The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

What am I afraid of? Am I aware of my fears? Does fear stop me from moving forward? These are some of the questions that today's episode will leave you thinking about. Today's guest is Tony Blauer. He is a remarkable human interested in human behavior. A martial arts and self-defense specialist for over four decades. Tony joins us in this episode to talk about the fear in human behavior. He is here to drop some fascinating bombs on how to identify, manifest and manage fear to make it our best ally. "You can't be brave if you're not afraid." - Tony Blauer. ABOUT TONY BLAUER Coach Blauer has been in the martial art, self-defense, defensive tactics, and combatives industry for four decades! He is one of the only Combatives experts who has successfully affected training across all the combat related communities: self-defense, combat sports, and the military & law enforcement sector. His research on physiology, mindset as it relates to confrontation management has influenced over three decades of reality-based martial artists and enhanced the survivability of law enforcement, military and emergency services personnel around the world. CONNECT WITH TONY Website: https://blauerspear.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqIFBr_2N35wrfN0Fvk6YjQ Twitter: https://twitter.com/tonyblauer Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyblauer/ WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [3:35] Meet Tony Blauer [10:03] Manifesting and managing fear. [28:39] What is the most impressive thing for Tony about human behavior? [34:07] Join the UNcivilized Nation. [34:49] Critical thinking and fear. [45:14] Mental fitness. [57:21] The driving force behind Tony's mentality and his business. [1:00:25] Where to find Tony. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

When I was in the shit storm of my life a few years back, stumbling upon and studying up on The Five Stages of Grief was monumentally helpful. It gave me a framework for my otherwise frameless experience and helped me take a few deep breaths. If you’re in it right now, give this short episode a listen. It will help you understand your own process and hopefully bring you some peace. Cheers, Traver

Men and women. So equal but at the same time so different. Over the centuries, the relationship between man and woman has become distant, putting each one at opposite poles and in a certain way distorting reality where man has seen himself multiple times above the female sex in different aspects when the reality couldn't be further from that. In this unplugged episode, we will have an incredible conversation with Madelyn Moon about polarity and relationships. A coach and expert in the area, she will be the one to show us and teach us the true relationship between men and women. This episode is super educational; you can not miss this. Men, women, take note! ABOUT MADELYN MOON Madelyn is a walking permission slip, soul igniter and devoted teacher. Her podcast, Mind Body Musings, is ranked in the Top 50 of All Self-Help iTunes Podcasts. Her mission is to help women and men unify all parts of themselves including: Feminine and Masculine, Light and Dark, Introvert and Extrovert, and finally, Flow and Go. CONNECT WITH MADELYN Website: https://maddymoon.com/ Instagram: @madelynmoon Twitter: @mindbodymusings Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moonfitness Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/maddymoontv WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [6:58] Meet Madelyn Moon. [9:31] A Christian values childhood. [13:47] Embracing the feminine softness. [27:08] The devotion in men and women relationship. [40:04] The three stages of communication. [48:00] The purity of a broken heart. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

Duey Freeman and Michael Gay discuss attachment theory, the wild, and mental health. They explore the significance of contact, the healing power of the wild, and creating openings in relationships. They emphasize the importance of men embracing their pain and engaging in inner work for personal growth.

Oh, debts! We have all been through them, and if you don't, lucky you! Debts start out being enjoyable credits and end up as the wicked ex-wife willing to take away everything you ever had. If you are one of those people whose debts exceed their income, today's guest, Erin Skye Kelly, is here to help you get the hell out of debt! In this episode, we will talk about debts; how they affect our life, how to avoid them, and how to get rid of them. Also, Erin will talks to us about her new book Get The Hell Out of Debt, a book she wrote in the midst of the 2020 economic crisis due to the Covid-19 pandemic, a book that seeks to help people financially. Press play and start making your debts disappear! ABOUT ERIN SKYE KELLY Erin Skye Kelly has terrible stage fright, general human awkwardness, and yet she manages to sell out her own 3-day conferences called Transformation Weekend. Now approaching its 10th year, Transformation Weekend has impacted thousands of participants through a step-by-step process Erin created specifically for goal achievement and mastery. She’s currently on tour with Tony Robbins and Rachel Hollis, along with many other world-class motivational speakers. Working with "esk" {as her friends call her} means that you are in a judgment-free zone made up of equal parts personal growth workshop, rock concert, and love. She is hired to work with ordinary humans who want to achieve extraordinary things, and because of her track record helping people create a trajectory of success, the phrase she most often hears when meeting people for the first time is "Wow. I thought you’d be taller.” CONNECT WITH ERIN Instagram: @erinskyekelly Get The Hell Out of Debt Website: www.getthehelloutofdebt.com Get The Hell Out of Debt Instagram: @getthehelloutofdebt WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [2:42] Meet today's guest: Erin Skye Kelly. [12:18] Learning about the three financial fundamentals. [15:51] How to Get The Hell Out of Debt. [19:35] Why is there a default to suffer rather than to get creative with bills. [25:05] Control your habits. [30:05] Singles vs. Couples, who goes more into debt? [36:54] the tie between emotion and money. [39:17] The debit during the Covid-19 [46:28] Traumas show up on your money. [51:30] Where to find Erin. RESOURCES Man UNcivilized Book If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

