The Glow Up Secrets

Hi my loves 🦋 Welcome to another off topic episode were we chat ⬇️00:00 intro03:33 moving on/avoiding situationships13:19 getting people to respect your boundaries17:48 being alone on vday22:14 solo date night ideas26:28 priorities for healthy friendships28:20 online dating31:49 set boundaries with friends38:11 dealing with friends who don’t take ur advice41:59 how to stop competing w/ friends45:06 friends who don’t pay back48:12 cutting off co-dependent friends52:10 making friends in your 20s01:01:02 how to not be insecure of your partner being in social settings without you01:14:46 how to know whether to end a relationship01:17:04 how to work on an anxious attachment style while in a relationshipAND MORE!! 💗 MY BOOK THE ULTIMATE GLOW UP GUIDE IS OUT NOW! 💗 https://candr.link/l/JDyNSTcBOwHXuBXwsKkrrexit your lazy era with your new 30 DAY GLOW UP CHALLENGE ✨ https://youtu.be/wHIgHn7oFAQhow to have BETTER relationships | compatibility, attachment styles, emotional maturity & more https://youtu.be/bx_BZ58pE4Yhow to HEAL from a breakup https://youtu.be/Phh1s-Qz540 girl hobbies pinterest board https://pin.it/6gQfT2dgJAll my home, favourite beauty, skincare, clothes & wellness products on LTK https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguenThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082Discount Codes https://candr.link/l/kT72DkUuSokqSbBavVDlpMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://candr.link/theglowupsecretsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

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Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I'm teaching you the ONE thing that’s helped me fully embody main character energy 💗00:00 intro04:23 what is main character energy?09:57 you have to be willing to take action13:27 how to get over the fear of being seen15:58 you need to tap into self acceptance18:23 how to have confidence & still work on your flaws24:50 finding self value after feeling unwanted as a poc33:27 how to stop fearing rejection38:41 how to stop comparing yourself to other women41:39 do you need to be dolled up to have mc energy?44:28 pressure in & out of the black community49:43 rebuilding confidence & trust in yourself52:04 feeling confidence as you age54:45 have confidence at work around competitive people56:41 be confident speaking in larger groups58:20 having confidence around men & asking someone out1:02:17 feeling confident at home but not when going out(rough timestamps for audio listeners as the ad placements might change the timing slightly)MY BOOK THE ULTIMATE GLOW UP GUIDE IS OUT NOW! 💗 https://candr.link/l/JDyNSTcBOwHXuBXwsKkrrhow to start a self love journey, become your own "it girl" & make REAL friends.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6noZJ7_iwucAll my home, favourite beauty, skincare, clothes & wellness products on LTK https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguenThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082Discount Codes https://candr.link/l/kT72DkUuSokqSbBavVDlpMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://candr.link/theglowupsecretsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 Welcome to another off topic episode were we chat ⬇️00:00 intro06:27 negative self talk, sephora kids & their obsessions with appearance 14:13 stop focusing on imperfections & change your beliefs 23:18 girl therapy32:05 entering my tiktok vlogging era39:16 rickey bee girl dadAND MORE 💗(rough timestamps for audio listeners as the ad placements might change the timing slightly)MY BOOK THE ULTIMATE GLOW UP GUIDE IS READY FOR PRE-ORDER!! 💗https://candr.link/l/JDyNSTcBOwHXuBXwsKkrr To receive my FREE journal guide with your pre-order please follow the instructions here https://candr.link/l/DoWx0nnQBTzcfEn5Bj8buhow to change your self concept and become a brand new YOU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6_xLF1Jk4Egirl therapy pinterest board https://pin.it/6gQfT2dgJAll my home, favourite beauty, skincare, clothes & wellness products on LTK https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguenThe glow up secrets podcast channel [youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast](https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast)Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082Discount Codes https://candr.link/l/kT72DkUuSokqSbBavVDlpMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://candr.link/theglowupsecretsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 Welcome to another off topic episode were we chat ⬇️00:00 intro02:15 toxic femininity & getting validation from men09:57 understand that we all want and need validation11:29 what do you actually want?14:53 align your actions with what you want17:09 it’s time to drop the validation-seeking behaviors19:19 understand that looks are not everything21:11 shift your focus elsewhere23:50 take inventory of the people you hang out with26:21 learning to love yourself & attract the right energyAND MORE 💗(rough timestamps for audio listeners as the ad placements might change the timing slightly)MY BOOK THE ULTIMATE GLOW UP GUIDE IS READY FOR PRE-ORDER!! 