Parenting Decolonized

Many of us move through this life with fuzzy or non-existent boundaries because we grew up with our boundaries being trampled on by our parents. Now that we’re adults, we teach people how to treat us, so it’s time to shore up those boundaries. In this episode with my friend Classy Brown, we discuss why many of us have such poor boundaries and how to create and maintain new ones. We also chat about how parents can help their children create boundaries from birth. Wanna chat with Classy more about this? C

The journey to becoming a more conscious Black father isn’t an easy one. Between ingrained attitudes about obedience to masculinity, unlearning toxic parenting styles isn’t easy. In this episode, I chat with Tim Greene, husband, father and author of the Daddy Duty book series about the nuances of Black fatherhood, conscious parenting, and how he is helping to redefine what people think about Black fathers. You can purchase a copy of his book at https:/

Crystal Stampley, a certified conscious parenting coach and co-founder of Conscious Parenting Time, discusses the impact of the 'white gaze' on Black parenting. She emphasizes the need to shift from fear-based approaches to intentional parenting, fostering pride in cultural identity. The conversation touches on the importance of representation in children's media and nurturing self-acceptance. Stampley also explores decolonizing parenting by integrating ancestral wisdom and creating supportive environments for children to thrive amidst systemic challenges.

Join Danielle Dunn, author of the children's book Ivy Locks and Detroit community activist, as she dives into the urgent need to decolonize children's libraries. She discusses how only 27% of children's books feature Black or Indigenous characters, stressing the importance of diverse representation for all children. Danielle shares her journey in creating inclusive literature, highlights the challenges of finding quality stories, and advocates for empowering kids through books that reflect their identities, fostering empathy and understanding.

Nichelle Clark, a Certified Breastfeeding Specialist, passionately advocates for breastfeeding in the Black community. She highlights breastfeeding as an act of resistance against systemic injustices and explores its rich cultural significance. Nichelle addresses the generational trauma impacting perceptions of breastfeeding and discusses the importance of community support. The conversation also debunks myths, shares personal challenges, and emphasizes the critical need for education to improve maternal and infant health outcomes.

Krissy Coggins, a Positive Discipline Coach at Krissy's Couch, emphasizes the role of mindset in transforming parenting. She discusses the indelible impact of societal norms on parenting styles, particularly within the Black community, advocating for a shift towards individualized nurturing. The conversation digs into breaking cycles of punitive practices, the importance of connection over correction, and the need for emotional regulation. Coggins encourages parents to embrace their personal growth journey to foster healthier relationships with their children.

Domari Dickinson, a positive discipline and conscious parenting coach, shares her insights on parenting without fear. She explores the lasting effects of colonization and slavery on Black families, advocating for a shift to conscious parenting. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing children's emotions and fostering open communication, encouraging parents to embrace their children’s questions as growth opportunities. Domari urges parents to break toxic cycles by reflecting on their own triggers, creating a nurturing environment that promotes understanding and empowerment.

The sexualizing of Black girls dates back to slavery, yet it’s still a pervasive stereotype perpetuated by many, including Black parents. In this chat with Assistant Professor of Community Psychology, Seanna Leath, we explore the effects oversexualization has had on Black girls and how they view their bodies, plus give parents practical tips on how to speak with their daughters about sex and sexuality.

In this engaging discussion, Dr. Theresa Chapple, a reproductive and perinatal epidemiologist, delves into the alarming disparities in maternal health that Black women face. She highlights the chilling statistic that Black women are three times more likely to die in childbirth than their white counterparts. The conversation covers systemic inequities in healthcare, the traumatic experiences during pregnancy, and the importance of self-advocacy. Dr. Chapple also emphasizes reclaiming privacy and control during childbirth, making a powerful case for community involvement in addressing these critical health issues.

Being a black parent is hard AF but also full of joy and magic. Join host Yolanda Williams on her very first show as she explains why she started Parenting Decolonized. She’ll share some candid stories about her childhood and also what you can expect to learn on this journey to decolonizing.