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Even men at the top of their game find themselves wanting more from life. Whether it's more meaning, a bigger impact, unshakable confidence, a hotter sex life, more money, deeper love, solid friendships or a powerful legacy…
What is true success? How can a man actually reach the end of his life and look back without regret -- having lived and loved fully, rather than having been stuck in fear or a life he was "supposed to" lead?
Man Alive is a series of bold, raw and gritty conversations with experts on success, power, sex, love and legacy for men who...are clear they want amazing lives?!
For the past 15 years Shana James, a dating and relationship expert, has worked with thousands of men and women around the world and collaborated with hundreds of teachers and coaches. She has led workshops for dating companies like Table for Six and Match.com and been matchmaker for an MTV reality show.
Shana doesn't buy into the need for rules, games or limitations. She works with men individually to find their unique power, confidence and leadership abilities, breaking open the boxes that keep them stuck, dissatisfied, or settling for less than amazing in any area of life.
Latest episodes

Sep 29, 2021 • 35min
#202: Harness the Power of a Type A Personality
Being driven can feel like a blessing and a curse. Accomplishments are many, relationships are challenging… Dr. Doug Brackmann reveals how to thrive as a Type A personality.

Sep 23, 2021 • 46min
#201: Freedom From Your Inner Critic
The inner critic can take you off your game in business and out of intimacy in relationships. Today's guest has a PhD in management and helps leaders solve seemingly unsolvable problems. Interestingly, his work has led him to specialize in helping people find freedom from their inner critic, while simultaneously awakening to a deeper consciousness!

Sep 16, 2021 • 55min
#200: A Decade of Relationship Lessons
Episode 200 is an exploration of a decade of lessons I’ve gleaned from getting divorced and starting new relationships. I invited my friend Neil Sattin, host of the Relationship Alive podcast, on to chat about his relationship lessons as well.

Sep 9, 2021 • 52min
How to Make Consent Sexy - Relaunch
I have found that consent conversations not only create a foundation of respect and deeper intimacy, but allow for more and lasting passion.

Sep 2, 2021 • 37min
#199: Stop Criticism From Killing Your Relationship
Criticism is one of the biggest relationship killers. When one or both people in a couple are critical, intimacy is bound to fade. Today's guest shows you how to turn criticism into connected communication and to revive intimacy when it has faded.

Aug 25, 2021 • 42min
#198: Live Every Minute Before It's Too Late
Recovering from a near-death experience brings wisdom to those of us living comfortably. It helps us remember what is possible and what really matters. Today's guest, Billy Creutz, talks about how to live every minute to the fullest, since you never know how long you have.

Aug 19, 2021 • 38min
#197: The Full Range of Man
There is a wide spectrum of qualities that humans can express. When a man shies away from characteristics that are typically labeled feminine, he often suffers. Today's guest straddles the masculine/feminine divide to express the full range of man. He is happier and more powerful as a result.

Aug 12, 2021 • 41min
How to be a Powerful Leader in This Unsettling Time
This is a pivotal moment of truth for us and our planet. How can you be a more powerful leader, especially in such a difficult time? Today's guest, Terry Patten, a highly acclaimed teacher and author of A New Republic of the Heart, is here to help you use this moment of extreme urgency to evoke your highest character and values.

Aug 5, 2021 • 40min
#196: Proven Ways to Stop Messing Up Relationships - Jeff Howard
With around 50% of marriages ending in divorce it's clear that it's easier to mess up relationships than it is to create healthy, lasting ones. Today's guest helps people improve relationships in a surprising way -- by lowering your expectations and raising your standards.

Jul 29, 2021 • 33min
#195: Power vs. Strength – Justin Long
For many men, it is important to feel powerful. It is often this feeling of power, or a desire for the feeling of power, that drives actions and decisions. But power can be confusing too. Power over others is different from power with others. A sense of internal power is different from external (or situational) power. So, how can you be powerful in a way that is good for you AND others? Or might it be that the search for power is misguided? Today's Man Alive podcast guest realized that through his attempt to feel powerful, what he was seeking was not actually power. Justin B. Long, author of The Righteous Rage of a 10 Year Old Boy: A Journey of Self Discovery, brings a deeper look at power and strength through his personal struggles and breakthroughs. His mission is to make the world a better place by combatting toxically masculine ideas surrounding men and their emotions. In our conversation we discussed: Justin's quest for power and realization that he was really seeking strength How to detoxify masculinity A deeper understanding of what actually makes us valuable The necessity of self-awareness for success and intimacy Justin's journey through alcoholism and awakening to himself after decades of assuming he knew who he was Connect with Justin Longhttp://JBoydLong.com https://jboydlong.com/the-righteous-rage-of-a-ten-year-old-boy/ Connect with Shana James shanajamescoaching.com/3ways Curious what you’d need to become a better leader and lover? Take the quiz For Women: Modern dating doesn’t have to be a nightmare for women