Confidently Insecure

Kelsey Darragh
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Aug 4, 2025 • 44min

why i'm CHILD FREE !!! (and you should be too)

A CONTROVERSY!!!! or is it all that controversial when you hear the facts? Child-free living has never looked more desirable, but countries all over the world are SO DESPERATE to make people BONE!!! What do you think, confidantes? Lets explore the societal, financial, and personal implications of choosing not to have children. Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Child-Free Movement01:46 Understanding Child-Free vs. Childless07:15 Personal Reflections on Being Child-Free09:30 Financial Considerations of Parenthood13:19 The Role of Partners in Parenting Decisions14:41 Concerns About the State of the World15:59 The Village Concept in Modern Parenting18:18 The Pressure of Family Expectations20:24 The Risks of Pregnancy and Childbirth21:24 Declining Birth Rates and Societal Implications23:57 Global Trends in Birth Rates26:58 Incentives for Childbirth Around the World30:34 Critique of Societal Pressures on Women31:48 Community Perspectives on Being Child-FreeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jul 28, 2025 • 42min

FaceTime S3x and Trust Issues: Welcome to Long-Distance Love

Is love supposed to travel this far?? This week, we break down the chaos, science, and comedy of long-distance relationships.From sexting over glitchy WiFi and jealousy spirals in different time zones, to real success stories that prove LDRs can work—this episode is your ultimate guide to emotionally surviving (or walking away from) long-distance love.Chapters00:00 Introduction: A Week in the Life02:32 Leo Season: Embracing Confidence and Creativity05:29 Fostering Fred: A Journey of Love and Care11:09 Long-Distance Relationships: A Personal Reflection18:40 The Science of Long-Distance Love28:51 Pros and Cons of Long-Distance Relationships37:19 Final Thoughts and Community EngagementSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jul 21, 2025 • 35min

‍🍼Sh*t They Never Told Us About Birth (But TikTok Did)‍🍼

THE BABY GOES WHERE??!!! BREASTMILK CAN DO WHAT?!?! Yeah. prepare to have your mind absolutely BLOWN by these facts about BIRTHING A HUMAN CHILD! But first up...updates on trump, weird packages, and screaming. yep. Chapters00:00 Emerging from a Funk02:26 Navigating Bisexual Dilemmas05:47 Exciting New Ventures and Merchandise08:01 Exploring the New Show: Building the Band15:19 Diving into Childbirth Education29:17 Reflections and GiveawaysSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jul 14, 2025 • 34min

50. hottest men of ALL TIME?!

IS IT TRUE?! IS THE GHOST OF JAMES DEAN THE HOTTEST OF ALL TIME?! Well....not in our humblest of opinions!! Plus, we're fostering a new dog and launching new merchandise! The conversation transitions into reflections on pop culture, mental health, and creativity, particularly in relation to the pressures of traditional Hollywood. And finally we CUMlminates in a lively discussion about the recent 'Hottest Men' list, exploring themes of attractiveness, representation, and cultural impact.tell us in the comments who is missing from this list?! Chapters00:00 Introduction and Housekeeping02:30 Mental Health and New Projects05:05 Pop Culture Reflections10:37 The Hottest Men List DiscussionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jul 7, 2025 • 27min

I FINISHED MY SECOND BOOK! 🎉

WE FRAACKIN DID IT!!! the next book is DONE!! This week - we got some good house keeping updates followed by AN EXCLLUUUUSIVE SNEEEEEEEEAK PEEEEEK into the chapter all about patriarchal programming...would you get this book even if you werent dealing with heartbreak?! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jun 23, 2025 • 37min

💸WTF is a FINANCIAL RESET?! (recession?!) 💸

DROP THOSE CREDIT CARDS AND PUT YOUR HANDS WHERE I CAN SEE THEM!!! This episode we're talking about the oh-so-adulty financial stress and broader implications of a potential recession (Wtf is a recession anyway???). The discussion covers the definitions and indicators of a recession, coping mechanisms, and practical budgeting strategies (which were made by yours truly so you know they WORK!). TAKEAWAYS: takeawaysNaming your feelings around money is crucial.Recession can be viewed as a reset rather than a ruin.It's important to talk about financial stress openly.Indicators of recession can be seen in pop culture.Budgeting buddies can help manage financial anxiety.Micro luxury budgeting allows for small indulgences.Visualizing finances can aid in understanding spending habits.Coping mechanisms are essential during economic uncertainty.Understanding the definition of recession helps in navigating fears.Cultural reflections reveal a collective anxiety about finances.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates08:21 Exploring Travel and Home Exchange12:07 Understanding the Recession29:50 Budgeting Hacks for Tough Times32:50 Navigating Financial Stress During Recession35:09 Recession as a Reset: Embracing Change36:07 Community Support and Engagement in Tough TimesSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jun 16, 2025 • 37min

💀DEATH INDUSTRY is a SCAM💀

BRING OUT YOUR DEAD!!!!! In this episode, we delve into the often-taboo subject of death, exploring personal fears, societal attitudes, and the funeral industry's practices. We emphasize the importance of discussing death openly, planning for it, and considering alternative burial methods. The conversation also highlights cultural differences in how death is perceived and celebrated, advocating for a more positive and less fearful approach to the inevitable. THE MORE YOU KNOW KIDDOS!!!!Chapters00:00 Embracing the Inevitable: A Conversation on Death04:54 Navigating Grief and Loss in Adulthood11:08 The Funeral Industry: A Costly Business18:13 Cultural Perspectives on Death and Grieving25:34 Planning for Death: Conversations and Considerations32:00 Alternative Approaches to Afterlife and BurialSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jun 9, 2025 • 22min

🇮🇹U GOTTA TRAVEL SOLO 🇮🇹

CAAIIIIIIIOO BELLA!!!!!!! This episode, Kelsey shares her experiences while vacationing in Rome (PIZZA!!) , reflecting on the joys of solo travel, the disconnection from news and politics, and the beauty of embracing i-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-c-e!!! Tells us - what are your solo travel tips?? Whats the best gift you gave a lover?! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Jun 2, 2025 • 34min

#HtH🏳️‍🌈 Defying Gender Norms: Dr. Mary Walker🏳️‍🌈

ITS OUR FAVORITE TIME OF YEAR MATCHED WITH OUR FAVORITE SPECIAL CONPOD SEGMENT: a PRIDE THEMED Hoes Throughout History! This week, we celebrate Pride Month by sharing the remarkable story of Dr. Mary Edwards Walker, a pioneering figure in women's rights and medicine. Theres SO MUCH DRAMA from Walker's defiance of gender norms, her contributions during the Civil War, her experiences as a prisoner of war, and her lasting legacy in the fight for women's rights and gender equality. ENJOY GHAYS!!! Chapters00:00 Celebrating Pride Month02:59 The Life of Dr. Mary Edwards Walker05:52 Breaking Gender Norms09:09 Civil War Contributions11:58 Captivity and Resilience14:47 Post-War Activism and LegacySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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May 27, 2025 • 34min

get your PHD in PMS!!🩸

SEND THIS TO YOUR LOVER! YOUR PARTNER! ANYONE THAT BLEEDS!!! Take a trip with Kelsey down the various phases of the menstrual cycle, discussing the physical and emotional changes that occur during each phase! BECAUSE THEY DIDN'T TEACH US THIS SHIT IN HIGH SHOOL! From the menstrual phase to ovulation and the luteal phase, Kelsey provides insights into self-care tips and how partners can support individuals during these times. Cause yall know about the importance of understanding one's body and tracking the menstrual cycle for better health and relationship dynamics, right?!?! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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