The Suzanne Venker Show

One of the things I want to start doing at The Suzanne Venker Show is to highlight everyday Americans who have stories to tell that you would never hear in the media. In some cases, this may be due to the fact that the person isn’t prominent enough to create attention in media circles. Other times, a person is well-known by members of the media, but the story or message he or she has to tell conflicts with the message the media want to sell. I’m a textbook example of the latter, but that’s a story for a different day. I have with me today wife, mother, author, and successful business owner Tiffany Couch who wants people to know that everything we’ve been told in the culture is a lie. “On my way to getting real,” Tiffany writes, “I realized I was headed down a path where my gravestone would read, Great Forensic Accountant…and would say nothing about what really matters. Most importantly (yes…MOST importantly), I’m a wife to a great husband. We’ve been married more than 23 years—and on my way to fame and fortune, I almost lost this marriage…and so much more. I traded success and money for my children’s time and attention. After all, isn’t that what successful women are supposed to do? While my job is looking at numbers, interpreting them, and explaining them so that people like judges, lawyers, clients, and juries can make important decisions, I find my real passion is explaining tough concepts to people in a way they can understand. And that’s what I want to do at Let’s Get Real.” IN THIS EPISODE: 5:50 – 7:57:  Tiffany discusses how her very successful career bumped up against her personal life, her marriage and her family life. She also talks about how she came to realize that the success in her business didn’t equal a successful love/personal life and how she began to change her thinking 7:57 – Tiffany talks about how she almost lost her marriage. She talks about the roles of men and women and how her being the primary breadwinner almost destroyed her marriage. 9:45 – Tiffany and Suzanne discuss why women sometimes early on  “jump in” to become the breadwinner and how it often doesn’t work out down the road.  Tiffany talks about her experience with being the breadwinner and how that came to be. 13:20- Tiffany briefly talks about her childhood and why the fear of becoming like her mother pushed her to become successful in the marketplace and prioritizing that instead of staying home with her kids 15:00 – Tiffany talks about what she missed out on in her kids lives 15:45 – 17:00 - Tiffany talks about how being the boss at work led her to carry over that behavior in her marriage 17:05 –Tiffany talks about how her marriage issues came to a head and how they almost decided on divorce. She discusses her “epiphany” on saving her marriage and how changing her attitude changed and saved her marriage. 19:55 - Tiffany talks about how much her marriage changed along the way to her massive success 22:25 – Tiffany talks about mentoring young women to become forensic accountants and what she tells those young women 25:50 – Tiffany talks about her relationship with her kids and how that relationship shifted 30:00 - 35:30- Suzanne reads from Tiffany’s blog regarding her relationship with money. Suzanne and Tiffany discuss the significance of money in life and relationships. 35:35 – Tiffany talks about her website letsgetreallife.com 36:00 - Tiffany talks about letting go of shame regarding money 42:30 – 44:30 -Tiffany and Suzanne talk about marriage and money and how important it is. They talk about how separate bank accounts can destroy a relationship. Sign up for marriage coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/relationship-coaching/ Support Suzanne on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thesuzannevenkershow

“I was once a Nice Guy. I wanted to treat people well, and I wanted to be liked. While in my early 30s, in spite of my unwavering faith in this philosophy, my life was in crisis. One marriage had ended, and a second one wasn’t going well. My career dreams were stalled. I was frustrated, resentful, and confused. I decided to start working on my situation and joined a men’s group. Honestly, my initial goal was to find out why the people around me weren’t responding so well to my Nice Guy philosophy, and I wanted to find out how to get them to change. But within a short amount of time, I came to see that the problem was ME. I had an agenda. I had no boundaries. I was indirect. I was passive-aggressive. I wasn’t honest. I wasn’t always so nice.” Those are the words of Dr. Robert Glover, author of the book No More Mr. Nice Guy and internationally recognized authority on the Nice Guy Syndrome. He is a frequent guest on radio talk shows and has been featured in numerous publications. Through his book, online classes, workshops, podcasts, consultation, and therapy groups, Dr. Glover has helped thousands of Nice Guys transform from being passive, resentful victims to empowered, integrated males. Along with these personal changes have come similar transformations in these men's professional careers and intimate relationships. IN THIS EPISODE: 5:15  Dr. Glover talks about his own story and about how he came to write No More Mr. Nice Guy. 8:23 What a “nice guy” is and why it's a problem for relationships and career 10:15 What men do to cover up their “toxic shame”— which includes not being honest, being passive aggressive, etc. 12:00 The nice guy “spectrum” and some examples that he saw in his marriage and family therapy practice. 