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Loving BDSM
Loving BDSM
We help kinksters have happy, healthy power exchange relationships.
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Jul 15, 2024 • 18min
Q&A: How Do I Trust My Dom Again?
A submissive has gone through a lot with their Dominant partner with consent violations, a broken D/s agreement, and just being made to feel awful. And they want to know if it’s possible to...
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Jul 12, 2024 • 1h 32min
Radical Honesty in Power Exchange
The podcast discusses the concept of radical honesty in power exchange relationships, emphasizing the importance of open communication and understanding desires. Personal anecdotes about honesty, accountability, and communication in power dynamics are shared, highlighting the significance of trust and authenticity in relationships. The hosts also touch on topics like upcoming birthday plans, entertaining TV shows, transitioning to homeschooling, and managing challenges in extreme weather conditions.
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Jul 8, 2024 • 11min
Q&A: How Do I Tell My Partner I Want to Switch?
A submissive who was once the Dominant in their power exchange wants to add their Dom energy back to the dynamic but isn’t sure how to talk to their partner about it. Here’s the...
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Jul 5, 2024 • 1h 29min
Needing External Motivation in Power Exchange
Exploring external motivation in power exchange dynamics, discussing the significance of dominant partners providing direction. Comparison of external and internal motivators, highlighting the role of rewards in incentivizing tasks. Personal experiences shared about needing external motivation and the importance of routine. Delving into complexities of external motivation, emphasizing healthy and consensual dynamics. Mention of family traditions, celebrating achievements, and improving pet health.
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Jun 21, 2024 • 1h 26min
Task Creep in Power Exchange
Discover the quirky world of task sharing in relationships, where humor and collaboration collide over resin inlay paddles. Unpack the phenomenon of 'task creep' that sneaks into power dynamics, highlighting the need for clear communication. Personal anecdotes reveal the struggle between roles and responsibilities, emphasizing the importance of negotiation to prevent misunderstandings. Dive into the complexities of family dynamics, illustrating the blend of love and chaos in navigating expectations and authority at home.
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Jun 14, 2024 • 1h 20min
Celebrating 400 Episodes with Kinky Q&A
We don’t know how we’ve made it to 400 full-length episodes, either, but here we are! We didn’t get a lot of questions for this one, so we just sort of chatted until we...
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Jun 7, 2024 • 1h 25min
BDSM Reddit Response
We’re one week away from our 400th episode, so we’re starting the celebration early with a BDSM Reddit response episode! In this episode: Ask your questions for our Monday episodes. We’re celebrating 10,000 subscribers...
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May 31, 2024 • 1h 49min
Over Communication in Power Exchange
The hosts dive into the nuances of communication in power exchange dynamics, revealing the delicate balance between under and over-communication. They share personal stories about the emotional effects of information overload in relationships. Techniques like safe words and recognizing visual cues are discussed to enhance understanding. Alongside serious insights, there’s laughter as they share daily life anecdotes, touch on parenting challenges, and reflect on binge-watching habits. The mix of humor and serious exploration makes for an engaging listen.
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May 27, 2024 • 28min
Q&A: Is My Dom the Problem or Am I?
A submissive has a recurring issue about aftercare with their Dominant partner and wants to know: are they the problem or is it me? Here’s the question: I’ve been dating a dom for about...
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May 24, 2024 • 1h 49min
Submission With Control Issues
We joke about Kayla’s control issues, but they’re definitely a thing we both have to navigate in our power exchange. In this episode: We joke about Kayla’s control issues all the time. The stereotype...
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