Joy of Missing Out (JOMO)

In this discussion, Eric Wei, co-founder of Karat Financial, and Chloe Shih, a tech product manager, delve into the art of social navigation. They share hilarious stories about cringe-worthy moments at events and the importance of kicking out unwanted guests while setting firm boundaries. Chloe reveals her awkward fumble at a networking dinner, and both guests highlight the complexities of maintaining healthy social circles. They explore how to handle friends’ unsavory acquaintances and emphasize the need for open communication to foster safer, more supportive communities.

Networking can be a daunting challenge for introverts. The hosts share humorous stories of their awkward encounters at large events like VidCon. They discuss the importance of forming genuine connections rather than engaging in superficial interactions. Insights from personality assessments reveal how understanding oneself can ease social anxieties. Plus, they delve into navigating beauty standards and the complexities of building relationships. Get ready for tips on connecting authentically, even when feeling overwhelmed!

Diving into the complexities of adult friendships, the hosts explore why real connections are harder to maintain as life gets busier. They share personal stories about navigating toxic relationships, including a cautionary tale about an abusive best friend. The struggle to form new bonds in middle age is examined, alongside humorous takes on awkward social dynamics. With reflections on the emotional rollercoaster of friendship, they emphasize the importance of empathy, boundaries, and recognizing the need for supportive relationships in tumultuous times.

In this engaging discussion, Eric Wei, co-founder of a financial service for creators, and Chloe Shih, a tech product manager, explore the mental struggles of feeling inadequate despite visible success. They share personal stories of kindness, the exhausting pursuit of accomplishments, and the pressure of networking at college reunions. Reflecting on community involvement and the pressures of societal expectations, they encourage listeners to appreciate incremental progress and authenticity in their journeys.

Eric Wei, a co-founder of Karat Financial, and Chloe Shih, a tech product manager, discuss the trade-offs between being a full-time content creator and pursuing a tech career. They explore balancing family expectations, starting a company, creating quality content, and finding passion and purpose in their professional journeys.

“Should I leave my 9-5 to do content?” We’ve all had that thought, and Chloe actually made it happen. But is content really as glamorous as it seems? Chloe and Eric dive into the good, the bad, and the ugly of some of today's most enticing career paths: tech, startups, and content. 𝙏𝙃𝙀 𝙅𝙊𝙈𝙊 𝙃𝙊𝙎𝙏𝙎 🎙️ 𝗘𝗿𝗶𝗰 𝗪𝗲𝗶 (⁠  @trykarat  ) - IG: https://www.instagram.com/erictway co-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances 𝗖𝗵𝗹𝗼𝗲 𝗦𝗵𝗶𝗵 ⁠(  @chloeshih  ) IG: / https://www.instagram.com/chloe.shih/ tech product manager sharing perspectives on career, life advice, and living in your 30s. Editor: Jayna Benito 𝙎𝙊𝘾𝙄𝘼𝙇𝙎 🌸 ∙ instagram → https://www.instagram.com/jomo.pod ∙ spotify → https://bit.ly/jomo-spotify ∙ apple podcasts → https://bit.ly/jomo-apple ∙ tiktok → https://www.tiktok.com/@jomopod ∙ discord → https://discord.gg/chloeshih 𝘾𝙃𝘼𝙋𝙏𝙀𝙍𝙎 📚 0:00 sick and tired of it all 2:46 did eric get shadow banned? 4:06 learned helplessness 5:46 chloe spends HOW many hours a week on content? 9:09 chloe has the urge to go back to corporate 1048 is content less fun as a full time creator? 11:51 how to design your life 13:14 how being 30 affects your body 15:35 the three paths - content is a side hoe 17:56 the most interesting people are not online 20:13 PM is NOT a chill job 24:03 what’s so hard about deciding life paths 27:30 do CEOs have to be good at managing people 29:13 should creators have smaller teams? 33:00 is YouTube still worth it? 35:08 how to make the most out of your PM job 39:23 feeling unimpactful as a PM 40:47 I just wanna be salary man 42:32 creators don’t get to work on the business side 44:50 chloe’s crazy grind schedule 49:11 does chloe want to start her own company? 51:18 eric’s career advice for chloe 53:35 how eric deals with burnout 54:40 eric & chloe’s plans for the next few weeks 📧 business: jomo.chat@gmail.com #jomopod #joyofmissingout #chloeshih #ericwei #careerpodcast #career #contentcreator #startup #careeradvice

