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Loving BDSM Our Experience Using the Obedience App
Aug 8, 2025
This episode dives into the hosts' experience with the Obedience app, showcasing its features like task tracking and rewards. They discuss creating daily collar habits and the challenges of strict deadlines. Insights on adjusting points and utilizing the app for household chores reveal its potential for behavioral change. The hosts share tips for new users on starting small and tailoring tasks. Overall, they recommend the app for busy individuals and doms looking for organized support in their dynamics.
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Negotiate Before You Automate
- Do discuss and agree on using obedience-style apps before adding tasks or partners.
- Start slow with a few tasks and negotiate boundaries to avoid overwhelming the dynamic.
Offload Memory To Reduce Anxiety
- The app converts verbal requests into persistent reminders that reduce mental load.
- Automatic notifications remove the need to hold tasks in memory and lower anxiety about forgetting.
Collar Habit Revived (And Missed Point)
- John set a daily task for Kayla to wear her collar by 8 a.m., which revived a habit they had let slip.
- Kayla usually completed the collar task but once lost points by tapping the app after the deadline.