

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm
Traver Boehm
For people who see through the veil of the civilized paradigm.
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Sep 9, 2024 • 44min
When there’s shame around money — a Nice Guy LIVE Coaching Call.
If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who has shame around their financial situation, this episode is for you!
In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who shares his story of losing his job, right when he and his new girlfriend are just getting together.
This had the potential to throw him down the stairs of shame and he shares with us how he prevented that from happening. This is big.
We talk openly about the shame so many men have with their finances and debt and how you can work with both without falling down a spiral of self loathing or self hatred.
This is a powerful episode and I’m grateful of the openness of my guest.
Enjoy.
Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.
Cheers,
Traver
If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!
Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.
Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise.

Sep 2, 2024 • 1h 3min
Sophie Alexandra Wurr — Understanding the cosmic masculine
As the nature of relationship rapidly changes and people begin looking for alternate ways of constructing their relational and sexual lives, teachers like Sophie have been continually sought out.
Sophie’s creation of the Cosmic Masculine puts both men and women into a relational frame that’s both devotional and sacred while allowing infinite space for the down to Earth parts of our being as well.
This idea is ahead of its time and will upset many people! Yet those who grasp it will be richly rewarded.
I know you’ll love this one.
Enjoy.
Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.
Cheers,
Traver
If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!
Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.
Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise.

Aug 26, 2024 • 38min
On my father’s passing with Traver Boehm
On Sunday July 7th at 9:30 in the morning, my father passed. I was there with my Mom, holding his hand as he took his final breaths.
While this is a very private moment to share, there are elements to it that I know will touch you and hopefully inspire you in all of your relationships.
In this solo episode I touch on three of the key parts of this experience, one from the wild lead up to the decision of when to go back home, my nightly vigils with him, a hard choice I had to make the morning of his death
This is recorded and shared with the hope that everyone listening gets the opportunity for both closure and open heartedness with their own parents.
Enjoy.
Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.
Cheers,
Traver
If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!
Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.
Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise.

Aug 19, 2024 • 1h 3min
Blake Chalfant — the failed user manual given to young men.
If you are under 30 you need to listen to this episode.
If you know a man under 30, you also need to listen to this!
Blake Chalfant is already a force to be reckoned with in the men’s space and he’s only 23 years old. His life changed drastically after a spiritual awakening he had as a college student and he know coaches and councils young men, guiding them to live more connected, authentic lives.
In this episode we speak about the unique challenges facing young men and how they can shift to healthier more actualized lives.
Blake is also the author of The Unseen Way.
Enjoy.
Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.
Cheers,
Traver
If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!
Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.
Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise.

Aug 12, 2024 • 39min
When Nice Guy patterns lead to unhealthy boundaries — LIVE Coaching Call.
If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone with loose boundaries, this episode is for you.
In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who in a tough spot.
He’s in a relationship that he values but his partner has an unreasonable demand — she wants him to check in with her every hour on the hour.
We get real here with why he’s letting her request keep him stuck, what may be happening on her end with her avoidant behaviors, and how he can navigate showing up with integrity and alignment with her — or leaving a situation that is unsustainable.
Enjoy.
Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.
Cheers,
Traver
If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!
Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.
Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise.

Aug 5, 2024 • 1h 3min
Top 5 — GS Youngblood — The masculine in relationship.
Let’s be honest — it’s challenging to be in relationship these days, and that’s because there’s so much conflicting information out there.
Men are supposed to lead! But only at the magical right time…
Men are supposed to be protectors! But that’s also toxic…
Men are supposed to be emotionally connected to their women! But don’t show emotion because that’s weakness…
In this episode we bring back one of the Top 5 most listened to episodes of the Uncivilized Podcast just for you.
GS Youngblood cuts through all the bullshit and teaches men how to actually be in relationship.
Enjoy.
Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.
Cheers,
Traver

Jul 29, 2024 • 27min
Three stages of sex and relationship with Traver Boehm
I believe there are three levels or stages of relationship you can engage in:
— Extractive & Transactional
— Character & Role Playing
— Sacred, Divine, & Uncivilized
Each stage also has sexual level associated with it…
If you’re curious about what’s available to you relationally and sexually, this is the episode for you. It’s a punch solo where I break down each stage and what you can expect if you’re in it.
Enjoy.
Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.
Cheers,
Traver
If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!
Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.
Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise.

Jul 22, 2024 • 1h 7min
Elise Micheals — Men, Abusive Relationships, & Christ
Today I sit down with renowned men’s mental health coach, Elise Michaels for the second time on the pod.
Elise is a force in the men’s world with over a million followers across her many channels. In this episode we speak into a variety of topics from her work with men, how men can help shift out of rock bottom, and of course — the last two years of Elise’s life.
She’s recently ended an abusive relationship with an ex partner and found herself fully immersed in Christianity.
As an interviewer I am as interested in the person behind the mic as I am in their work and know you will walk away from this episode with a ton of knowledge on how to live your life more openly and powerfully.
As well as getting to hear how Elise pulled herself out of hell and found herself walking in her spirituality in an entirely new way.
This is a powerful episode and I’m grateful of the openness of my guest.
Enjoy.
Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.
Cheers,
Traver
If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!
Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.
Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise.

Jul 15, 2024 • 41min
How to step into your relationship more powerfully — a LIVE Coaching Call.
In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who has stepped into a brand new role — he’s the step father of two teenage twin boys.
He also wants to show up powerfully for himself, his fiancé, and the boys in the family.
We talk about how his Nice Guy patterns are holding him back and keeping him from fully engaging with both his woman, and her kids. And we give him some concrete steps on how to be more powerful while also staying out of the dictatorial role and in the relational role.
Enjoy.
Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.
Cheers,
Traver

Jul 8, 2024 • 1h 4min
How to keep your hard earned transformation with Danya River
In this episode of our live show UNcivilized UNplugged, you get to sit in with our studio audience as I chat with Danya River on how you can keep all of your hard earned transformations.
Danya is a master of the human nervous system as well as a high sought out executive coach. I know because I was someone who once sought her out and have worked with her for years now.
In this episode not only will Danya share with you ways you can work with your nervous system as opposed to working against it, stay tuned for the end when she puts you through a live experience to show you how to do this for yourself.
Enjoy.
Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.
Cheers,
Traver
If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!
Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.
Get a copy of one of my books, Man UNcivilized and Today I Rise.


