
Man Alive
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Even men at the top of their game find themselves wanting more from life. Whether it's more meaning, a bigger impact, unshakable confidence, a hotter sex life, more money, deeper love, solid friendships or a powerful legacy…
What is true success? How can a man actually reach the end of his life and look back without regret -- having lived and loved fully, rather than having been stuck in fear or a life he was "supposed to" lead?
Man Alive is a series of bold, raw and gritty conversations with experts on success, power, sex, love and legacy for men who...are clear they want amazing lives?!
For the past 15 years Shana James, a dating and relationship expert, has worked with thousands of men and women around the world and collaborated with hundreds of teachers and coaches. She has led workshops for dating companies like Table for Six and Match.com and been matchmaker for an MTV reality show.
Shana doesn't buy into the need for rules, games or limitations. She works with men individually to find their unique power, confidence and leadership abilities, breaking open the boxes that keep them stuck, dissatisfied, or settling for less than amazing in any area of life.
Latest episodes

Jan 19, 2023 • 22min
How to Show Emotions Without Seeming Weak
This episode is my response to a client who recently asked how to still be seen as powerful and masculine as he shared his emotions.

Jan 12, 2023 • 35min
#253: Stop Self-Sabotage
When we learn to shift the ways we self-sabotage, in our love and business lives, we can reach new levels of success, personal satisfaction and impact! Today's guest has gone to the depths of his own psyche and soul to bring you tools to empower yourself.

Jan 5, 2023 • 34min
#252: Overcome Performance Anxiety
Performance anxiety is common for most men, but it can be a thing of the past. Today's guest helps men overcome this anxiety by teaching tools for men to become better lovers and have more pleasure themselves in the process.

Dec 22, 2022 • 40min
#251: The Foundations of Heart Centered Sex and Sensuality
When you integrate your heart into your sex life, not only does it go from what can feel like "fast food sex" to "gourmet sex," it also becomes connected, healing and transformative. Today's Man Alive podcast guest talks about bringing depth into sex and sensuality.

Dec 15, 2022 • 33min
#250: Cliteracy to Coreplay: Understanding Female Arousal
If you are a heterosexual man who does not understand female arousal, your sex life will not improve and your relationships will suffer. Today's guest is the author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. Learn what it takes to have more pleasure and connection in your sex life.

Dec 8, 2022 • 39min
#249: How to Avoid a Disappointing Love Life
Disappointment in one's love life is a common experience these days. Divorce rates are high and many people are attempting to figure out where we've gone wrong - culturally and personally. Today's guest has supported clients to heal their love lives and create healthy relationships for over 30 years.

Dec 1, 2022 • 39min
#248: Live Happier and Healthier
Though most of us start out with the deck stacked against us in how we are taught to mentally and emotionally approach life, we can unfuck our approach to life and set ourselves free to live healthier and happier.

Nov 24, 2022 • 38min
#247: How to Stop Our Disempowering Stories
We can unconsciously add stress to our lives with the stories we tell ourselves about our experiences. While this realization can be painful, it is also a doorway to incredible amounts of freedom and possibility. Today's podcast guest co-wrote a documentary film entitled: “Is Your Story Making You Sick?” We discussed the potential for relief from pain and stress.

Nov 17, 2022 • 39min
#246: Healthy Masculinity and Femininity in Relationships
The concept of masculine/feminine dynamics in relationships can be viewed through overly simplistic lenses. Today's guest goes deep into the nature of humanity to illuminate the benefits of both masculine and the feminine, and how balancing them can bring us together in healthier, more authentic ways.

Nov 10, 2022 • 31min
#245: What is Orgasm Honestly?
Sadly, the average orgasm lasts between 10 and 51 seconds. You are not limited to this quick burst of pleasure though! You could orgasm for hours, and experience a heightened state of pleasure. Find out more as we talk about what orgasm actually is.