Loving BDSM

This week’s episode doesn’t focus on risk mitigation and safety practices in kink play. We’re talking about what it means to be safe for your partner emotionally, so they can be vulnerable with you... The post Being Your Partner’s Safe Person appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we’re answering questions asked on the kinky side of Reddit! In this episode: Today (October 28) is our wedding anniversary! Sub struggles with punishments Partner says he doesn’t want to Dom (CW:... The post BDSM Reddit Response appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Does wearing a collar make unsuspecting people part of a power exchange? This discussion explores the line between personal symbolism and public kink, comparing collars with wedding rings and fashion accessories. It considers family discomfort, privacy, autonomy, discreet rituals, generational attitudes, and when requests for compromise become attempts to control someone else’s choices.

We’re very familiar with stressful events disrupting a power exchange relationships, but sometimes life just lifes. Someone online called it “vanilla creep,” and we agree. So let’s talk about what vanilla creep looks like... The post Vanilla Creep in D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we’re answering your kinky questions asked on Instagram and Fetlife! In this episode: What inspired you to start your own kink podcast and selling handmade kinky items? I just got out of... The post Kinky Q&A appeared first on Loving BDSM.

I have no idea how to title this week’s episode, lol. But it’s a thing we kind of talked about in last week’s Reddit episode and a thing that we do in our power... The post Submissives Using Signals to Communicate Desire appeared first on Loving BDSM.

For our first episode back, we knew it needed to be a fun one! We’re reacting to the kinky side of Reddit this week! In this episode: Today’s the last day to get the... The post BDSM Reddit Response appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week’s episode from the archives discusses managing unfair expectations in your power exchange. The original episode was published in 2018. This is a stripped down version so no old intro, no announcements, and... The post From the Archives: Unfair Expectations in Your Power Exchange appeared first on Loving BDSM.

As promised, while on hiatus, we’re bringing back episodes from the archives starting with people pleasing in power exchange. It was originally published in 2022. This is a stripped down version so no old... The post From the Archives: People Pleasing appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, we share some of what’s going on with our mental health as well as an important announcement (around minute 45). In this episode: Celebrate Kinkmas in July at the Kinkery! We’ve talked... The post Another Mental Health Episode and an Announcement appeared first on Loving BDSM.