💗 https://candr.link/l/JDyNSTcBOwHXuBXwsKkrrTo receive my FREE journal guide with your pre-order please follow the instructions here https://candr.link/l/DoWx0nnQBTzcfEn5Bj8bustop waiting for people to validate you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lSsADNpTurMAll my home, favourite beauty, skincare, clothes & wellness products on LTK https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguenThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082Discount Codes https://candr.link/l/kT72DkUuSokqSbBavVDlpMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://candr.link/theglowupsecretsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 Welcome to another off topic episode where I chat: how to handle "no contact" nd HEAL through a break up ⬇️00:00 intro01:44 what is no contact?02:24 the no contact trend on tiktok…07:36 you need to emotionally release10:30 acceptance11:30 exiting the “rejected” state13:26 stop making it personal15:00 there’s always a reason for a breakup16:48 stop triggering yourself19:07 work on your self concept & beliefs20:06 set up a routine for yourself26:51 more tips & my thoughts on using no contact30:59 start of q&a / how to stop stalking on social media32:57 waiting for him to come back/what if he comes back35:36 how to overcome thoughts that he’s the only one for you37:06 stop worrying about whether or not he’ll reach out41:20 what do you do when you see them in public42:45 what to do if you’re having urges to message him44:20 if it’s hard to move on thinking you could get back together45:51 how to be in no contact when you work w/ him47:30 how to not feel bad about initiating no contact49:28 when he walks away from your family52:30 what to do when you miss him53:54 resourcesAND MORE 💗(rough timestamps for audio listeners as the ad placements might change the timing slightly)MY BOOK THE ULTIMATE GLOW UP GUIDE IS READY FOR PRE-ORDER!! 💗 https://candr.link/l/JDyNSTcBOwHXuBXwsKkrrTo receive my FREE journal guide with your pre-order please follow the instructions here https://candr.link/l/DoWx0nnQBTzcfEn5Bj8buhow to change your self concept and become a brand new YOU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6_xLF1Jk4Ehow to HEAL from a breakup https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Phh1s-Qz540&pp=ygUbdGhlIGdsb3cgdXAgc2VjcmV0cyBicmVha3VwThe Power of Attachment https://amzn.to/4278IRDDylan James https://www.youtube.com/c/DylanJames_Mindset Kim Velez https://www.youtube.com/c/KimVelezWaking the Tiger - Healing Trauma https://amzn.to/3S9bDofBeing Her - Margarita https://www.youtube.com/@Margarita.NazarenkoAll my home, favourite beauty, skincare, clothes & wellness products on LTK https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguenThe glow up secrets podcast channel [youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast](https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast)Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082Discount Codes https://candr.link/l/kT72DkUuSokqSbBavVDlpMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://candr.link/theglowupsecretsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I give you my 3 step process of how to turn around a bad day! We chat all things perfectionism, getting out of your own way and building BELIEF within yourself around doing hard things !Magic mind productivity shots https://magicmind.com/?view=shoplift_variant_hp&selling_plan=858325126MY BOOK THE ULTIMATE GLOW UP GUIDE IS READY FOR PRE-ORDER!! 💗 https://candr.link/l/JDyNSTcBOwHXuBXwsKkrrTo receive my FREE journal guide with your pre-order please follow the instructions here https://candr.link/l/DoWx0nnQBTzcfEn5Bj8buJOURNAL GUIDES https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsAll my home, favourite beauty, skincare, clothes & wellness products on LTK https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguenThe glow up secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082Discount Codes https://candr.link/l/kT72DkUuSokqSbBavVDlpMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://candr.link/theglowupsecrets(rough timestamps for audio listeners as the ad placements might change the timing slightly)00:00 intro02:06 the only person that is going to save you, is you04:07 making everything a big deal08:27 affirmations & your inner critic12:27 action15:21 building self beliefBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 Welcome to another off topic episode were we chat ⬇️00:00 intro05:35 galentines day ideas09:44 2024 hosting ideas11:58 feminine energy community is getting out of hand/weaponizing feminine energy15:55 what feminine energy really is20:32 flow vs. tension24:00 abundance vs. scarcity mindset31:36 maladaptive daydreamingAND MORE 💗 (rough timestamps for audio listeners as the ad placements might change the timing slightly)MY BOOK THE ULTIMATE GLOW UP GUIDE IS READY FOR PRE-ORDER!! 