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Even men at the top of their game find themselves wanting more from life. Whether it's more meaning, a bigger impact, unshakable confidence, a hotter sex life, more money, deeper love, solid friendships or a powerful legacy…
What is true success? How can a man actually reach the end of his life and look back without regret -- having lived and loved fully, rather than having been stuck in fear or a life he was "supposed to" lead?
Man Alive is a series of bold, raw and gritty conversations with experts on success, power, sex, love and legacy for men who...are clear they want amazing lives?!
For the past 15 years Shana James, a dating and relationship expert, has worked with thousands of men and women around the world and collaborated with hundreds of teachers and coaches. She has led workshops for dating companies like Table for Six and Match.com and been matchmaker for an MTV reality show.
Shana doesn't buy into the need for rules, games or limitations. She works with men individually to find their unique power, confidence and leadership abilities, breaking open the boxes that keep them stuck, dissatisfied, or settling for less than amazing in any area of life.
Latest episodes

Jul 21, 2020 • 47min
#147: 3 Tools to Stop Relationship Disconnection
Most people start relationships without knowing how to keep them alive over time. With romantic and business partnerships, tension and frustrations often build, causing trust and connection to fade. Did you know there structures for forming relationships, and practices for continual "relationship hygiene," that make them less likely to fall apart? Today's guest and I discuss this!

Jul 16, 2020 • 33min
#146: This Podcast Will Make You Dangerous (In a Good Way)
Being a man who has a powerful impact on the world while also feeling alive, free and at peace is no small task. Many men give up their fulfillment as they climb the corporate ladder and become more successful. But on today's podcast Tripp Lanier, author of the book This Book Will Make You Dangerous, proves that you don't have to give up your well-being, vitality, joy or anything else for success!

Jun 30, 2020 • 45min
#145: Why Love Can Destroy Marriage
It would seem that love would be the foundation of a strong relationship. In this controversial podcast Rabbi Manis Friendman talks about how love can actually destroy a marriage and why people are having less sex than ever. He also talks about a couple can create true connection and bonding.

Jun 25, 2020 • 23min
#144: An Overlooked Aspect of Men's Health
Men's health month is a chance for you to assess the drains on your health that could cause you to live a shorter or more painful life. In today's episode I talk about an often overlooked aspect of men's health - Relational Health. This isn't about just having a social group. It's about making sure your relationships are uplifting, safe, inspiring and connected!

Jun 17, 2020 • 38min
#143: What Makes a Woman Trust You
Relationships endure breaks in trust - big and small. What does it take for a woman to trust you in the first place, or to rebuild trust when it's broken? Our guest, Ashlynn Mitchell shares what helped her trust again after betrayal.

Jun 4, 2020 • 32min
#142: Why you should take a break from sex
Have you ever thought about how sex could be skewing your ability to make a clear decision about whether someone is the right romantic partner for you? Today's guest has many reasons why delaying sex will help you know who is a great partner AND allow you to further your purpose and accomplishments in the world!

May 20, 2020 • 44min
#141: What Great Sales People Do
We are at a time in the world where great people are needed more than ever. What if you didn't have to separate work from your life visions? What if you didn't have to give up your mission, creativity, values or ability to have a positive impact, to become more successful? Today's guest shows you how you can do this!

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May 13, 2020 • 36min
#140: Reimagining Men's Sexuality
Can you image what your sex life would be like if you didn't feel doubt or shame about your performance in bed or your ability to give a woman pleasure? Karen Brody and I talk today about what this could be like for you -- the passion and connection possible as you reimagine your sex life!

May 7, 2020 • 33min
#139: 5 Ways You Could Be Blocking Wealth
Today's guest will help you understand why you're not as wealthy as you want to be. She shares five ways people actively ward off wealth and the necessary shifts to welcome it!

Apr 30, 2020 • 36min
#138: Inspire Lust, Trust, and Devotion From a Strong Woman
Strong women are passionate and exciting, but they come with a specific challenge. Men often wonder how to get a strong woman to be more affectionate, soft and sensual! Today's guest will show you what to do when a strong woman pushes you away, so she'll want to open up and be close with you!