
Time For You: Nurturing Presence, Love, and Well-Being
Embark on a journey with Shailia Stephens and Lea Wernli as they unravel the secrets of inner peace, loving connections, and lasting well-being. "Time For You" is your guide to a beautiful life.
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May 17, 2024 • 23min
19 – Dropping the Thought ‘It’s All on Me’
In this episode, Lea and Shailia explore the weight of limiting beliefs, mainly "if it’s meant to be, it's all on me." What if we could drop that thought? Whether parenting, fundraising, advocating for others, or speaking in public, many feel the pressure of wanting to control outcomes. Let’s explore the freedom and peace that comes from releasing the need to control every detail, trusting that solutions and opportunities will present themselves from a quiet mind and a relaxed being. Tune in to discover the peace and freedom from letting go of thoughts that no longer serve us.
Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series
Want to feel more relaxed, be more at ease, and enjoy life more – going through your day with less pressure and more presence, getting things done simply and effortlessly?
Dive into this paradigm-shifting interview series for a lighter, brighter experience of life … and evolve into a more grounded human being in just one week!
http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com
About Us
Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply.
Contact Lea:https://www.mantacoaching.ch/mail@leawernli.ch
Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.
Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

May 3, 2024 • 23min
18 – Bridging Worlds: Embracing Separate Realities
Have you ever found yourself in a heated debate where it seems you're on completely different planets? In this episode, Lea takes us through her recent journey as the "villain" in a room full of experts with opposing views. Rather than clashing swords, she embraces the idea of ‘separate realities,’ recognizing that our lenses on the world vary wildly. She navigates the dissent and lack of common ground with calmness and openness, showing us the power of staying engaged in conversations, even when it's tough. Tune in as we delve into how to bridge worlds when opinions collide, and how this can lead to deeper understanding and connection.
Get On Board Our "My Secret Life" Interview SeriesJump on board, join us for 21 transformative conversations, and feel your spirit lightening with each interview – bathing in well-being by week's end!http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com
About Us
Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply.
Contact Lea:https://www.mantacoaching.ch/mail@leawernli.ch
Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.
Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

Apr 19, 2024 • 20min
17 – From Molehill to Mountain: Taming Exaggerations of Your Brain
Join Shailia and Lea as they delve into how our brains turn small setbacks into towering challenges. Shailia shares an experience of receiving an email about her digital product being denied, and how her mind spiraled in several different directions. Thank goodness she can recognize these thoughts as mere projections of the mind, not reflections of reality. Letting the emotions wash over her, she could approach the situation with ease and clarity. Listen in as we explore the power of awareness in navigating the drama our brains create, and how finding that inner peace can lead to more grounded decision-making.
Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series
You've been feeling like something's wrong with you – watching everyone else cruise through life, while you're struggling inside, and mostly hiding it? It’s time to find out what’s really making you feel 'OFF', recenter yourself, and remember what it’s like to be calm, capable, and carefree!
http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com
About Us
Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply.
Contact Lea:https://www.mantacoaching.ch/mail@leawernli.ch
Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.
Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

Apr 5, 2024 • 25min
16 – Loving the Low: Finding Beauty in Every Mood
Join hosts Lea Wernli and Shailia Stephens in a candid conversation about embracing low moods in the latest episode of "TIME FOR YOU" podcast. In this episode, Lea and Shailia delve into the misconception that low moods are always negative and explore the beauty of accepting and being present in any emotional state. Through personal anecdotes and insightful discussions, they highlight the importance of acknowledging and honoring our feelings without judgment. Discover how embracing low moods can lead to greater self-awareness and authenticity in your daily life.
Get On Board Our "My Secret Life" Interview SeriesJump on board, join us for 21 transformative conversations, and feel your spirit lightening with each interview – bathing in well-being by week's end!http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com
About Us
Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply.
Contact Lea:https://www.mantacoaching.ch/mail@leawernli.ch
Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.
Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

Mar 22, 2024 • 20min
15 – Untangling the Mind: Letting Go of Loaded Topics
Join hosts Shailia Stephens and Lea Wernli on "TIME FOR YOU" as they delve into "Loaded Topics" – those areas in our lives where habitual thinking keeps us stuck in circles of analysis without resolution. From obsessing over body image to endlessly brainstorming business ideas, they explore how these patterns of thought hinder progress and offer insights on how to break free. With a light, relaxed tone, they encourage listeners to notice these loaded topics and shift their focus away from them, allowing clarity to emerge from real-life experiences. Discover practical steps to untangle the mind and gain a fresh perspective on the everyday challenges we face.
Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series
Simply relax, listen, and sink into a deeper feeling as our guest speakers unveil their 'secret lives' … from a time before they discovered the “3 Principles” – a profound understanding that helps quiet your mind, lighten your mental load, and unleash your innate well-being.
http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com
About Us
Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply.
Contact Lea:https://www.mantacoaching.ch/mail@leawernli.ch
Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.
Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