💗 https://candr.link/l/JDyNSTcBOwHXuBXwsKkrrTo receive my FREE journal guide with your pre-order please follow the instructions here https://candr.link/l/DoWx0nnQBTzcfEn5Bj8buhow to change your self concept and become a brand new YOU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6_xLF1Jk4Eif you’re feeling alone, sad & anxious, then this video is for you.. A MENTAL HEALTH RESEThttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=miDtuyFEndk feminine energy / soft life vs hustle culture https://youtu.be/Pt47IBLdqPk?si=UtUeelA_6avzm-CmAll my home, favourite beauty, skincare, clothes & wellness products on LTK https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguenThe glow up secrets podcast channel [youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast](https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast)Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082Discount Codes https://candr.link/l/kT72DkUuSokqSbBavVDlpMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://candr.link/theglowupsecretsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today’s episode I’m teaching you how to change your self concept, get to the root of your negative beliefs, and take action to become a new you 💗MY BOOK THE ULTIMATE GLOW UP GUIDE IS READY FOR PRE-ORDER!! 💗 https://candr.link/l/JDyNSTcBOwHXuBXwsKkrrTo receive my FREE journal guide with your pre-order please follow the instructions here https://candr.link/l/DoWx0nnQBTzcfEn5Bj8buGet my HEAL TO MANIFEST guide here https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/1dd4344d-c10c-4134-b2d5-e10c6ab33986?pageViewSource=lib_view&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fbeacons.ai%2FtheglowupsecretsDylan James’ belief tracks https://www.youtube.com/@IAm_DylanJames/videosAll my home, favourite beauty, skincare, clothes & wellness products on LTK https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguenThe glow up secrets podcast channel [youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast](https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast)Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082Discount Codes https://candr.link/l/kT72DkUuSokqSbBavVDlpMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://candr.link/theglowupsecretsTime stamps may vary on audio podcast due to ad placements 💗00:00 start02:01 what is self concept04:11 examples of a good self concept04:40 examples of bad self concept05:06 where do these beliefs come from?08:26 our beliefs effect our actions11:32 getting to the root of your beliefs21:52 accepting your current self22:17 choosing your new self concept28:59 embodying your new identity36:52 take action40:20 common issues44:55 your mental diet & expanders53:53 emotional releasing and taking breaksBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's off topic episode I share my "ins & outs" for 2024 which include wellness practices, mindset shifts & ways I'll be living out my best life this year!!💗 MY BOOK THE ULTIMATE GLOW UP GUIDE IS READY FOR PRE-ORDER!! 💗 https://candr.link/l/JDyNSTcBOwHXuBXwsKkrrTo receive my FREE journal guide with your pre-order please follow the instructions here https://candr.link/l/DoWx0nnQBTzcfEn5Bj8bu @TheMindfulMovement sleep meditationsEmbracing your losing season https://youtu.be/Jbo9qok8ark?si=-gs3Lvkn6rBnFx94How to feel hot, healthy & successful in your 20's https://youtu.be/jyQUgF4ANgw?si=WIpTlWDIsCa6lS_6The ultimate glow up guide book review https://youtu.be/Lv-gxDjTRqQ?si=f40YslX1bFLd96_MThe glow up secrets podcast instagram https://www.instagram.com/theglowupsecretspodcast/Mocktail supplements (magnesium & ting ginger b-complex) https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsets/11ede902b0103c02b7750242ac110004All books mentioned https://amzn.to/48o1RWeAll my home, favourite beauty, skincare, clothes & wellness products on LTK https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguenThe glow up secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082Discount Codes https://candr.link/l/kT72DkUuSokqSbBavVDlpMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://candr.link/theglowupsecretsTime stamps may very on audio podcast due to ad placements 💗00:00 intro02:17 deep sleep / my sleep routine06:28 mocktails09:08 breakfast before coffee12:07 detaching appearance from healthy habits15:13 weight training16:33 protein17:10 reading / taking notes18:54 walks outside22:01 puzzles / painting22:52 therapy24:44 intentional dating26:15 girls nights27:03 intentional spending27:58 self concept29:09 the glow up secrets podcast instagram31:16 drinking32:33 ruining sleep33:36 more than one cup of coffee36:58 eating the same foods38:16 buying books but not reading them / the ultimate glow up guide41:04 responding back to texts43:25 looking at everyone online44:47 skipping weekly self care45:47 controlling outcomes47:31 saying yes when it's a no49:44 real housewives of salt lake recapBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.