Loving BDSM

Two kinksters have moved in together and things aren’t quite like what they expected. Here’s the question: I have been with my baby sub for about a year and up until the last five... The post Q&A: How Do We Find the Right Amount of Intimacy? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This probably seems really random, but we’re bringing you a quick “commercial” break to let you know our podcast/live stream plans for the week of Thanksgiving 2025. We hope you can join us on... The post Last Minute Schedule Change appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Even though YouTube doesn’t impact the podcast, what they do to our channel does impact our plans. That’s why this week’s episode is a bonus section episode, lol. In this episode: Join us for... The post Bonus Section Episode appeared first on Loving BDSM.

A collared submissive in the medical field seeks alternatives to her collar for work. The hosts dive into creative options like day collars and subtle jewelry that blend with professional attire. They discuss the importance of workplace safety and offer ideas for discreet items like bracelets or lanyards. Users are encouraged to choose materials that can be sanitized easily. Tips on carrying tactile tokens for comfort during stressful days also make a highlight, promoting the balance between professionalism and personal identity.

The hosts dive into the concept of 'soft BDSM,' unpacking its gentle, connection-focused nature. They debate whether it truly exists as a distinct form or simply blends into the broader BDSM spectrum. Concerns arise around how 'soft' labels might mislead newcomers about safety. Misinformation from low-quality sources complicates public perceptions. They explore the evolution of kink language and how younger practitioners are reshaping terminology to suit their experiences. Ultimately, the hosts encourage personal definitions over rigid classifications.

This week, we’re responding to situations shared on the kinky side of Reddit! In this episode: Join us through Patreon for a special holiday tier and get extra perks! Soft kink shaming Got dumped... The post BDSM Reddit Response appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Explore the fascinating concept of love maps and how it can enhance power exchange dynamics. Discover practical ways to develop deeper connections through understanding your partner's inner world. Dive into discussions about the role of negotiation in kink and its impact on trust and safety. Reflect on whether creating a kink-specific map can deepen relationships. Learn how cohabitation fosters intimacy and how insufficient understanding in kink can cause harm. Uncover the potential of structured conversations for enriching power exchange.

This week’s episode is from a question a kinkster sent to us. They wanted to know our take on power exchange, domestic discipline, and trad wives. In this episode: It’s the 5th Anniversary sale... The post Power Exchange vs Domestic Discipline vs Trad Wives appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This kinkster loves what they have with their boyfriend, but they’ve also discovered new desires that feel opposed to who they think they are. Here’s the question: I’m a poly woman with two long-term... The post Q&A: Should I Change Our Dynamic Even Though I’m Happy With What We Have? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

In this week’s episode, I (Kayla) share a moment in kink where I realized I felt shame – which was a shock. Which brought me back to this conversation – the last time we... The post Dealing with Shame in Kink appeared first on Loving BDSM.