

The Humans vs Retirement Podcast
Dan Haylett
Humans vs Retirement is the podcast that proves retirement isn't just about money, it's about life. Hosted by me Dan Haylett, I dive into the real, human side of retirement: the emotions, the mindset shifts, and the messy, wonderful journey of reinventing yourself for the next chapter. Through honest conversations with experts and inspiring stories from retirees themselves, you'll get the tools, ideas, and encouragement you need to retire to something, not just from something.
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Oct 6, 2023 • 54min
How to Light Your Retirement Torch with The Father of Life Planning, George Kinder
Summary Author, international thought leader, and life-planning pioneer George Kinder has been at the forefront of the financial services industry for more than 35 years, spearheading a movement to put the lives that clients desire to live at the centre of their financial plans. Through books, workshops, and speaking engagements, George has trained thousands of professionals globally in the field of financial life planning. After 30 years as a practicing financial planner and tax adviser, he founded the Kinder Institute of Life Planning in 2003. His three books on money, The Seven Stages of Money Maturity (1999), Lighting the Torch (2006), and Life Planning for You (2014), are considered foundational and essential works in the field of financial life planning, for both professionals and consumers. George's many accomplishments include: Financial Planning Association's first Heart of Financial Planning Award in 2006, recognizing "individuals who demonstrate commitment and passion in doing extraordinary work to contribute or give back to the financial planning community and/or the public." The Transparency Task Force's Transparency Trophy (2017), recognizing his role in "helping to navigate the industry towards a more transparent, competitive and enlightened state." "One of 20 People Who Shaped the Financial Planning Industry" ("50th Anniversary of Financial Planning" Special Edition, InvestmentNews, 2019). George has appeared on many radio and television programs, and his expertise has been featured in FP Today, The Financial Times, Forbes, InvestmentNews, The Journal of Financial Planning, New Model Adviser, The New York Times, Time Magazine, and The Wall Street Journal. In this episode George and I discuss the true impact of Life Planning on retirement. He shares the 3 questions that when answered change everything as well as his famous EVOKE process for building a Life Plan. Some of the other amazing topics covered are Life planning empowers financial freedom. Retirement is a new beginning. Retirement should be redefined. Importance of building a vision. Understand clients before financial planning. Reflect on your life's purpose. Embrace the present moment fully. Freedom is personal and unique. Retirement is an incredible opportunity. Useful Links Buy George's brilliant books The Seven Stages of Money Maturity, Lighting the Torch, Life Planning for You and A Golden Civilisation Visit George's website Subscribe to the Humans vs Retirement podcast on Apple Podcasts, and Spotify Download for free my 7 Step Retirement Toolkit Subscribe to my fortnightly newsletter Stay The Course Connect With George LinkedIn X / Twitter Connect With Me TFP Financial Planning LinkedIn X / Twitter Book in a chat if you want a second opinion about your retirement planning. Email at dan@tfp-fp.com www.humansvsretirement.com
Sep 29, 2023 • 47min
Shifting the Retirement Mindset to "Think, Feel, Do" with Ross Marino
Summary Ross Marino is the founder of Transitus Wealth Partners and the founder & CEO of Advisor 2X which organises and hosts global leading human first financial conferences such as SHIFT. He is a passionate advocate for Human-First Financial Guidance and author of the brilliant book Shaping Change: How To Respond When Life Disrupts Your Retirement Plan. He is a Certified Financial Transitionist and a key member of the Sudden Money Institute. In this episode Ross and I discuss the importance of flexibility, adaptability, and resilience in retirement and reveal how these qualities are crucial because our decisions are shaped by our experiences and learning, making them rational to us. We talk through why Ross believes that being open to change and adapting to new circumstances is key to navigating retirement successfully. Furthermore, Ross and I discuss the freedom and agency that retirement brings, emphasising that after decades of constraints on resources like time, energy, and money, retirement allows individuals to make their own choices. Whether it's continuing to work, pursuing hobbies, or spending time with family, retirees have the ability to determine how they want to spend their time and resources. This newfound freedom is seen as exciting and empowering. Useful Links Ross's book Shaping Change: How To Respond When Life Disrupts Your Retirement Plan Subscribe to the Humans vs Retirement podcast on Apple Podcasts, and Spotify Download for free my 7 Step Retirement Toolkit Subscribe to my fortnightly newsletter Stay The Course Connect With Ross LinkedIn X / Twitter Connect With Me TFP Financial Planning LinkedIn X / Twitter Book in a chat if you want a second opinion about your retirement planning. Email at dan@tfp-fp.com www.humansvsretirement.com
Sep 22, 2023 • 56min
Exploring the Power of 'Your Future Self' in Retirement with Hal Hershfield