14:10 How the prevalence of males raised by women (single moms, teachers) has influenced the nice guy issue (as has the absence of strong masculine role models) 16:35  How he grew up in the late 60s and 70s and how that generation of men was influenced by the Vietnam War, the “Summer of Love” era and how a lot of men of the time rejected the values of their fathers 18:25  The cultural “perfect storm” and how that has led us to the dynamics between men and women today 22:00 How women don’t want to be responsible for all of the decisions in a relationship and would rather have the man take the lead 23:45 Dr. Glover and Suzanne talk about their past marriages and how it influenced their books and work 31:30 Science related to babies and children and how they develop and regulate emotions and also how that carries into adulthood 44:10 How being a “nice guy” sets men up for relationship failure and how it ultimately frustrates women 46:50 Even though women are strong, they don’t want to make all the decisions in a relationship. Dr. Glover talks about how important it is for men to set the tone, lead and “show up” in their relationships with women. 54:50 Sex, premature ejaculation, and how some nice guys hide their sexuality, which causes problems in their relationships 58:55  How women mistake the characteristics of the “nice guy” for a well-adjusted male 1:03:00 How “following through” is the number one trait that makes women feel safe 1:06:25 Dr. Glover and Suzanne answer the “Email of the Day." Sign up for marriage coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/relationship-coaching/ Support Suzanne on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thesuzannevenkershow Subscribe to the YouTube Channel

Do you ever feel pressured from the culture to do marriage a certain way? Does it cause you to wonder about other people’s marriages—how they do things, perhaps—and then you get caught up in thoughts about what you think you should be doing? As natural as that tendency may be, my husband Bill and I going to talk about why cultural pressures should not cause you to be plagued w feelings of inadequacy re your marriage so long what you do works for the both of you. To that end, we’re going to discuss five dumb ideas about marriage many people think they have to follow but actually don’t. IN THIS EPISODE: 4:40 -13:05 — #1: There's no such thing as a 'soul mate.' Bill and Suzanne discuss the idea of soul mates and the idea that your spouse should be your soul mate, why soul mates are unrealistic and how you can “love someone” but that doesn’t mean that you should be with them. They also talk about the culture and how young people in particular are bombarded with the myth of the soul mate 13:10- 26:10 — #2: You don't have to sleep in the same bed to have a good marriage. Bill and Suzanne discuss the taboo of sleeping in different beds. They also talk about their own marriage in regards to sleeping in the same bed, the history of couples sleeping together in the same bed and how as marriage changes (due to stress, partners who snore, etc.) sometimes sleeping together in the same bed is too difficult 26:10-31:25 — #3: Your sex life doesn't need to look like the sex on TV. Bill and Suzanne talk about married sex, why your sex life will ebb & flow depending on where you are in your marriage and especially when you are raising your kids. They also discuss how the culture pushes a narrative that sex should be ultra romantic and you should be swinging from the chandelier and WHY THAT IS NOT REALISTIC! 31:25 - 36:05 — #4: Just because divorce has crossed your mind doesn't mean you married the wrong person. Bill and Suzanne talk about how through the course of marriage you will have ups and downs and just because you may have had a fleeting thought of divorce doesn’t mean you married the wrong person. They talk about how marital problems and issues do not get solved by leaving or by finding someone else, thinking the idea of “another life” would be better or more fulfilling. 36:10 - 44:25 — #5: There's no such thing as an "equal" marriage. Bill and Suzanne discuss why sex differences work in marriage. They also reflect on their own parents’ marriages and what they saw growing up with their own parents. They talk about how they brought what they saw in the past from their parents into their own marriage. Sign up for marriage coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/relationship-coaching/ Support Suzanne on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thesuzannevenkershow Subscribe to The Suzanne Venker Show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-suzanne-venker-show/id1471433977 Follow Suzanne on Social Media: https://twitter.com/SuzanneVenker https://www.facebook.com/SuzanneVenkerAuthor/ https://www.instagram.com/suzannevenkerauthor/ Join the private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/suzannesgroup/ Subscribe to the YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/c/SuzanneVenkerAuthor

