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Even men at the top of their game find themselves wanting more from life. Whether it's more meaning, a bigger impact, unshakable confidence, a hotter sex life, more money, deeper love, solid friendships or a powerful legacy…
What is true success? How can a man actually reach the end of his life and look back without regret -- having lived and loved fully, rather than having been stuck in fear or a life he was "supposed to" lead?
Man Alive is a series of bold, raw and gritty conversations with experts on success, power, sex, love and legacy for men who...are clear they want amazing lives?!
For the past 15 years Shana James, a dating and relationship expert, has worked with thousands of men and women around the world and collaborated with hundreds of teachers and coaches. She has led workshops for dating companies like Table for Six and Match.com and been matchmaker for an MTV reality show.
Shana doesn't buy into the need for rules, games or limitations. She works with men individually to find their unique power, confidence and leadership abilities, breaking open the boxes that keep them stuck, dissatisfied, or settling for less than amazing in any area of life.
Latest episodes

Dec 23, 2021 • 42min
#210: The Power of Holographic Leadership
Anthony David Adams is a man who recognizes that how we do one thing tends to be how we do anything -- that there is a holographic nature to life, love and leadership.

Dec 16, 2021 • 32min
#209: The Nuances of Attraction
Today's Man Alive podcast guest has taught thousands of men real information about the nuances of attraction with women. When you learn to pay attention to these nuances, you no longer need quick fixes, B.S. or magic pills. Dating and relationships become more exciting, fulfilling, and likely to last!

Dec 9, 2021 • 33min
#208: How to Calm Someone Down in 90 Seconds or Less
What would change if you knew you could calm someone down, anytime there was an escalation of conflict or upset? Today's guest has worked with thousands of people, including those in prisons, and has found a revolutionary way to create more peace and connection, fast.

Dec 2, 2021 • 33min
#207: Why men age differently and how to age better
Aging is something most men would rather not experience, but we can't avoid it. What we can do is learn to age better by understanding how men age differently and what experts find keeps you vital and strong. Today's guest gives you a roadmap for the best chance for a long and healthy life.

Nov 18, 2021 • 34min
#206: Competition is the Real Root of Relationship Problems
Many couples attempt to solve relationship struggles by learning communication tools. These are important, but today's guest shares about an issue underlying communication that, if not addressed, will undermine all attempts toward relationship repair.

Nov 11, 2021 • 39min
#205: Break Out of The Human Zoo
To implement consistent, healthy habits that support a meaningful life, it is helpful to expand your perspective to see the whole picture. Today's guest, Jonah Larkin, helps us do that. He likens our current situation to being like humans living in a zoo and helps us break free.

Nov 4, 2021 • 46min
Rapture, Ecstasy, Orgasm and the Divine Feminine
In this incredibly rare conversation you'll hear from a woman who has opened her heart and sensuality, who wants you to feel more powerful with women.

Oct 28, 2021 • 38min
#204: More Meaning and Fun Through Gamifying Life
When we are stressed, overwhelmed or overworked it can be a sign that we are taking life more seriously than we need to. Gamifying our activities is one way to bring more ease, fun and deeper meaning back into our lives. Today's podcast guest, Thomas Edwards, author of The 1Up Effect shows us how.

Oct 21, 2021 • 44min
#203: Use Conflict to Create Thriving Relationships
Many people avoid conflict and try to keep the peace. This, however, keeps things shallow and erodes trust. When you know how to handle conflict well, it becomes less scary and relationships deepen and thrive. Jayson Gaddis, author of Getting to Zero, shows us how.

Oct 7, 2021 • 45min
#47: How to Be a Sexually Integrated Man: Replay
In this replay, Jim Benson lays out his four archetypes of a Sexually Integrated Man. Learn how to express these archetypes authentically so you don't lose power and pleasure, which happens when these archetypes become distorted.