If you are looking for truth, in this episode, you will find it; truth from the mind and mouth of today's guest, Perri Chase. She will share her unique vision of the world. We will be talking about energy, magic, truth, and power, topics that perfectly define the personality of this amazing woman, and today she is here to tell us a little more about it. This woman is a force, a pistole, and gives a new meaning to the "unapologetic" expression. This episode will blow your mind; you can't miss it. Press play! And don't forget to review our podcast. ABOUT PERRI CHASE Perri is a Mama, Wife, Woman, Channel, Teacher, and Practitioner of deep devotion to the Feminine. She lives a life in service to the deepest truth, as an energy, in all things and beings. She believes that our total and truest full expression is our soul’s purpose. She teaches pathways in life, relationships, expression, sacred medicine and business that all center the frequency of Feminine Truth, including her Foundations in Energetic Mastery path, DEVOTION. She created the embodiment modality SXBMB and the unique business pathway Magic Led Business. She lives in Arizona with the love of her life, Kellen and their daughter. CONNECT WITH PERRI CHASE Website: https://perrichase.com/ Instagram: @Perri.Chase  WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [2:47] Servant of Truth and Magic: Meeting Perri Chase. [16:50] The ego as a defense mechanism. [23:27] Gender equality and the abandonment of feminine energy. [32:35] Don't be victimized by your power. [37:27] Pleasure and responsibility, truth and power. [40:00] The cancel culture. [1:01:25] Where to find Perri Chase. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more

This week I’m diving into UNcivilized Ethos Tenet #2 — Be Your Brother’s Keeper. Now more than ever we need to normalize men supporting other men. Remember how awesome it was to be on a team? That shit needs to come back and it needs to come back now. No matter your race, creed, socioeconomic status, or hairline — if you’re a man, you need other men in your life. Give this a listen and take it to heart. Enjoy, Traver

You're doing it wrong. No more Mr. Nice Guy, we need to talk. Have you ever thought, "I don't do anything wrong, I'm a nice guy"—but your life is falling apart—? Then, this episode is for you. As men, we grow up believing that if we avoid doing certain things, we will please others, so we will not have problems in our relationships, and our life will be perfect just because we are "nice guys." But, let me tell you: If your relationship, your family, your plans, and your work are falling apart; your "nice guy" mindset isn't working, you need to change it! Today's guest is the author of one of the books that have changed my life. Today we will have the pleasure of speaking with Dr. Robert Glover. This episode is a lesson about men's behavior and mindset. We talked about porn issues, sexuality traumas, addictions, fetishes, and why we should remove "I'm a nice guy" from our vocabulary. Are you ready to change? Press play. ABOUT DR. ROBERT GLOVER Dr. Robert Glover is the author of “No More Mr. Nice Guy” and “Dating Essentials for Men”. He has spent over 30 years helping men and women get the love, sex, and life they want. His groundbreaking books, classes, podcasts, and seminars have helped form the foundation for a growing world-wide men’s movement. CONNECT WITH DR. ROBERT Websites: DrGlover.com NoMoreMrNiceGuy.com DatingEssentialsForMen.com Email: robert@drglover.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drrobertglover WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [2:36] The nice guy recovered: Getting to know Dr. Robert. [7:26] The "nice guy" paradigm. [14:57] Shame and guilt: Let's talk about sexual repression. [24:46] Reality and porn. [40:06] What is a 'covert contract.' [47:51] Let's start from scratch: How to change the “nice guy” mindset? [51:22] Where to find Dr. Robert Glover. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more

Gambling comes into your life as a hobby or a moment of distraction with friends, but it can make you lose not only money but also your house, car, and even your family. Today's guest is Erik Hatch, an entrepreneur, father, husband, and owner of multiple businesses that, over time, have led him to be the successful man he is today; businesses that helped Erik get out of hundreds of dollars in debt because of the gambling. After living a dualistic life juggling his addiction to gambling and being a church minister at the same time, Erik began his road to recovery with the help of his wife and mainly because he took the first step in his recovery: Acceptance. This incredible episode brings to the table issues such as the human being duality and how this is part of the human experience. Do not miss it! ABOUT ERIK HATCH Erik Hatch (Fargo, ND) is an entrepreneur, public speaker, Realtor, author, coach, investor, do-gooder, husband, father, and mediocre golfer. Erik has 18 businesses that he owns/operates. Erik's real estate team (Hatch Realty) is one of the country's top 50 real estate teams. And as a real estate coach (one of the top 25 in the country), Hatch Coaching has made a giant splash in the real estate industry over the last 5 years. Passionate about giving back, Erik has grown 2 non-profit movements that have raised over 3 million dollars. A servant leader to the core, Erik's desire is to be a chapter in as many books as possible. His first book, "Play for the person next to you," launched in September 2019. CONNECT WITH ERIK LinkedIn Hatch Realty Hatch Coaching Hatch Coaching YouTube Channel WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [3:17] Meet today's guest: Erik Hatch. [5:19] Why is financial growth is more attractive than personal growth. [6:59] The messy metal theory. [11:23] The feeling of progression. [14:45] Erik's background story. [16:09] From gambling to becoming a successful businessman. [29:05] Join the UNcivilizing weekend event. [30:06] "I was the most disgusting person I've ever seen" - Erik. [32:35] The moment of acceptance of Erik. [37:34] When redemption becomes your gasoline. [39:52] Erik's new life philosophy and what made him a successful man now. [45:31] Where to find Erik. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

In this solo episode I break down UNcivilized Ethos Tenet #6 — Practice Presence and Performance and give men a better understanding of both what it means to be present and a skill they can practice to develop it. All of this while not taking away from what is and always will be essential to being a man — how we perform. Enjoy, Traver