Summary Hal Hershfield is a Professor of Marketing, Behavioural Decision Making, and Psychology at UCLA's Anderson School of Management and holds the UCLA Anderson Board of Advisors Term Chair in Management. He is also the author of the recently released best-selling book Your Future Self: How to Make Tomorrow Better Today His research, which sits at the intersection of psychology and economics, examines the ways we can improve our long-term decisions. He earned his PhD in psychology from Stanford University. Hershfield publishes in top academic journals and contributes op-eds to the New York Times, Harvard Business Review, the Wall Street Journal, and other outlets. He consults with the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, many financial services firms such as Fidelity, First Republic, Prudential, Morgan Stanley, Merrill Lynch, and Avantis. The recipient of numerous teaching awards, Hershfield was named one of "The 40 Most Outstanding B-School Profs Under 40 In the World" by business education website Poets & Quants. In this episode Hal and I discuss the challenges that individuals face when it comes to retirement and how our present selves often anchor us and distort our decisions about the future. We also delve into the importance of seeing our future selves and how it can impact our happiness and well-being and our conversation touches on the dangers of procrastination and the need to prioritize experiences and make intentional choices in retirement. Useful Links Buy Hal's brilliant book Your Future Self: How to Make Tomorrow Better Today Visit Hal's website Subscribe to the Humans vs Retirement podcast on Apple Podcasts, and Spotify Download for free my 7 Step Retirement Toolkit Subscribe to my fortnightly newsletter Stay The Course Connect With Hal LinkedIn X / Twitter Connect With Me TFP Financial Planning LinkedIn X / Twitter Book in a chat if you want a second opinion about your retirement planning. Email at dan@tfp-fp.com Find out more at www.humansvsretirement.com
Sep 15, 2023 • 57min
Preventing Cognitive Decline: Practical Tips for a Sharp and Healthy Brain in Retirement with Dr Moira Somers
Summary Dr Moira Somers is the founder of Money, Mind and Meaning, a renowned psychologist, neuroscientist, and family wealth consultant that specialises in the psychology of money. She is a faculty member at the Ultra High Net Worth Institute and at the Sudden Money Institute and leads the Financial Psychology Special Interest Group for the American Psychological Association. In this episode Moria and I discuss a number of key challenges when it comes navigating the complexities of life after work and in particular i tap into Moira's neuroscience background to talk about cognitive decline and how we can think about keeping our brain sharp and healthy throughout retirement Useful Links Money, Mind & Meaning Moira's brilliant book Advice That Sticks Subscribe to the Humans vs Retirement podcast on Apple Podcasts, and Spotify Download for free my 7 Step Retirement Toolkit Subscribe to my fortnightly newsletter Stay The Course Connect With Moira LinkedIn X / Twitter Connect With Me TFP Financial Planning LinkedIn X / Twitter Book in a chat if you want a second opinion about your retirement planning. Email at dan@tfp-fp.com Find out more by visiting www.humansvsretirement.com
Sep 8, 2023 • 54min
Embracing Triumph, Transition, and Transformation For a Vibrant Retirement with Dr. Preston Cherry
Summary & About Guest Dr. Preston Cherry is the Founder & President of Concurrent Financial Planning, Head of the Financial Planning Program, and Director of the Charles Schwab Centre for Personal Financial Planning at the UW – Green Bay. Preston specializes in empowering individuals to share stories that inform their financial resources and life's design to achieve financial wellness and freedom that cultivates life wholeness. Preston has been cited by the New York Times, Forbes, the Wall Street Journal, CNBC, and Yahoo Finance. He is an Investopedia 100 Top Financial Advisor, 2022 ThinkAdvisor LUMINARY Finalist, WealthManagement.com Ten to Watch in 2023, President of the Financial Therapy Association and practitioner editor of the award-winning Journal of Financial Planning. In this episode Dr. Cherry and I discuss the importance of understanding the meaning of retirement and creating a vision for the future. He introduces the concept of the four T's: trial, triumph, transition, and transformation, and explains how these stages can impact one's retirement journey. We also discuss the emotional aspect of money and the need to give oneself permission to enjoy retirement. Dr. Cherry shares personal stories and insights to inspire you to embrace your financial freedom and live a fulfilling retirement. Useful Links Dr Cherry's Website Subscribe to the Humans vs Retirement podcast on Apple Podcasts, and Spotify Download for free my 7 Step Retirement Toolkit Subscribe to my fortnightly newsletter Stay The Course Connect With Preston LinkedIn X / Twitter Connect With Me TFP Financial Planning LinkedIn X / Twitter Book in a chat if you want a second opinion about your retirement planning. Email at dan@tfp-fp.com Find out more at www.humansvsretirement.com
Sep 1, 2023 • 51min
Exploring Retirement Income Styles and Strategies with Wade Pfau
Summary Wade Pfau is the founder of Retirement Researcher and Professor of Retirement Income at the American College of Financial Services. He is one of the world's leading experts on retirement income strategies and actively researches and publishes his findings in prestigious journals and media outlets in the United States. He is also a published researcher and author. With his extensive knowledge and expertise in retirement income, Wade has established himself as a trusted authority in the field. His work and contributions have greatly influenced the understanding and implementation of retirement income strategies, making him a highly respected figure in the financial services industry. In this episode Wade and I focus on retirement income styles and the different strategies individuals can use to generate income and manage their finances in retirement. Wade emphasises the importance of finding an approach that aligns with a person's individual preferences and comfort levels. Our conversation also touches on topics such as spending patterns and optimal withdrawal rates for retirement income. Useful Links Retirement Researcher Website Wade's books Retirement Planning Guidebook, Safety-First Retirement Planning & How Much Can I Spend in Retirement Subscribe to the Humans vs Retirement podcast on Apple Podcasts, and Spotify Download for free my 7 Step Retirement Toolkit Subscribe to my fortnightly newsletter Stay The Course Connect With Wade LinkedIn X / Twitter Connect With Me TFP Financial Planning LinkedIn X / Twitter Book in a chat if you want a second opinion about your retirement planning Email at dan@tfp-fp.com www.humansvsretirement.com
