I hope you love this episode as much as I do featuring the fantastic Lola Jean- sex educator, instructor, coach, and Pro Domme. We talk about building confidence, awakening desire and libido, squirting, wrestling fetishes, and what to do if you like things that your partner does not.    Discount and Ads:  - Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands - Sakara is offering our listeners 20% off their first order when they go to Sakara.com/SANDS     Lola Jean: https://lolajean.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week's guest is Gloria Jackson-Nefertiti. She is a poet, public speaker, panelist, singer, photographer, and performance artist. She is also a breast cancer survivor who has Autism. She talks about what it is like to live in the intersection of being Black, autistic, polyamorous, and kinky, and how to navigate complex relationships in a neurotypical world.    Episode sponsored by UberLube: 10% off and free shipping when you use my code SandS at UberLube.com.   Support Gloria: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GloriaJacksonNefertiti Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gloriajacksonnefertiti/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/gloriajn Website: notgloriajean.net Gloria's "Thriving Life Fund" (GoFundMe Campaign): https://gf.me/u/ynqfuf   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode welcomes back author, director, and porn performer extraordinaire Joanna Angel as we celebrate her new book Club 42- a choose your own erotic fantasy where you get to decide what newfound stripper Naomi does next. We also talk about Joanna's creative process, her relationship and literary inspirations, some sexy tidbits from the book, and her idea of a dirty good time.     Discounts: Like A Kitten Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 20% off AND free shipping at www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS UberLube: 10% off and free shipping when you use code "SandS" at uberlube.com.   Pre order Joanna's book:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08PH8K4GW/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Welcome back to a new season! Jennifer Litner, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sexuality Educator, kicks us off with an episode about differing desires in a relationship (desire discrepancy), dealing with sexual disappointment, how to talk to children about sex in an age "appropriate" way, and how to keep things spicy in a long-term partnership. Also- why is sex like ice cream?   Discounts and ads:  Building Ease online course with Jennifer Litner: Listeners can save 20% off at  buildingease.embracesexualwellness.com using the promo code SLUTSANDSCHOLARS at checkout, valid thru 2/28/2021   Sakara plant-based meal delivery: Sakara is offering listeners 20% off their first order at sakara.com/sands   Dipsea sexy story audios: Dipsea is offering a 30-day free trial dipseastories.com/sands   Like a Kitten Couple's Box: 20 % off and free shipping www.LikeAKitten.com/SandS   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media. Loving Disclaimer: Sluts and Scholars is a sex positive, shame-free, educational podcast where we try to  help you talk smart and fuck smarter. While we love to give advice and resources, please note that any podcast or email from us is not intended to be therapy or a replacement for therapy. If you need emergency mental health help, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency center.  Thanks for tuning in and we hope you enjoy! 

This episode features millennial sexpert and sex eductaor Javay da BAE. Javay and Nicoletta cover a lot from racism in sex work to how to keep your long term relationship sexually connected. But also- the crygasm!    Sponsors/ discounts:  Pour Moi:  https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/ Dipsea:  Dipseastories.com/sands    Sakara: www.sakara.com/SANDS   Javay: https://www.javaydabae.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

With the election on top of all the other 2020 madness, burnout this year feels more real than ever. Using their own experiences as therapists, Moushumi Ghose joins Nicoletta for a very real conversation about feeling burnt out. Some topics: what to look for during burnout, what to do about burnout, and how to avoid it in the first  place.    Moushumi: https://www.losangelessextherapy.com/   Other Resources:  - Book by the Nagoski sisters  https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/592377/burnout-by-emily-nagoski-phd-and-amelia-nagoski-dma/ - Talk with Brene Brown https://brenebrown.com/podcast/brene-with-emily-and-amelia-nagoski-on-burnout-and-how-to-complete-the-stress-cycle/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This special episode features some past guests' submissions featuring real sexual health horror stories. Join Nicoletta as she welcomes back Dirty Lola, Mistress Justine Cross, Isabella Frappier, and Dr. Laurie Mintz. From debunking condom myths, to butt plugs gone wrong, health care horror, and systemic -isms, this episode is not for the faint of heart and is sure to leave you reeling.   This episode is sponsored by Dipsea. For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands   Featured Guests:    Dirty Lola: https://dirtylola.wordpress.com/   Mistress Justine Cross: https://www.losangelesdominatrix.com/   Isabella Frappier: http://www.isabellafrappier.com/   Dr. Laurie Mintz: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

Burlesque icon Michelle L'Amour joins Nicoletta for a conversation about genital confidence. They also delve into beauty standards, Alopecia, and vulnerability- as well as Butthoven.    Sponsors:    Right now, Trivia Star is offering you 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Just go to the Apple or Google store and search for Trivia Star. $25 off of the Intensity by Pour Moi https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/   Michelle L'Amour: https://michellelamour.com/   Resources mentioned:  Book: Tipping the Velvet https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004JHY6EG/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1   Andy Warhol video (which is still on YT, while Michelle's female version was blocked): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AAjmD1SIsrk   Butthoven: https://vimeo.com/31398940 FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This episode features sexologist and soon-to-be therapist Emily L. Depasse. Emily and Nicoletta talk about all things Herpes from stigma, to sex education, policy, and personal stories. Have you ever wondered how to tell a new or ongoing partner that you have Herpes? Tune in to find out how to navigate this very common virus.    Sponsors/ discounts:    Pour Moi: Pour Moi is offering our listeners an additional $25 off of Intensity when you go to PourMoi.com and enter code SandS at checkout. You can use this code along with any other discount code on their website https://www.pourmoi.com/ref/SandS/   Trivia Star: Trivia star-is offering you 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Just go to the Apple or Google store and search for Trivia Star.   Emily: https://www.emilydepasse.com/   Resources mentioned in the episode:  - Ella Dawson's TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YcIl-hclrLI - Something Positive for Positive People: Access to therapy/nonprofit/podcast https://www.spfpp.org  - American Sexual Health Organization: "Herpes (oral & genital) cannot be spread through inanimate objects such as spoons, glasses, razors, towels, bed sheets, etc. Herpes can only be passed through direct skin-to-skin contact with the infected area such as kissing, oral sex, genital-to-genital rubbing, vaginal, and anal sex." https://www.ashasexualhealth.org/five-things-you-should-know-about-herpes/  -  Planned Parenthood: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/ask-experts/can-herpes-be-spread-through-sharing-food-and-drinks Community:    FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.

This week Nicoletta is joined by classmate and colleague Nicole Belmonte- who is also a therapist and sexologist. They talk about what it is like dating when you are a sex therapist, how to deal with being single, and what exactly a sex therapist can help you with.   This episode is sponsored by Dipsea and Trivia Star! Dipsea: Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands   Trivia Star: Trivia star-is offering you 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Just go to the Apple or Google store and search for Trivia Star.   Nicole Belmonte: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/nicole-e-belmonte-schaumburg-il/384837 https://real-talk-therapy.com/   Article from the episode: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/202005/my-therapist-the-porn-star   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.