Conscious Kink with Ms. Elle X
Ms. Elle X
Although "Dominant" and "submissive" (Dom/sub) are often viewed as BDSM-exclusive, these terms fundamentally refer to a spectrum of naturally occurring strengths, traits, and expressions in every person and every relationship structure.That's why you'll find mind-blowing insights, powerful wisdom, and practical advice on leveraging your natural Dom, sub, or switch personality for ultimate personal empowerment and relational fulfillment in every episode! Subscribe to this podcast wherever you listen, and if you love what you hear, you can support future episodes and join these monthly Group Coaching sessions on patreon.com/ellexerotica!Cheers to dominating in every area of life and love! XOXO, Ms. Elle
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Jan 10, 2026 • 20min
Trauma-Forged Kink: From Dark Roots to Delicious Reclamation
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps calm overthinking and self-analysis with insight into navigating kinks born of unhealthy or traumatic circumstances, with a powerful analogy that will help you enjoy your desires without judgment! Don't miss this incredible conversation! Listen now!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Jan 3, 2026 • 44min
Finding Strength After Trauma Using Discomfort as a Tool
In this intimate episode, Ms. Elle talks with a sweet submissive in the community who is struggling to navigate intimacy after trauma and reframes emotional discomfort as an empowering tool for growth. Don't miss this incredible conversation! Listen now! Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Dec 27, 2025 • 12min
Forniphilia Fears: Building Trust and Limits for Human Furniture
In this episode, Ms. Elle offers advice on human furniture play, the importance of building trust in physical limits for this kink, and viewing BDSM as a mirror for growth! Don't miss this incredible conversation! Listen now!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Dec 20, 2025 • 57min
Femdom Awakening: From Craving Control to Commanding Your First Scene
In this episode, Ms. Elle inspires a hesitant woman who craves the allure of stepping into her Femdom power but struggles to know what to say or where to begin. Don't miss this incredible conversation! Listen now! Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Dec 13, 2025 • 20min
Unpacking Toxic Shame: The Silent Saboteur of Your Dominant Fire
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a Dominant man reframe toxic shame from his childhood that is limiting his ability to show up in healthy, empowered masculine energy. Don't miss this incredible conversation! Listen now!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Dec 8, 2025 • 29min
HSV2 Heartbreak: How Oral Rejection Can Crush Self-Esteem
In this episode, Ms. Elle works with a dear community member diagnosed with HSV2, struggling with insecurity and rejection about her partner's refusal to engage in oral sex. Don't miss this incredible conversation! Listen now!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Aug 16, 2025 • 24min
Suave or Pseudo Dom? Identifying Kinky Dating Red Flags
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a submissive process recent events in a relationship that left her questioning whether she experienced authentic dominance or narcissistic control!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Aug 2, 2025 • 48min
Overcoming Insecurity and Reviving Intimacy in a Poly Dynamic
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a Dominant in a disconnected D/s dynamic pinpoint what is causing insecurity in his open relationship, discover the power of emotional intelligence, and learn how to lead with empathy for greater intimacy!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Jul 19, 2025 • 21min
Striking a Balance Between Extreme Switch Points
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a Femdom switch identify her triggers surrounding submission and navigate the extreme emotions she feels on both sides of the slash!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Jul 6, 2025 • 24min
Turning a Triggering Request into Erotic Domination
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a triggered switch process a sub's request for sexy photos in a way that empowers her and provides erotic opportunity for Domination!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
