The Suzanne Venker Show BONUS EPISODE:"How can I convince my bf that living together is a bad idea?"
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May 13, 2022 A listener seeks advice on convincing her boyfriend that living together is a poor choice. The discussion dives into the potential downsides of cohabitation, emphasizing the need for intentional decisions about marriage. Research-backed arguments reveal that living apart can lead to greater relationship satisfaction and success. Key reasons including financial stability and shared goals are presented to support the case against moving in together before tying the knot.
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Cohabitation Intent Mismatch
- Women often see cohabitation as a step toward marriage, men often see it as testing compatibility.
- This mismatch in intent can lead to misunderstandings and relational conflicts.
Avoid Sliding Into Marriage
- Avoid cohabiting before engagement to prevent sliding into marriage without clear commitment.
- Keep your own residence to maintain objectivity before making the lifelong decision of marriage.
Wait to Combine Finances
- Do not combine finances before marriage to avoid legal complications.
- Building a shared financial life is easier and safer when legally married.