Conscious Kink with Ms. Elle X
Ms. Elle X
Although "Dominant" and "submissive" (Dom/sub) are often viewed as BDSM-exclusive, these terms fundamentally refer to a spectrum of naturally occurring strengths, traits, and expressions in every person and every relationship structure.That's why you'll find mind-blowing insights, powerful wisdom, and practical advice on leveraging your natural Dom, sub, or switch personality for ultimate personal empowerment and relational fulfillment in every episode! Subscribe to this podcast wherever you listen, and if you love what you hear, you can support future episodes and join these monthly Group Coaching sessions on patreon.com/ellexerotica!Cheers to dominating in every area of life and love! XOXO, Ms. Elle
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Dec 13, 2025 • 20min
Unpacking Toxic Shame: The Silent Saboteur of Your Dominant Fire
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a Dominant man reframe toxic shame from his childhood that is limiting his ability to show up in healthy, empowered masculine energy. Don't miss this incredible conversation! Listen now!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Dec 8, 2025 • 29min
HSV2 Heartbreak: How Oral Rejection Can Crush Self-Esteem
In this episode, Ms. Elle works with a dear community member diagnosed with HSV2, struggling with insecurity and rejection about her partner's refusal to engage in oral sex. Don't miss this incredible conversation! Listen now!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Aug 16, 2025 • 24min
Suave or Pseudo Dom? Identifying Kinky Dating Red Flags
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a submissive process recent events in a relationship that left her questioning whether she experienced authentic dominance or narcissistic control!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Aug 2, 2025 • 48min
Overcoming Insecurity and Reviving Intimacy in a Poly Dynamic
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a Dominant in a disconnected D/s dynamic pinpoint what is causing insecurity in his open relationship, discover the power of emotional intelligence, and learn how to lead with empathy for greater intimacy!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Jul 19, 2025 • 21min
Striking a Balance Between Extreme Switch Points
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a Femdom switch identify her triggers surrounding submission and navigate the extreme emotions she feels on both sides of the slash!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Jul 6, 2025 • 24min
Turning a Triggering Request into Erotic Domination
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a triggered switch process a sub's request for sexy photos in a way that empowers her and provides erotic opportunity for Domination!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Jun 21, 2025 • 41min
From Flare-Ups to Femdom Flair: Reframing Worship & Service
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a Femdom with an autoimmune condition reframe her beliefs surrounding worship and service, so she can manage her dynamic even during flare-ups that trigger urges to withdraw!Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
May 3, 2025 • 50min
Untangling Ties: A FemDom’s Path to Clarity and Freedom
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a FemDom in the #ellexarmy evaluate the health of her current romantic relationship with her girlfriend and end feelings of guilt and codependency about possibly moving on.Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Apr 19, 2025 • 28min
From Guilt to Grandeur: A FemDom’s Reclamation of Space
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a FemDom in the #ellexarmy process latent guilt and self-doubt from a long-term abusive relationship to start taking up more space in her Dom/sub dynamic.Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Apr 5, 2025 • 37min
Dom/sub Dynamics Unveiled: Decoding Power vs. Poison
Christina, a newcomer seeking clarity on Dom/sub dynamics, joins for an insightful discussion. The talk distinguishes between healthy BDSM practices and abusive behaviors, emphasizing respect and empowerment. Listeners learn about the importance of communication and personal growth within power dynamics. Christina shares her own journey, shedding light on emotional challenges and the significance of a supportive community. Ultimately, it's a deep dive into safety, autonomy, and the transformative power of positive relationships in the kink world.
