Loving BDSM

It’s the last episode of 2025, so we’re keeping it casual and chaotic with a bit of silliness. In this episode: This month’s virtual munch live stream is this Friday, December 19 starting at... The post Answering 10 Silly Relationship Questions appeared first on Loving BDSM.

They’re in a long distance relationship and each have their own partners and lives to balance. They want to know how to have a playful power exchange when they can’t be together. Here’s the... The post Q&A: How Do We Maintain Playful D/s While LDR? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

We made a goal to reconnect and become more intentional in our power exchange this year. Now that we’re near the end of the year, let’s talk about how it went! In this episode:... The post Our D/s Life in 2025 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we’re answering a question I (Kayla) couldn’t stop thinking about. We’re not sure if they asked in good faith or not, but we’re taking the question seriously. Here’s the question: Does any... The post Q&A: How is D/s Worth It if It’s So Difficult? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we’re looking forward to 2026 to how to achieve some of the kink goals a lot of kinksters have (including us!). As always, you don’t have to wait for an arbitrary date... The post How to Achieve Your Kink Goals for 2026 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Two kinksters have moved in together and things aren’t quite like what they expected. Here’s the question: I have been with my baby sub for about a year and up until the last five... The post Q&A: How Do We Find the Right Amount of Intimacy? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This probably seems really random, but we’re bringing you a quick “commercial” break to let you know our podcast/live stream plans for the week of Thanksgiving 2025. We hope you can join us on... The post Last Minute Schedule Change appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Even though YouTube doesn’t impact the podcast, what they do to our channel does impact our plans. That’s why this week’s episode is a bonus section episode, lol. In this episode: Join us for... The post Bonus Section Episode appeared first on Loving BDSM.

A collared submissive in the medical field seeks alternatives to her collar for work. The hosts dive into creative options like day collars and subtle jewelry that blend with professional attire. They discuss the importance of workplace safety and offer ideas for discreet items like bracelets or lanyards. Users are encouraged to choose materials that can be sanitized easily. Tips on carrying tactile tokens for comfort during stressful days also make a highlight, promoting the balance between professionalism and personal identity.

The hosts dive into the concept of 'soft BDSM,' unpacking its gentle, connection-focused nature. They debate whether it truly exists as a distinct form or simply blends into the broader BDSM spectrum. Concerns arise around how 'soft' labels might mislead newcomers about safety. Misinformation from low-quality sources complicates public perceptions. They explore the evolution of kink language and how younger practitioners are reshaping terminology to suit their experiences. Ultimately, the hosts encourage personal definitions over rigid classifications.