

Pure Desire Podcast
Pure Desire Ministries
Your biblically based and clinically informed approach to breaking free from compulsive sexual behavior and healing from betrayal.
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Jun 16, 2020 • 33min
154 - Recovery Tools: Double Bind
We all find ourselves in rock-and-a-hard-place situations. No one lives without them. That's even more true when battling unwanted sexual behavior. Today we talk through a tool that helps flesh out these situations and how we can use it to bring about the change we're looking for.
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Jun 9, 2020 • 1h 4min
153 - Recovery Tools: FASTER Scale
Healing and recovery happen only through self-awareness. Today we revisit an old friend on the recovery journey: the FASTER Scale. This self-awareness tool is essential on the road to healing from unwanted sexual behavior. We talk what it is, best practices, mistakes commonly made, and more.
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Jun 2, 2020 • 36min
152 - Leading Unraveled Groups
Leading addiction recovery groups can be challenging. Especially when leading women through them. Women struggle with unique levels of shame and hopelessness when it comes to love, sex, and relationships. That's why we talk through how to best lead women through Unraveled Groups. RESOURCESEPISODE 095 – UNRAVELED: MANAGING LOVE, SEX, AND RELATIONSHIPSEPISODE 120 – ONLINE GROUPSUNRAVELED KITJOIN A GROUPGROUP GUIDELINESREGIONAL GROUP ADVISORS
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May 26, 2020 • 1h 4min
151 - Porn Free w/ Matt Dobschuetz
We sat down for a mash-up episode with Matt Dobschuetz of Porn-Free Radio on today's episode. We talked about freedom, integrity, church culture, and a bunch of other random topics. RESOURCESPORN-FREE RADIO PODCASTRECOVEREDMAN.COM7 PILLARS OF FREEDOMONLINE RECOVERY GROUPS
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May 19, 2020 • 56min
150 - Betrayed Spouse & Legal Issues
Sexual addiction affects more than the person struggling. Especially when there are legal ramifications. Today we ask Jenn Howie how she maneuvered through the legal issues caused by sexual addiction in her previous marriage.
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May 12, 2020 • 58min
149 - Sexual Abuse Of Women In The Bible
Sexual abuse of women is sadly not only something that is present today, we see that it goes back even into biblical times. Our guest, Julianna Smith, a Ph.D. student researching the abuse of women in the Bible, gives us her findings while also helping us identify ways the church can push back against sexual abuse of women.
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May 5, 2020 • 43min
148 - PD-L Program
Where can pastors go if they struggle with sexually compulsive behaviors? What options do they have to get healthy? We talk to a denomination president and a local pastor about the Pure Desire Leaders (PD-L) program and how it's helped their denomination create a safe place for their pastors to get healthy.RESOURCESPURE DESIRE LEADERS (PD-L) PROGRAM
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Apr 28, 2020 • 44min
147 - Myth Busters: Not In My Church
Many leaders and church-goers buy into the myth that sexual addiction doesn't impact their churches. Today, we dive into this myth and unpack why it is that we ignore the reality of sexual brokenness in our churches. We also talk through what someone can do if they see the reality when their leaders do not, and why it's so essential to have a recovery ministry for those impacted by sexual brokenness.
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Apr 21, 2020 • 37min
146 - Groups Launch Night
As we begin Pure Desire groups in our churches and communities, it's so important how we communicate them, making it clear what purpose they serve. On today's episode, we talk about the importance of a groups launch night, what the night should look like, and what major things to avoid.RESOURCESMEMO OF UNDERSTANDINGMEMO OF UNDERSTANDING (ONLINE GROUP)FASTER SCALEPURE DESIRE ONLINE GROUPSLEGAL ISSUES IN GROUP (PODCAST)LEGAL ISSUES IN GROUP (BLOG)
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Apr 14, 2020 • 52min
145 - Stories of Healing: Dan & Jenn Howie
We sit down with Dan and Jenn Howie to hear their incredible story of healing from the pain and trauma of sexual addiction. They describe how it affected their previous marriages, how it impacted their kids, and what they've learned throughout the process of healing.
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