instagram.com/taylor_hill/ https://www.tiktok.com/@taylor_hill?lang=en Mentioned: Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show 2024 announcement: https://www.instagram.com/p/C9zm-sduXqw/ ACOTAR (A Court of Thorns and Roses) by Sara J. Maas: https://a.co/d/hOGKrDP Many Lives, Many Masters by Brian L. Weiss: https://a.co/d/cfCEKVf Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4MFHp What We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 03:02 The story behind the haircut 06:18 Scouted to model 10:50 Modeling at 14 11:52 Studying wasn’t for me 14:40 Family support 16:55 What’s your pivotal moment? 20:37 Identity crisis 23:08 Confidence in the runway 27:20 Project with Victoria Secret 29:32 Conforming to body standards 33:39 The body constantly changes 37:52 Losing Tate 47:52 Unplanned pregnancy & loss  59:22 Lessons from my loss 01:00:40 Therapy and healing 01:02:35 Write out where you’re at emotionally 01:06:08 Tate and Taylor 01:12:21 What’s your favorite book? Disclaimer: The links in this description are sponsor or affiliate links. If you make a purchase through these links I may earn a credit or commission at no additional cost to you.Medical Disclaimer: The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user’s own risk. The content of this podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their health care professionals for any such conditions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is brought to you by the following: Hiya: We've worked out a special deal with Hiya for their best selling children's vitamin. Receive 50% off your first order at https://www.hiyahealth.com/VALERIAIn today’s solo episode, join me as I open up about experiencing my first panic attack, a terrifying moment that left me feeling completely vulnerable. I walk you through the intense buildup of stress from work, personal life, and underlying health anxieties that led to this overwhelming experience. Ignoring my body’s warning signs and pushing through the stress ultimately brought me to this breaking point, forcing me to reassess how I approach my mental health.I share my journey of recovery, exploring different methods to manage stress, including hypnotherapy, which has been incredibly impactful for me. I also emphasize the importance of being mindful of our mental well-being and avoiding the normalization of anxiety and overwhelm, especially for women. Through this episode, I hope to inspire you to prioritize your mental health and find healthier ways to cope with life’s pressures.Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4Neh5 Valeria is on:https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWkDFq1pO7YNzifE3A4UsMA https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky Not Alone PodcastWhat We Talked About: 00:00 Intro 02:36 My first panic attack 06:13 Full body scan & my brain cyst  08:47 Neglecting my health 14:59 Women deal with panic attacks a lot 16:49 Dealing with stress positively 20:02 Hypnotherapy 24:58 Don’t take life too seriously 29:20 Mental health awareness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices