Needing External Motivation in Power Exchange

Jul 5, 2024

Exploring external motivation in power exchange dynamics, discussing the significance of dominant partners providing direction. Comparison of external and internal motivators, highlighting the role of rewards in incentivizing tasks. Personal experiences shared about needing external motivation and the importance of routine. Delving into complexities of external motivation, emphasizing healthy and consensual dynamics. Mention of family traditions, celebrating achievements, and improving pet health.

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ANECDOTE

Kayla's Extrinsic Motivation

Kayla needs external motivation to do chores.
She folds laundry when her "daddy" tells her to, not from internal motivation.

INSIGHT

Extrinsic Motivation Defined

Extrinsic motivation comes from external incentives, especially reward or punishment.
It helps with unpleasant tasks, providing feedback and reinforcement.

ADVICE

Using Extrinsic Motivation Effectively

Use extrinsic motivation for unpleasant tasks or when internal motivation lacks.
Avoid it for intrinsically rewarding activities, as it can decrease motivation.

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