Mar 8, 2024 • 23min
14 – Back in the Real World with a New Understanding
On this episode of "TIME FOR YOU" hosts Shailia Stephens and Lea Wernli explore the theme of being "Back in the Real World with a New Understanding." In this fun and enlightening chat, Lea shares her experiences of returning to the public school system in Switzerland with a completely transformed understanding of life and being human. Delve into the delicate balance of compassion and engagement as Lea navigates very familiar environments with a fresh perspective, not quite playing by conventional rules while still actively participating. Discover how she listens to others' worries and concerns without getting worried or concerned herself. Gain insights into living with awareness AND embracing everyday ‘real life.’
Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series
Do you want less overthinking and stress, and more clarity and flow in your life? Ready to lead from inner peace and trust, without adding new techniques to your to-do list?
In 7 days, you'll discover 21 stories of hidden personal challenges and life-changing 'aha' moments. Our guests, masterful coaches, and individuals like yourself, share their darkest times and their path to brighter days.
Simply listening in will lead to a lighter experience of life.
http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com
About Us
Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply.
Contact Lea:https://www.mantacoaching.ch/mail@leawernli.ch
Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.
Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

Feb 23, 2024 • 36min
13 – Gratitude in Spades: An Audio Message From Alyssa
It’s "TIME FOR YOU" with hosts Shailia Stephens and Lea Wernli and a moving conversation about "Gratitude in Spades." In this episode, they sit down with Shailia's BFF, Alyssa, who shares her heartfelt experiences from Australia, where she juggles work, play, and caring for her mother with dementia. Alyssa's touching audio message to Shailia reveals her mother's unwavering gratitude and joy in every visit, regardless of time or circumstance. Explore how “Queenie’s” attitude of gratitude has allowed Alyssa to show up more easily, with love and presence. Discover insights for being in any relationship, whether as a caregiver, a care receiver, or simply as a fellow human being.
Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series
You've been feeling like something's wrong with you – watching everyone else cruise through life, while you're struggling inside, and mostly hiding it?
It’s time to find out what’s really making you feel 'OFF', recenter yourself, and remember what it’s like to be calm, capable, and carefree!
http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com
About Us
Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply.
Contact Lea:https://www.mantacoaching.ch/mail@leawernli.ch
Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.
Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

Feb 9, 2024 • 24min
12 – What are we hiding?
Do we share everything and how authentic are we? Is it necessary to open the kimono, or not? The "My Million Dollar Experiment" and some other 'money games' prompted Lea to ponder whether she's truly sharing all aspects of herself with the world – her woo-woo moments, her spiritual side, or the myriad of things that pique her interest. For instance, she realized she rarely discusses her fascination with cryptocurrency. Sharing her ideas with the world poses no issue; however, venturing into discussions about magic, miracles, or manifestations within the "3 Principles" space isn't quite straightforward for Shailia either. It's intriguing to observe our conditioning and, through this awareness, potentially become more authentic, bit by bit.
Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series
Want to feel more relaxed, be more at ease, and enjoy life more – going through your day with less pressure and more presence, getting things done simply and effortlessly?
Dive into this paradigm-shifting interview series for a lighter, brighter experience of life … and evolve into a more grounded human being in just one week!
http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com
About Us
Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply.
Contact Lea:https://www.mantacoaching.ch/mail@leawernli.ch
Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.
Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

Feb 2, 2024 • 23min
11 – When fear is gone you see what is real
Ever felt that relief when you visit a chiropractor, and they do their magic, leaving you completely pain-free, making you realize just how uncomfortable you were before? That's exactly how Shaila felt not so long ago. In an instant, she found herself feeling secure in her life again, unaware until that moment that she had been subconsciously living in fear, like a pervasive anxiety about the future. And then, just like that, it vanished. We can't claim to know exactly how this transformation happened, but in this episode, we dive into our collective uncertainty, embracing once more the realization that life is indeed a mystery.
Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series
Ready to discover profound inner peace and connect with your deeper wisdom? Accompany us as we take you on an inner journey – out of the darkness and into the light. A journey of inspiration, hope, and sustainable change for your more wonderful life!
http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com
About Us
Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply.
Contact Lea:https://www.mantacoaching.ch/mail@leawernli.ch
Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.
Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com

Jan 26, 2024 • 29min
10 – Winter Wonders and Wisdom
Join us in this heartfelt episode of "Winter Wonders & Wisdom," where Lea and Shailia share enriching personal stories and insights. Experience Lea's snowy interaction with the Swiss police and find out how a simple snowfall leads to meaningful life lessons. Discover how embracing the three principles of life can simplify everyday challenges, turning even stressful moments into opportunities for growth. We also delve into Shailia's experiences with veterinary bills for her dogs, exploring how these once stressful situations no longer trigger anxiety but instead offer valuable lessons. This episode is an invitation to embrace life's unpredictable moments, finding wisdom and peace in every circumstance.
Join Us For the "My Secret Life" Interview Series7 days with 21 stories of hidden personal challenges and life-changing aha moments!http://www.mysecretlife-interviews.com
About Us
Hi, I'm Lea Wernli. I'm a coach and mentor. I may not see well, but I'm a great listener. After a profound insight into our spiritual nature, I fell in love with life again. I guide my coaching clients with love (sometimes tough love and a few good swear words) toward their true nature. My favorite addictions are coffee and good stories. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the playbook for an awesome life. For me, it's about experiencing everything deeply.
Contact Lea:https://www.mantacoaching.ch/mail@leawernli.ch
Hello, I'm Shailia Stephens. I'm an Advanced Transformative Coach and Business Mentor for ❤️-centered "soulpreneurs." Before turning 40, I was a busy online business lady hustling toward success and driven by inner pressure. Today, I’m moving free and easy … and creating from aliveness and at my own pace. In the "Lighter Life Lounge," I share the "3 Principles" for an amazingly calm and effortlessly easy life and business.
Contact Shailia:https://www.shailiastephens.com/info@shailiastephens.com