Aug 25, 2023 • 53min
The Power of Social Connections and Flow in Retirement with Dr. Jordan Hutchinson
Summary & About Guest Dr. Jordan Hutchison is VP of Technology for RFG Advisory in the USA and an expert in flow theory. adjunct instructor in Behavioral Finance for Kaplan's College for Financial Planning. Jordan holds multiple industry certifications, a master's in financial planning, and a doctorate in business administration, specifically in behavioral science and positive psychology. In this episode we discuss the importance of social connections and relationships in the retirement transition, as well as the concept of flow and its connection to identity shifts. Jordan shares insights from his research and study of flow theory, career in the wealth management industry and personal insights from his time as a standout college basketball player and his parent's life transitions. Useful Links Charles Schwab: The most overlooked factor in aging well (aboutschwab.com) What is flow theory? – An article explaining what it is and how it may help and impact us Flow: The Psychology of Happiness By Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi Subscribe to the Humans vs Retirement podcast on Apple Podcasts, and Spotify Download for free my 7 Step Retirement Toolkit Subscribe to my fortnightly newsletter Stay The Course Connect With Jordan LinkedIn Twitter Connect With Me TFP Financial Planning LinkedIn Twitter Book in a chat if you want a second opinion about your retirement planning Email at dan@tfp-fp.com www.humansvsretirement.com
Aug 18, 2023 • 56min
How To Rock Retirement with Roger Whitney
Summary Roger is a renowned retirement podcaster, blogger, educator, and planner. With over 8 million downloads and 475 episodes of The Retirement Answer Man show under his belt, and his brilliant community-based Rock Retirement Club he has truly made a mark in the retirement space. We delved into the emotional and behavioural challenges of retirement, discussing how we, as humans, are simply not wired to take on this new phase of life without some battle scars. One of the key topics we explored was the "paycheck anxiety" that many individuals face when transitioning into retirement. The loss of that safety blanket, the feeling of security that comes with a regular paycheck, can be daunting. Roger shared some valuable insights and observations on how to navigate this challenge and find peace of mind in your retirement journey. Useful Links Thinking in Bets by Annie Duke The Power of Agency by Paul Napper & Anthony Rao Winning The Losers Game by Charles Ellis The Top 5 Regrets of The Dying by Bronnie Ware Subscribe to the Humans vs Retirement podcast on Apple Podcasts, and Spotify Download for free my 7 Step Retirement Toolkit Subscribe to my newsletter Stay The Course Connect With Roger Twitter LinkedIn The Retirement Answer Man Podcast Agile Retirement Management Connect With Me TFP Financial Planning LinkedIn Twitter Book in a chat if you want a second opinion about your retirement planning Email at dan@tfp-fp.com
Jul 3, 2023 • 40min
Reflecting on season 1: key insights for a happy, healthy, and wealthy retirement with host Dan Haylett
Summary In the final episode of season one, I'm flying solo to try and distil, summarise, and cover the key points from the previous 11 amazing episodes of the Humans vs Retirement podcast. I can't express my gratitude to you the listeners enough and I'm so excited for season two, which will launch after a four-to-five-week break. Join me as I reflect on the amazing conversations and insights gained from exploring the behavioural, emotional, and financial challenges of life after work. What You'll Learn The listener will learn about Finding new purpose and creating joy. Spending money on experiences rather than material things in retirement. The importance of not being too conservative with spending money. The four sources of contentment in retirement. The four anchors of retirement well-being. Effective communication in retirement. The importance of resilience. The being human problem Useful Resources Subscribe to the Humans vs Retirement podcast on Apple Podcasts, and Spotify Download for free my 7 Step RetirementGPS Toolkit Subscribe to my fortnightly newsletter Stay The Course Connect With Me TFP Financial Planning LinkedIn Twitter Book in a chat if you want a conversation about your retirement. Email at dan@tfp-fp.com
Jun 26, 2023 • 53min
Lessons and experiences through the lens of a real-life retirement journey with Andy Murphy
Andy Murphy, a former banker with over 40 years in finance, shares his candid experiences transitioning into retirement. He discusses the surprises of losing routine and identity beyond financial matters, emphasizing the importance of involving partners in planning. Andy highlights his newfound passions, like music discovery, and the significance of flexible goals. He reflects on learning from the past while creating a new purpose for himself, proving that retirement can be a journey of rediscovery and growth.


