

The Suzanne Venker Show
Suzanne Venker
TIRED OF THE LIES AND THE SPIN perpetuated in the culture about men and women, sex and love, marriage and motherhood? If so, get ready to hear hard-hitting truths that will make you cry out “Yes! Finally someone tells it like it is!”
In her signature no-nonsense style, author and relationship coach Suzanne Venker offers support, motivation, and countercultural guidance on how to prioritize love and family and build strong relationships at home.
In her signature no-nonsense style, author and relationship coach Suzanne Venker offers support, motivation, and countercultural guidance on how to prioritize love and family and build strong relationships at home.
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Jun 7, 2022 • 4min
155. An Important Update from Suzanne
In this episode, I share an announcement about the future of The Suzanne Venker Show.

May 24, 2022 • 25min
154. 6 Ways to Win Your Wife’s Heart (and Get Great Sex to Boot)
Suzanne talks exclusively to men about how to be great husbands and outlines six ways to win their wives' hearts.
Say what you mean, and mean what you say.
Show up.
Look her in the eyes with no distractions when you're having a serious conversation.
Never stop romancing her.
Listen and be open to anything she wants to say without being defensive.
Don’t follow—lead.

May 20, 2022 • 5min
BONUS EPISODE: “We’ve been together 8 years. Should I wait or move on?”
Suzanne answers a listener question.

May 17, 2022 • 36min
153. How to Embrace Marital Conflict
There isn’t a person on this planet who can avoid relationship conflict (unless, of course, you remain single.) In fact, if you’re someone who hates confrontation, you're going to struggle to be in a marriage or relationship at all—until or unless you learn how to embrace conflict.
Suzanne discusses why it's critical for couples to embrace conflict and offers six tips for having hard conversations with your spouse.
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STUDY referenced in this episode: "Couples who argue together, stay together, study finds
Dr. Warren Farrell's Couples' Communication Course: https://communication.warrenfarrell.com/role-mate-to-soul-mate-course/

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May 13, 2022 • 9min
BONUS EPISODE:"How can I convince my bf that living together is a bad idea?"
A listener seeks advice on convincing her boyfriend that living together is a poor choice. The discussion dives into the potential downsides of cohabitation, emphasizing the need for intentional decisions about marriage. Research-backed arguments reveal that living apart can lead to greater relationship satisfaction and success. Key reasons including financial stability and shared goals are presented to support the case against moving in together before tying the knot.

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May 3, 2022 • 37min
152. MONEY & MARRIAGE SERIES: What Millennials Get Ridiculously Wrong About Money and Marriage
Explore the common misunderstandings millennials have about marriage and finances. One in five couples cite money as their biggest relationship hurdle. Discover why waiting for financial stability before marriage might be misguided. Learn how teamwork trumps roommate dynamics for financial success. Research shows couples who pool finances enjoy greater satisfaction, debunking myths about personal financial independence. Open communication about money can strengthen relationships, addressing fears and fostering intimacy.

Apr 22, 2022 • 14min
BONUS EPISODE: Can feminism trump female desire?
Suzanne reads Dennis Prager's recent column, "What the Left Has Done to Women's Desires," and adds a sixth example of how feminist ideology has undermined women's desires and even their common sense.

Apr 19, 2022 • 33min
151. The Ideal Age to Get Married
Suzanne discusses the advantages of women marrying earlier rather than later.
Women's priorities change as they age
The problem with the "finding oneself" argument
Men's and women's different dating strategies
Why whom to marry is the most important decision we'll ever make
A new report shows almost half of young people want to marry on the younger side: "Is Marrying Later Always Better? New Report Says No."
New research showing that after age 32, the odds of divorce increase by 5% per year: https://ifstudies.org/blog/want-to-avoid-divorce-wait-to-get-married-but-not-too-long

Jan 16, 2022 • 4min
150. ANNOUNCEMENT: I'm taking a break from The Suzanne Venker Show
Hey Everyone, I will be taking a break from The Suzanne Venker Show while I build two online courses.
In the meantime, you can find me on YouTube, Facebook, and Instagram; and I will continue to correspond w my subscribers on a weekly basis. If you're not currently a subscriber, you can sign up here.
I also am still offering marriage/relationship coaching for single sessions only. You can find more information here: https://www.suzannevenker.com/coaching/#marriage-coaching-how-it-works
As always, I can be reached at suzanne@thesuzannevenkershow.com
See you all soon!

Jan 9, 2022 • 23min
149. Stop Trying to Have Sex Like a Man!
Suzanne talks about how casual sex affects women drastically different than it affects men.
IN THIS EPISODE:
1:20 Suzanne reads from Loose Girl, a book that analyzes in great detail the emotions that accompany what most young women experience when they engage in casual sex
2:27 The average guy who partakes in casual sex doesn't ruminate over who he has sex with or why he did it
3:00 Many young women have sex to feel attractive and desirable
4:30 Feeling used, or like a “booty call,” is the number one experience for women who have casual sex
5:00 Biology dictates that women carry the brunt of sexual risk while men wield the sexual power
5:25 The relationship between women and men took a nosedive when women (en masse) began having sex “like a man”— casually, with no commitment.
6:20 In generations past, commitment always preceded sex
8:10 Sex for women is NOT the same as it is for men
8:30 Even the most sexually liberal woman is surprised to learn she cannot detach the way men can
10:00 Suzanne reads stories from women who've had a lot of casual sex
17:25 A hookup doesn’t lead to the relationships women crave (MeToo movement)
18:50 - It's modern gender norms, not traditional ones, that have lead to the problems between men and women regarding casual sex
20:20 The MeToo Movement speaks to women's weakness to casual sex