Every week I talk to women who’ve been utterly bamboozled by a culture steeped in feminist propaganda re work, sex, dating and relationships. So many of their problems stem from the sexual revolution, but rarely is this revolution talked about separately from the feminist movement. How did the women’s movement, which fought for equal opportunity for women in education and the workplace, and the sexual revolution, which reduced women to ambitious sex objects, become so united? My guest today answers that question in her book Subverted: How I Helped the Sexual Revolution Hijack the Women’s Movement. As a long-time freelance writer for Cosmopolitan magazine, Sue Ellen Browder wrote articles meant to soft-sell unmarried sex, contraception, and abortion as the single woman’s path to personal fulfillment. Deeply regretting her involvement in such propaganda, Browder now admits that everything she wrote about the sexual revolution was based on lies. Now living a simple life in Wyoming, Sue Ellen is exposing feminist propaganda from the perspective of a whistleblower. IN THIS EPISODE: 3:45 - Sue Ellen discusses how she began her career as journalist and ended up working for Cosmopolitan Magazine 8:00 - Cosmopolitan magazine was the “Playboy” for young women.  How the magazine was and is pro–unmarried sex  and anti-motherhood 11:15 – How the messages being put out in the culture in magazines such as Cosmopolitan only serve a very small percent of the population 12:00- 14:15 - How the stories were “made up” and “fabricated” in the magazine to push the feminist narrative, including sleeping with married men for “fun” and not being monogamous 15:00 - 18:00 - Sue Ellen talks about propaganda and selling the “Cosmo lifestyle” in order to sell products and how ultimately that propaganda destroys societal order 18:00 – 22:38 - Sue Ellen talks about her book Subverted: How I Helped The Sexual Revolution Hijack the Women’s Movement and why she wrote it. She also discusses becoming Catholic and how that shaped her viewpoints 23:00 – 28:35 - How the sexual revolution and the women’s movement were separate movements and how they joined together via abortion 30:00 – Suzanne reads a section from Sue Ellen’s book that talks about how the sexual revolution and the women’s movement became so intertwined in the popular sphere that young women believe “liberation” means to go to college, pursue a career, postpone marriage and motherhood and be as sexually active as possible with no strings attached and how this has led to so much pain for women 32:50- Suzanne and Sue Ellen discuss why marrying on the earlier side is beneficial 34:45 – Sue Ellen talks about her abortion at 27, which was with her husband 38:15 – Sue Ellen talks about the reaction to her book 38:40- Sue Ellen talks about her own marriage with her husband and how divorce was never discussed despite fights 46:05 – 49:00 - Sue Ellen and Suzanne talk about sex in marriage Sign up for marriage coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/relationship-coaching/ Support Suzanne on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thesuzannevenkershow

When it comes to American women, there's no shortage of attention paid to their needs, their desires, their education, their careers, and their rights. That is not the case for men, and it is no different in Australia—as Australian writer and commentator Bettina Arndt can attest. Bettina started out as one of Australia’s first sex therapists before becoming a respected social commentator on gender issues. After nearly twenty years writing and talking about these issues, she wrote an international bestselling book about sex. The Sex Diaries looked at how couples manage their sex supply, dealing with their ups and downs in sexual desire. Ninety-eight couples kept diaries for her, writing about their daily negotiations over sex. Bettina followed this up with an exciting diary project on why sex means so much to men, which led to her book, What Men Want. Since then, alarmed by the unfair treatment of men in our society, Bettina now devotes her time to making YouTube videos and media appearances about men’s issues and the anti-male feminist agenda. IN THIS EPISODE: 5:10 How sex has faded from marriage, and how If women aren't interested, it just doesn’t happen 5:30 Sex is treated differently than all the other ways a loving couple caters to each other’s needs and desires 6:45 The culture talks endlessly about how “men aren’t doing enough” and how sex is top of most men’s list and those needs don’t get met 8:30–10:22 Bettina and Suzanne discuss “the grope” and why men make that kind of sexual approach toward their wives 10:30 Men hardly ever hear anyone talk about how the lack of sex in a marriage is unfair to men 11:25  How even if women don’t feel like having sex with their husbands, they should do it anyway. Bettina discusses how she was lambasted by feminists for saying this 13:00–14:10 Women need to be receptive. Once they relax, desire will kick in 15:25 Getting away from the stresses of everyday life is helpful to women to be able to let go and be more sexual 16:30 When women feel resentful, it's a libido killer 17:10 So many men say they’ve been to counseling and sex never even gets discussed. Usually, this is because the counselor is female and typically sides with the woman 19:00 - 21:12 Suzanne and Bettina discuss if women knew how hurtful this was to men, would they still withhold sex in the same way? 21:30 Bettina talks about what she has experienced on college campuses as a speaker. How college students have told her that she is “encouraging rape” by suggesting women just have sex with their husbands 22:30-24:30 - Bettina talks about the feminist movement and how it mobilized this group of “anti- sex” women 24:40 – 27:20 - Bettina and Suzanne discuss sexual harassment and how women misuse and flaunt their sexual power and then expect men not to react 28:10 How women are not encouraged to examine their own motivation for when they dress un-modestly 29:10- Bettina talks about how Australia and how feminism has had a huge impact on the public debate surrounding men and women 32:00 - Bettina tells her story about how she used to identify as a feminist and tells her story. 40:50 – 45:00 - Bettina talks about the anti-male nature of universities 45:50 – 52:50 Bettina discusses domestic violence Support Suzanne on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thesuzannevenkershow

In her book, What Our Mothers Didn't Tell Us, Canadian-American author and journalist Danielle Crittenden examines the foremost issues in women's lives—sex, marriage, motherhood, work, aging, and politics—and argues that a generation of women has been misled: taught to blame men and pursue independence at all costs. Happiness is obtainable, Crittenden says, but only if women will free their minds from outdated feminist attitudes. A longtime contributor to the Huffington Post, Danielle’s articles and essays have appeared in the Wall Street Journal, the New York Times, the Washington Post, and the Ladies Home Journal, among others. A former columnist for the New York Post, she has appeared, also among others, on NBC’s Today show, The O’Reilly Factor, 20/20 and Nightline. Danielle is married to David Frum, senior editor at The Atlantic and former speechwriter for George W. Bush. He and Danielle live in DC and have three children. IN THIS EPISODE: 6:40 Suzanne and Danielle discuss how women’s magazines sell “unhappiness” to women 9:15 Danielle talks about the message in her book, What Our Mother’s Didn’t Tell Us: Why Happiness Eludes the Modern Woman 11:15 Danielle discusses the messages she grew up with and absorbed via the women’s movement and how she never thought about having kids and was focused on excelling in the workforce, etc. 15:35 Danielle discusses having her first child at 28 and what it was like for her because of her beliefs surrounding men & women and how she changed because of having a child 19:15 Until you have a child, you don’t understand why men and women end up having such different trajectories and priorities. She talks about the support of her husband, too, and why that was integral 24:15 – Danielle & Suzanne discuss how many women are unhappy because wisdom was passed on from people that they trusted is wrong 26:00 Danielle talks about how feminism has been re-invented for the next generation (Gen. Z and millennials) and how they're struggling today 29:00 Even serious-minded young women are having trouble finding serious-minded, marriageable men, even when the men are a decade older than the women.  How the younger generations, men and women, are not connecting and not even having sex 32:50  Danielle talks about how the “seize the day” culture for women and how it has been taught in the culture, that women and men are no different sexually—which is a lie. How it also freed men to not take responsibility 35:00 – Most women, if they can, want to stay home with their children. Most women do not have glamorous careers. 36:15 – Danielle and Suzanne talk about how young women sleep with men before they even date 38:15 - How porn has influenced sex between men and women and how the hook-up culture is pervasive, which has made young women “afraid” of sex 42:00 – Suzanne and Danielle discuss how men are losing their way as breadwinners and the effect of that 46:50 – People today don't know how to be married Sign up for marriage coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/relationship-coaching/ Support Suzanne on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thesuzannevenkershow Follow Suzanne on Social Media: https://twitter.com/SuzanneVenker https://www.facebook.com/SuzanneVenkerAuthor/ https://www.instagram.com/suzannevenkerauthor/ Subscribe to the YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/c/SuzanneVenkerAuthor

Growing up with a controlling and/or domineering mother can cause all kinds of damage. For a girl, it can cause her to become either insecure or just as controlling in her own marriage or relationship. And for boy, it can and often does suppress his masculinity. Graham Stoney knows this firsthand and wrote an article about it entitled "How to Recover from a Controlling Mother." My mother was the dominant figure in my family of origin, and with a passive-aggressive father and two relatively dominant older sisters, it was a disastrous recipe for my developing masculinity. When I was a child, my mother used a physical leash to control me; partly for my own safety, and partly for her convenience. As I got older, verbal stoushes with my father made it clear that the masculine point of view wasn't welcome in our household.  My mother would fight tooth and nail every time because to her conceding anything was a weakness. She controlled my father, and by extension the rest of the family, including me. Even now during phone conversations, my mother decides when the conversation is over. My sisters and I sometimes joke about her idiosyncrasies but it's not funny: growing up around this sort of behavior from a mother cuts deep into a man's psyche. Join Graham Stoney and me this hour to discuss ways in which you can set boundaries with your controlling mother or recover from her lingering influence on your life. Graham's website is www.confidentman.net IN THIS EPISODE: 4:30 – Graham talks about controlling your emotions and how people who use control are trying to regulate their own emotions 9:00 - how to heal an “attachment wound” and how connecting with others helps heal 10:15 – Suzanne and Graham discuss the spectrum of controlling people 12:15 – Graham discusses  “fight or freeze” and how when we feel under attack we become compliant and how a controlling parent can overwhelm a child’s nervous system and how this is a strategy for getting what they want 15:35 – When there is conflict in a relationship, people tend to resort back to whatever strategies they used as children 16:20 – If two adults in a relationship haven’t resolved their childhood wounds, you have two wounded people who are relating to each other in that way 17:00 -  A man who’s highly evolved and who’s dealt with his past will be able to deal with a strong-willed woman and be able to stand up for himself 17:35 – Women actually love men who stand up for themselves and who stand up to them, too. 19:30 – Suzanne talks about her experience with her own controlling mother and how her father was passive and how it affected her 21:18 – How women do not feel safe around a man who won’t stand up for himself and how that is often learned from seeing a man’s own father not stand up for himself against a controlling mother in childhood 22:40  - Suzanne discusses when a daughter doesn’t get what she needs from a father, she gets the femininity knocked out of her.  Girls don’t feel safe and thus they go into their masculine, and they bring this into their relationships later 24:45 Women who are dominant tend to attract men who are more passive 28:00 –For a boy, mastering your emotions is pivotal to become a man 30:00 – 31:40 - Graham explains how learning to regulate your emotions happens during infancy 32:00 – How trauma affects people and why it’s important to work through trauma 36:00 – how boys and girls are affected differently by their relationships with their mother/father at different stages of growing up 44:35 – 54:00 - what people can do to recover from a controlling mother Support Suzanne on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thesuzannevenkershow

Suzanne and Andre Paradis answer questions from listeners about their relationship problems and concerns. Some of the questions are as follows: What attracts a good man to a woman? Red Flags/how to know if he/she is marriage material What is the best advice I can pass onto my three boys about dating and navigating the feminist culture and not compromising on their masculinity? What to say/suggest (or NOT say/suggest) to a close friend in her early 30s who's not dating or married but wants to be but who “drinks the culture’s Kool-aid” and wants to be “independent”/thinks she doesn’t need a man? You both have talked about how men are negatively affected by their moms when the reins aren't handed over to the dad to take the lead or how single mom households have the same issue because there is no father figure to take over. What advice would you give to those boys now that they're men in helping them not be continually treated like a child by their mothers? If you’ve been vulnerable with someone for several years, and they haven’t.... and you feel alone and defeated in the process, and ultimately your emotional walls build back up, is it possible to make an emotional connection after that? Sign up for marriage coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/relationship-coaching/ Support Suzanne on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thesuzannevenkershow Subscribe to The Suzanne Venker Show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-suzanne-venker-show/id1471433977 Follow Suzanne on Social Media: https://twitter.com/SuzanneVenker https://www.facebook.com/SuzanneVenkerAuthor/ https://www.instagram.com/suzannevenkerauthor/ Join the private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/suzannesgroup/ Buy Women Who Win at Love or The Alpha Female's Guide to Men & Marriage NOW: https://www.amazon.com/Suzanne-Venker/e/B001K7VY7K%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share Subscribe to the YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/c/SuzanneVenkerAuthor

