We have the one-and-only Asa Akira, award-winning adult film star and director, join us to discuss a whole (hole?) range of topics from how she got started in porn, to whether her on-screen orgasms are real, to blowjobs, anal, squirting, b-hole bleaching, and more. She also opens up to us about how working in porn has affected her relationships/marriages. And we're catching up on Rayna's recent rendezvous and Ashley's missed connection. Hope you enjoy! Follow Asa on Instagram at @asahole. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: Function of Beauty: Go to functionofbeauty.com/gge to get 20% off your first order. Ritual: Get 10% off your first 3 months at ritual.com/gge. Buffy: For $20 off your first purchase of $80 or more, visit buffy.co and enter code GGE. HelloFresh: Go to hellofresh.com/gge12 + code GGE12 for 12 free meals including free shipping. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The pandemic completely changed our day-to-day lives, but what about our sex lives? We're discussing how the last year affected couples and singles, and what the fuck the future of sex, dating, and relationships will look like. Our guest is Cosmopolitan editor-in-chief Jessica Pels, and we're unpacking data gathered by an incredible study by the Kinsey Institute in partnership with Cosmo and Esquire (spoiler alert: pleasure is the priority). We're also sharing our listeners' sex/dating outlooks, chatting about bikini waxes vs. sugaring, and our TV recs take a turn. Hope you enjoy! Check out the April issue of Cosmopolitan and follow Jessica on Instagram @JessicaPels. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg, and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: Truff: Get 15% off sitewide + free shipping with code GGE at truff.com. Uqora: Get proactive about urinary tract health and 20% off at uqora.com/gge. Calm: For a limited time, get 40% off a Calm premium subscription at calm.com/gge. Rory: Go to hellorory.com/gge to try out nightly defense for just $5. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this episode, we are sharing stories from our listeners about dating as a woman of color, from messages they receive on apps to partners not understanding their experiences to fetishization. We're also bringing on a former (and favorite) guest Amy Chan, founder of Breakup Bootcamp, to discuss her experience growing up as an Asian woman, feeling shame as a child to leaning into the sexy stereotypes as a young woman, and her mindset today. We also discuss how to talk to your partner about these topics. And before we dive in, we're up to our usual antics with a divorced dude date story from Rayna, Ashley being single-shamed, and a tip for taking your phone sex to the next level. Enjoy! Follow Amy on Instagram @MissAmyChan and check out Renew Breakup Bootcamp as well as her book. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: Allform: To find your perfect sofa and get 20% off all orders, go to allform.com/gge. Pretty Litter: Use code GGE for 20% off your first order at prettylitter.com. FabFitFun: Get $10 off your first box at fabfitfun.com with code GGE. Dipsea: Get a 30-day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Are divorced guys the answer? We're unpacking it and Rayna is leaning in. Then we bring in Katya Libin, founder and CEO of HeyMama, to share her story of being a single, working mother -- the struggles and successes, building her own company, the importance of a support system, co-parenting, dating when you have a child, and more. We're also discussing walking away from a relationship you know isn't right (even when it's a month before your wedding), and how to vet someone before considering having children with them. And on the topic of mothers, Ashley shares a legendary story about her mom that we all can relate to. We hope you enjoy! Follow Katya on Instagram @KatyasLife and check out HeyMama. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for merchandise and show dates. Thank you to our partners this week: Raycon: Go to buyraycon.com/gge for 15% off your entire Raycon order. Function of Beauty: Go to functionofbeauty.com/gge to get 20% off your first order. Feals: Become a member at feals.com/gge and get 50% off your first order + free shipping. Candid: Go to candidco.com/gge code GGE for your risk-free starter kit + $75 off.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We're so excited to collab with the Friday Energy pop culture queens, Ria and Fran of Chicks in the Office! We chatted with them about all the gossip of the moment (Royals, Bachelor, Kardashians, Harry and Olivia), but also tapped into their own personal lives/boyfriends, and social media expertise. We're discussing whether cringey social media is a dealbreaker, following/liking hot models on Instagram when you're in a relationship, how to take better photos for your own feed, and more. And before we bring in the Chicks, we're going off about NYC's energy, the vaccine, and Botox/fillers. Hope you enjoy! Follow Chicks in the Office on Instagram @ChicksInTheOffice, Fran @FrancescaMariano, and Ria @MariaCiuffo. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg, and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: Nutrafol: Get 20% off your first order + free shipping at nutrafol.com with code GGE20. Calm: Get 40% off a premium subscription at calm.com/gge. Rory: Try out Nightly Defense for just $5 at hellorory.com/gge. Daily Harvest: Get 25% off your first box at dailyharvest.com with code GGE.