Miss Me?
BBC Sounds
Join friends since birth Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver twice a week for their transatlantic catch-ups, discussing everything from the highs and lows of their lives to the biggest cultural moments of the week.Every Monday, Lily and Miquita will throw the show open and invite questions on a theme; celebrity weddings, indie sleaze, orgasms, lies… Then on Thursdays, they’ll pick apart the world around them with unfiltered conversation on everything from intimacy to interiors, from exercise to elections.Email: missme@bbc.co.uk
WhatsApp: 08000 304 090 (+44 8000 304 090 from outside the UK)Credits:Producer: Flossie Barratt
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett
Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan HaskinsMiss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
WhatsApp: 08000 304 090 (+44 8000 304 090 from outside the UK)Credits:Producer: Flossie Barratt
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett
Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan HaskinsMiss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
Episodes
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Nov 13, 2025 • 52min
That’s Why They Call it Spelling
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss lying, the magic of reading, and the lifecycle of girlbands.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes.
Credits:
Producer: Natalie Jamieson
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox
Executive Producer: Dino Sofos
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
Nov 10, 2025 • 39min
Listen Bitch! It Takes Two To Tango?
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about orgasms.Next week, we want to hear your questions about THE GREAT BRITISH SUNDAY ROAST. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes, and discussion of sex throughout.
Credits:
Producer: Natalie Jamieson
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox
Executive Producer: Dino Sofos
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
Nov 6, 2025 • 37min
Are Men En Vogue?
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss boyfriends (embarrassing?), couples’ posts and contraception.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and discussions around sex.
Credits:
Producer: Natalie Jamieson
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox
Executive Producer: Dino Sofos
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
Nov 3, 2025 • 38min
Listen Bitch! Nostalgia Used to be an Illness
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about the things that scare us.Next week, we want to hear your questions about ORGASMS. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and discussion around phobias.
Credits:
Producer: Natalie Jamieson
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox
Executive Producer: Dino Sofos
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
Oct 30, 2025 • 45min
Do You Believe in Magic?
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss the impact of Lily’s album, and whether to go all out, or not, on Halloween costumes and tattoos. This episode contains very strong language, adult themes, and discussions about eating disorders..
Credits:
Producer: Natalie Jamieson
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox
Executive Producer: Dino Sofos
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
Oct 27, 2025 • 39min
Listen Bitch! Not Everything Has to Make Sense
Jordan Stephens and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about boredom.Next week, we want to hear your questions about THINGS THAT SCARE US. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes.
Credits:
Producer: Natalie Jamieson
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox
Executive Producer: Dino Sofos
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
Oct 23, 2025 • 38min
Sweet and Raw
Jordan Stephens and Miquita Oliver discuss Lily Allen’s new album and the complex art of music videos This episode contains very strong language and adult themes.Credits:Producer: Natalie JamiesonTechnical Producer: Will Gibson SmithAssistant Producer: Caillin McDaidProduction Coordinator: Rose WilcoxExecutive Producer: Dino SofosAssistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine OkuefunaCommissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan HaskinsMiss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
Oct 20, 2025 • 39min
Listen Bitch! Freedom is the Absence of Want
Jordan Stephens and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about addiction.If you’re affected by addiction, eating disorders or mental health issues, visit bbc.co.uk/actionline for support.This episode contains strong language and discussion around addiction, body dysmorphia and adult themes.
Next week, we want to hear your questions about BOREDOM. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.Credits:
Producer: Natalie Jamieson
Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith
Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid
Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox
Executive Producer: Dino Sofos
Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna
Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan HaskinsMiss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
Oct 16, 2025 • 42min
Full of So Many Feelings
Jordan Stephens and Miquita Oliver discuss grief and grandparents and crying over driving tests.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes and discussion of bereavement and end of life care.Credits:Producer: Natalie JamiesonTechnical Producer: Will Gibson SmithAssistant Producer: Caillin McDaidProduction Coordinator: Rose WilcoxExecutive Producer: Dino SofosAssistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine OkuefunaCommissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan HaskinsMiss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
Oct 13, 2025 • 39min
Listen Bitch! Zeddy & Mimi & Spike
Jordan Stephens and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about dogs.Next week, we want to hear your questions about ADDICTION. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes.Credits:Producer: Natalie JamiesonTechnical Producer: Will Gibson SmithAssistant Producer: Caillin McDaidProduction Coordinator: Rose WilcoxExecutive Producer: Dino SofosAssistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine OkuefunaCommissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan HaskinsMiss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