Last week Stan Wischnowski, top editor of The Philadelphia Inquirer, was forced to apologize and ultimately resign after using the headline, “Buildings Matter, Too.” He later characterized his own work as “deeply offensive.” Over at the New York Times, editorial page editor James Bennet resigned after a staff uproar as a result of U.S. Senator Republican Tom Cotton's statement in an op-ed that military troops should be sent to restore public order in American cities when the police are overwhelmed. Anna Wintour, editor of Vogue, apologized for the mistakes, oversights, and supposed offenses her publication has committed during her tenure. “ Tucker Carlson lost advertisers for pointing out the fact that BLM is not about black lives but about something else altogether. And it isn’t just journalists who are marginalized as a result of their speech. The author J.K. Rowlings made what was referred to as a "controversial" statement in pointing out that women, not men, get periods. Fortunately, Rowlings didn’t apologize or take back her comments. Join me in this special episode to discuss America’s cancel culture is New York Times bestselling author and contributing editor of City Journal Heather Mac Donald. IN THIS EPISODE: 2:45  What's Cancel Culture? 6:45  Heather discusses her article, “The Myth of Systemic Police Racism” and how crime and suspect behavior determine most interactions with cops 8:50  How the data prove Black Lives Matter’s claim that there's an epidemic of racially motivated action between blacks and police is categorically false 10:20  How the statistics show blacks commit over half of all homicides 11:55 -12:43  How the current narrative has it backwards. Black males are 6% of the nation's population and make up about 42% of cop killings. A police officer is 18 times more likely to be killed by a black male than an unarmed black male is to be killed by a cop. 14:30  How there's an increase in cops leaving the profession due to the narrative 15:35  How the entirety of mainstream America, including all major corporations, are now onboard with the Black Lives Matter movement 18:00  In light of the current narrative, we will begin to see more cop assassinations and recruiting will be more difficult 18:35 – 22:45 Police Reform and how in Colorado, people will be able to civilly sue police officers for alleged misconduct and how this will lead to anarchy and crime will spike 22:50  Heather’s assessment of what’s to come in the next six to twelve months 25:30  There will be even more pressure on institutions to hire by race (and sex) instead of on merit and the quality of the institutions will suffer as a result 26:45  How fatherlessness has decimated the black community Sign up for marriage coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/relationship-coaching/ Support Suzanne on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thesuzannevenkershow Subscribe to the YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/c/SuzanneVenkerAuthor

Ever wonder why women, once they took on the role of breadwinner, became more stressed out and, thus, less happy? The reason may be politically inconvenient, but that doesn't make it any less true. Women have a fraction of the amount of testosterone men do, and testosterone is in part responsible for why men are able to be single focused and get energized from it as a result. That's not how it works for most women. They become drained when they try to focus so intently on one thing and try to screen out everything else. Most women cannot block out the details of life. They feel compelled to address more than one thing at a time since that is how their brains work. So when they try and do things the "male" way—i.e. go to the office and focus exclusively on that for 8 or 10 hours—they become overwhelmed. They can't stop thinking about everything else they have to do. Of course, to hear the media tell it, this predicament is men's fault. If men would just do their share women could get it all done! But that's not the way it works. Andre Paradis of Project Equinox is back to talk with Suzanne about this massive difference between women and men and how knowing, and accepting, this difference will improve your relationship overnight. If you let it. IN THIS EPISODE: 9:20  why women are unhappy and drained 10:30  the instinct in men is to provide and protect 11:50  why the feminist message only services a small portion of women 12:10  why masculinity is discouraged in men but encouraged in women 14:05  the natural flow between men and women and letting go of the “superwoman complex” 16:55  how women feel that less they are productive in society, like men, they are useless 17:20  why traditional roles work 19:00  why stress hurts women differently than it hurts men 21: 40 why men are more “single focused” than women 22:45  why understanding the nature of men solves so many relationship problems 27:40  why there's a price to pay when the roles are reversed 28:30  what happens when  women no longer to tap into their femininity 28:50 what femininity does for men 36:20  why being overly emotional is not productive for men 38:40  when you disrupt human nature, it causes a lot of problems Sign up for marriage coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/relationship-coaching/ Support Suzanne on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thesuzannevenkershow Buy Women Who Win at Love or The Alpha Female's Guide to Men & Marriage NOW: https://www.amazon.com/Suzanne-Venker/e/B001K7VY7K%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share Subscribe to the YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/c/SuzanneVenkerAuthor