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In their first podcast interview since getting engaged, we have Hannah Berner of Bravo's Summer House and comedian Des Bishop join us to discuss their whirlwind romance. We're talking about age differences (15 years between them), Facetime sex (they give tips), the Gen X DM slide, going from 0-60 between the first and second date, moving in together quickly, healthy fights (we witness one), and more. We also share our listeners' stories of pandemic proposals, engagements, and breakups (yikes). And we're dropping a crazy Catfish update from Rayna's story last week, Ashley shares an insane customer service experience, and we taste test flavored condoms. Enjoy!  Follow Hannah on Instagram @BeingBernz and Des @DesBishop. Check out their podcasts Berning in Hell and Des Bishop Podcast. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for merchandise, show dates, and to sign up for our newsletter. Thank you to our partners this week: Ritual: Get 10% off your first 3 months at ritual.com/gge. Buffy: For $20 off your first purchase of $80 or more, visit buffy.co and enter code GGE. HelloFresh: Go to hellofresh.com/gge12 and use code GGE12 for 12 free meals + free shipping. Dame: Get 15% off your first order at dameproducts.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We're joined by an icon in the world of internet connections -- Nev Schulman of Catfish (the movie, MTV show, and podcast). We're chatting with Nev about the type of people who catfish and get catfished, how to find out if someone isn't who they say they are, confronting someone who has deceived you, and how to forgive yourself and move on after being catfished. We're also sharing our listeners' stories, Nev shares the craziest situation he's experienced, AND Rayna tells the wild story of her (very recent) Catfishing. Hope you enjoy! Follow Nev on Instagram @NevSchulman, and check out the Catfish podcast. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg, and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for merchandise and show updates. Thank you to our partners this week: Truff: Get 15% off sitewide + free shipping with code GGE at truff.com/gge. Pretty Litter: Use promo code GGE for 20% off your first order at  prettylitter.com. Helix: Get up to $200 off all mattress orders + 2 free pillows at helixsleep.com/gge. HelloTushy: Go to hellotushy.com/gge to get 10% off + free shipping. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If there's one person who can speak on anxiety, depression, and panic with such humor, insight, and personal experience, it's Kelsey Darragh. We're so glad she joined us to discuss her mental health journey from therapy to misdiagnoses to meds to social situations to panic attacks. She shares what has worked for her, how to manage anxiety in a relationship (when you're the person with it or the partner trying to help), why and how she quit drinking, and more. And before Kelsey joins us, we're unpacking why guys turn down booty calls and/or friends with benefits situations. Enjoy! Follow Kelsey on Instagram @KelseyDarragh and check out her book Don't F*cking Panic. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for merchandise and show dates. Thank you to our partners this week: Calm: Get 40% off a premium subscription at calm.com/gge. Rory: Go to hellorory.com/gge to try the nightly defense for just $5. Candid: Go to candidco.com/gge + code GGE for your risk-free starter kit and $75 off. Earnest: Get a $100 bonus at earnest.com/gge. Terms and conditions apply. Visit earnest.com/licenses. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's our three year anniversary BONUS episode **air horn** and we're giving all the status updates. We're sharing how our lives have changed since the start of the podcast, how our listeners lives have changed (grab the tissues), and the tea everyone has been waiting for -- "Where are they now?" updates on former guests, the guys we got psychic readings about, and the most beloved GGE story submissions (yes, foot job girl, movie theater anal, and more). Thank you snackheads for three amazing years, and cheers to many more! Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg, and Ashley @AshHess. Check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Raycon: Go to buyraycon.com/gge for 15% off your entire Raycon order. Article: Go to article.com/gge for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. FabFitFun: Get $10 off your first box at fabfitfun.com, code GGE. Dame: For 15% off your first order, go to dameproducts.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If we've ever had an episode that's equal parts hot and healing, it's this one. We're talking about how to get your body buzzing with infinite orgasms, more enjoyable sex, and overall better pleasure with pussy healer Cosmic. She shares her four principles to follow and even guides us through the final step to getting in touch with your womb and feeling the power in your pussy. We're also talking about shame and stigmas around masturbating and turn-ons, polyamory and how to explore it, and why we need to be sunning our nether regions. Plus we're deep diving on Britney. Hope you enjoy! Follow Cosmic on Instagram @iamcosmicvibes and find more on her website. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: Dipsea: Get a 30-day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/gge. Feals: Become a member at feals.com/gge and get 50% off your first order + free shipping. DailyHarvest: Get $25 off your first box at dailyharvest.com, code GGE. Function of Beauty: Go to functionofbeauty.com/gge to get 20% off your order.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.