Parenting Decolonized How to Stop Parenting From a Place of Fear
Nov 7, 2019
Domari Dickinson, a positive discipline and conscious parenting coach, shares her insights on parenting without fear. She explores the lasting effects of colonization and slavery on Black families, advocating for a shift to conscious parenting. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing children's emotions and fostering open communication, encouraging parents to embrace their children’s questions as growth opportunities. Domari urges parents to break toxic cycles by reflecting on their own triggers, creating a nurturing environment that promotes understanding and empowerment.
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Colonization Shapes Fear-Based Parenting
- Colonization and slavery have deeply influenced Black parenting styles, passing down survival-based fear responses.
- Current parenting rooted in fear often mirrors historic oppressive systems rather than freedom and safety.
Fear-Based Parenting Isn't Protective
- Parenting from fear is often defended as necessary for safety, yet frequently fails.
- Fear-driven tactics don't stop external oppression and create a harsh home environment.
Fear Fuels Oppressive Parenting
- Many Black parents default to controlling or punitive parenting due to fear of external societal threats.
- This fear-driven parenting often repeats oppression rather than protecting children effectively.