

Miss Me?
BBC Sounds
Join friends since birth Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver twice a week for their transatlantic catch-ups, discussing everything from the highs and lows of their lives to the biggest cultural moments of the week.Every Monday, Lily and Miquita will throw the show open and invite questions on a theme; celebrity weddings, indie sleaze, orgasms, lies… Then on Thursdays, they’ll pick apart the world around them with unfiltered conversation on everything from intimacy to interiors, from exercise to elections.Email: missme@bbc.co.uk
WhatsApp: 08000 304 090 (+44 8000 304 090 from outside the UK)Credits:Producer: Flossie Barratt
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett
Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan HaskinsMiss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
WhatsApp: 08000 304 090 (+44 8000 304 090 from outside the UK)Credits:Producer: Flossie Barratt
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett
Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan HaskinsMiss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
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Jul 31, 2025 • 40min
The Greatest Thing You’ll Ever Learn… with Zawe Ashton
Miquita Oliver and Zawe Ashton discuss weddings, the Lionesses Euros victory, and 90s music influencing their identities. This episode contains very strong language and adult themes.Credits:
Producer: Flossie Barratt
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett
Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

Jul 28, 2025 • 45min
Bitch, Listen!
Miquita Oliver and Zawe Ashton answer your questions about self esteem.Next week, Zawe is back with Miquita and we want to hear your questions about CLUBBING. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes.
Credits:
Producer: Flossie Barratt
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox
Executive Producer: Dino Sofos
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

Jul 24, 2025 • 46min
Birth Yourself… with Zawe Ashton
Miquita Oliver and Zawe Ashton discuss entering their 40s, motherhood and the power of the patriarchy. This episode contains very strong language and adult themes.
Credits:
Producer: Flossie Barratt
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox
Executive Producer: Dino Sofos
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

Jul 21, 2025 • 35min
Listen Bitch! Toenail and I
Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about personal hygiene.Next week, we want to hear your questions about SELF ESTEEM. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and strong sexual references.
Credits:
Producer: Flossie Barratt
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox
Executive Producer: Dino Sofos
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

Jul 17, 2025 • 31min
No Games, Just Sports
Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver discuss Justin Bieber & Swag, Lena Dunham’s new Netflix show and the cult of American Apparel.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes.
Credits:
Producer: Flossie Barratt
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox
Executive Producer: Dino Sofos
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

Jul 14, 2025 • 33min
Listen Bitch! Natural Mystic
Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about nature.Next week, we want to hear your questions about PERSONAL HYGIENE. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes.
Credits:
Producer: Flossie Barratt
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett
Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

Jul 10, 2025 • 35min
I Disagree with Cracking On
Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver discuss the Oasis reunion, Love Island lore and whether women can have it all.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes, strong sexual references and discussions about sexual abuse and abortions. If you have been affected by any of the issues raised, you can find support via the BBC Action Line: https://bbc.co.uk/actionline/
Credits:
Producer: Flossie Barratt
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett
Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

Jul 7, 2025 • 32min
Listen Bitch! I’m On Me Holidays
Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about holidays.Next week, we want to hear your questions about NATURE. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and graphic depictions of violence.
Credits:
Producer: Flossie Barratt
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett
Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

Jul 3, 2025 • 34min
Glastontatious
Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver discuss Glastonbury festival, Wimbledon and how to blag your way into anything.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and strong drug references.
Credits:
Producer: Flossie Barratt
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett
Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

Jun 30, 2025 • 31min
Listen Bitch! Coitus Interruptus
Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about contraception.Next week, we want to hear your questions about HOLIDAYS. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes, strong sexual references and discussions about abortion. If you have been affected by any of the issues raised, you can find support via the BBC Action Line: https://bbc.co.uk/actionline/
Credits:
Producer: Flossie Barratt
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett
Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds