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Loving BDSM
Loving BDSM
We help kinksters have happy, healthy power exchange relationships.
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Oct 10, 2025 • 1h 2min
10 Relationship Questions that Show You Really Know Your Partner
This week, we’re answering relationship questions from Therapy Jeff (again!) because we needed a chill, low-key episode, lol. In this episode: Check out the new version of the Kinkery! This week’s trans-affirming resource is...
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Oct 3, 2025 • 1h 36min
Kinky Q&A
This week, we’re answering questions you asked us over on IG at that handle Kayla hates. In this episode: Our Wednesday livestream will be at 3pm ET starting next week. This week’s trans-affirming care...
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Sep 26, 2025 • 1h 29min
BDSM Reddit Response
The world is on fire, so let’s take a break with a BDSM Reddit episode! In this episode: We’re sharing trans-affirming resources each week because we can’t be the only ones who need this...
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Sep 19, 2025 • 1h 44min
What’s Changed in our D/s | Updates from Old Episodes
We had technical issues last week which kept us from recording this episode, but we’re back! (Technically with new technical problems but those don’t impact the podcast, lol.) This week, we’re giving updates from...
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Sep 5, 2025 • 1h 41min
Is Kink Being Normalized or Is It Just Going Viral?
A lighthearted exploration kicks off with allergic reactions in woodworking, but quickly dives into the intriguing modern normalization of kink culture. The discussion highlights the concerning overlap between social media trends and consent in relationships. Misunderstandings around kink are brought to light through humor and personal anecdotes, including the complexities of 'trad wives' and power dynamics. The episode questions if increased visibility in mainstream media represents true understanding or mere commercialization. Prepare for playful cake musings amidst serious insights!
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Aug 29, 2025 • 1h 11min
Chaotically Answering Kink Questions from Our Inbox
After multiple weeks locked out of our own email inbox, we’re finally back in and celebrating by answering the questions that were waiting for us just like we would for our Monday Q&A episodes...
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Aug 22, 2025 • 1h 19min
BDSM Reddit Response
The hosts delve into Reddit's whimsical world of BDSM, tackling everything from the complexities of consent to the importance of safe words. They humorously unpack relationships that involve age gaps and secrecy, stressing transparency and trust. Personal anecdotes add depth to their discussions on navigating boundaries and emotional complexities. A heartwarming update on a beloved pet's recovery lightens the mood, while amusing reflections on gaming and quirky erotic storytelling bring a fun twist to the conversation!
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Aug 15, 2025 • 1h 52min
It’s Our 10th Podcast Anniversary!
Somehow, someway, we’ve managed to keep the chaos going for exactly 10 years! In this week’s episode, we take a look at how we got here, then we do our “job” of helping folks...
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Aug 8, 2025 • 1h 16min
Our Experience Using the Obedience App
This episode dives into the hosts' experience with the Obedience app, showcasing its features like task tracking and rewards. They discuss creating daily collar habits and the challenges of strict deadlines. Insights on adjusting points and utilizing the app for household chores reveal its potential for behavioral change. The hosts share tips for new users on starting small and tailoring tasks. Overall, they recommend the app for busy individuals and doms looking for organized support in their dynamics.
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Aug 1, 2025 • 1h 28min
Our Uneven, Non-Linear Return to Our D/s Life
This week’s episode is a “ripped from the pages of our life” kind of topic. We recently had a long conversation where Kayla shared some of what she needs as a submissive, but JB...
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