In Part 2 of our steamiest episode yet - what's it really like to date successful people? Do men like it when women are smarter than them? Should the man in a relationship pay more? Chloe and Eric are joined by a friend to discuss everything related to love and dating in your 30s. 𝙎𝙋𝙄𝘾𝙀 𝙇𝙀𝙑𝙀𝙇: 🌶️🌶️🌶️ 𝙏𝙃𝙀 𝙅𝙊𝙈𝙊 𝙃𝙊𝙎𝙏𝙎 🎙️ 𝗘𝗿𝗶𝗰 𝗪𝗲𝗶 (⁠ @trykarat ) - IG: https://www.instagram.com/erictway co-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances 𝗖𝗵𝗹𝗼𝗲 𝗦𝗵𝗶𝗵 ⁠( @chloeshih ) IG: / https://www.instagram.com/chloe.shih/ tech product manager sharing perspectives on career, life advice, and living in your 30s. Editor: Jayna Benito Disclaimer: This episode features an open and honest discussion about our diverse dating journeys. We understand that some viewpoints may differ from your own, and we fully respect that. Our aim is to create a space for a variety of perspectives rooted in real experiences. Please remember that the content of this podcast is not intended as advice. Instead, we hope it highlights the complexity of dating and love. 𝙎𝙊𝘾𝙄𝘼𝙇𝙎 🌸 ∙ instagram → https://www.instagram.com/jomo.pod ∙ spotify → https://bit.ly/jomo-spotify ∙ apple podcasts → https://bit.ly/jomo-apple ∙ tiktok → https://www.tiktok.com/@jomopod ∙ youtube → www.youtube.com/@jomopod ∙ discord → https://discord.gg/chloeshih 𝘾𝙃𝘼𝙋𝙏𝙀𝙍𝙎 📚 0:00 welcome to pt 2! 0:48 what it’s like to date founders 3:02 are founders more likely to cheat? 4:22 the problems with men wanting validation 5:40 was dating in 30s different for eric 6:36 why dating in 30s gets harder for women 8:42 how eric “screens” potential gfs 9:27 why eric doesn’t want kids 10:45 the most forward chloe has ever been 12:57 eric’s consulting rizz 13:43 do guys like when girls are smarter 15:49 how do you know he wants to be more than friends 17:36 definite dealbreakers 18:36 GREEN flags 22:11 being gaslit into open relationships 26:36 improve yourself to attract better people in your life 29:10 why open relationships don’t work long term 31:37 when are you ready to get married 33:06 how eric views marriage 34:55 should men pay for more 41:40 how much $$ do you need to live comfortably in LA 45:09 being a housewife 46:15 favorite romantic tropes 📧 business: jomo.chat@gmail.com #jomopod #joyofmissingout #chloeshih #ericwei #dating #relationships #love

The conversation dives into whether women really care about height and explores the complexities of dating friends. Open relationships make a splash, alongside candid discussions about trust and societal perceptions. Personal anecdotes reveal the ups and downs of dating in your 30s, including quirky first date stories and the significance of emotional connections. Deal breakers and navigating commitments add to the playful debate, making the search for love feel both relatable and humorous.

Chloe Shih, a full-time creator who transitioned from tech, and Eric Wei, a startup founder and finance expert, dive into the complexities of money and personal fulfillment. They share candid reflections on financial dynamics in relationships, the impact of income on lifestyle changes, and the allure versus reality of startup life. With stories on balancing creativity with finance, they spill some major tea on the real challenges of leaving corporate jobs. Their honest conversation reveals the emotional nuances that come with navigating wealth in today's world.

Chloe shares her viral journey after getting laid off, amassing over 20 million views and new opportunities. The hosts discuss the emotional rollercoaster of layoffs and the unexpected connections formed through shared experiences. They delve into the lighter side of networking, exploring humorous dating strategies influenced by social media. Interwoven with personal anecdotes, they reflect on the challenges of authenticity in content creation and the importance of friendship during career transitions. Expect laughs and relatable insights throughout!