The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

"I am not "Anti" anything, I am pro Love."  Kiné is a die-hard optimist that embraces love as the lens through which she sees everything, she feels progress is inherantly incremental and inclusive.  Dive into this unapologetic conversation on unity and division, what is the difference between intimate and personal, the power of progress, and how to create meaningful connection. This episode is powerful in it truly asks us, on what are we focusing and how do we really want to show up in our lives.  ABOUT KINÉ CORDER Kiné Corder, is a National Certified Counselor and the world's #1 Financial Hypnotherapist. You may remember her from Oprah or ABC's Extreme Makeover Show. Since then, she's become a best-selling author and an international speaker taking the stage with well-known speakers like Les Brown and Daymond John. She's also the CEO of Presidential Lifestyle, a tech enabled, business and self-development company focused on wealth in all of its forms. Her mission in life is to alleviate human suffering associated with money. She speaks to and consults with mission driven entrepreneurs who want to grow, scale, or sell their business without feeling burnout, guilt, or greed. She pours her proven financial hypnotherapy system called Breakthrough to Clarity into her clients and community members. CONNECT WITH KINÉ LinkedIn: Kiné Corder Instagram: @kinecorder Clubhouse: @kinecorder WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [5:03]  Healing division is incremental [7:50]  Discussing division between sexes [14:45]. Competition as division  [16:30]  Finding harmony in both your Feminine and your Masculine [19:38]  Framework around shifting between Masculine and Feminine in support  [27:40]  What is "doing the work" [30:26]  How does trauma get in the way of how you want to show up? [44:30]  Connection and our need to protect [51:56]  Confidence is being who you are [55:16]  Where we are focusing is crucial If you look at the civilized world and think, "no, thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

Transitions are not easy, especially when we are accustomed to stability, be it emotional, financial, professional, etc. Hitting rock bottom is not always negative. It can be the beginning of new paths, a new life, or projects, as is the case of today's guest, Emily Gough. Emily is a woman who turned pain into opportunity. After suffering the infidelity of her partner at the time of 9 years, Emily decided to go further in life and became a human connection & transformational coach. Today with sympathy and charisma, she shares her story with us. I hope this episode inspires you. Don't forget to share this episode with other men and help us grow our community! ABOUT EMILY GOUGH Emily Gough is a human connection & transformational coach, speaker, mental health advocate, and host of the top 200 Room to Grow ™ Podcast. With years of coaching experience, connection & compassion as superpowers, and a tendency to bring a sense of humor to tough topics, Emily's warm, genuine, down-to-earth, and direct approach encompasses the full mind/body and will give you the guidance, real-life tools, and perspective you need to help you like and trust yourself more to create the life and relationships you deserve.  CONNECT WITH EMILY Website: Emily Gough Coaching Podcast: Room To Grow WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [2:49] Meet Emily Gough. [5:10] Transitioning in the middle of the dark. [11:01] Transforming pain into opportunities. [15:41] Emily's story. [28:44] Adding patches to the pain. [33:42] Emily's second day after the bad news. [40:56] The journey of betrayal. [54:08] Where to find Emily. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no, thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

"The real pandemic is cancer." -Melannie Bachman. Melannie is a lively, wild, and vibrant woman with a love for the sea as great as its depth. Unfortunately, her life took a drastic twist when she was diagnosed with breast cancer. Cancer is a condition that has claimed millions of lives and tackles a new victim every day. People full of dreams and goals have to put their lives on hold due to this condition and the multiple treatments needed to remove it from the body, which is slowly weakening. Today, Melannie comes to share her story—a story where we can listen to a strong woman who, despite suffering from this terrible condition in this interview, welcomes us with her joy and charisma. We will listen to her experience, how her life suddenly changed and how this news affected her relationship with her partner. There are people in the world who go through worse circumstances than many of us, and they still decide to move on and show their love, affection, and sympathy; that's something to admire. You will love this episode, I promise you. ABOUT MELANNIE BACHMAN Melannie is a Yoga Teacher (RYT 200), published Marine Scientist, and Dive Instructor (PADI & SSI - Freedive & Scuba). She is passionate about the art of breath hold diving and our connection to the breath as well as water via immersion, and community. She is currently on a journey of cancer treatments for triple negative breast cancer with her newly discovered BRCA1 gene mutation.  A true island girl at heart, she enjoys all things in, below, and around the salty blue such as diving, sailing, yoga and of course world traveling. CONNECT WITH MELANNIE GoFundMe: Melannie'sFightAgainstCancer Instagram: @salty_soulshine Website: Thought Catalog Dive Website: DiveNewsWire WHAT YOU WILL HEAR: [3:47] Meet Melannie Bachman. [9:21] Having cancer at 35. [11:04] No time to process it. [19:03] The types of treatments for cancer. [22:59] What kind of support do people with cancer need? [29:43] A life around the darkness. [34:18] Melannie's resilience. [38:14] Why are we so scared to talk about death? [52:32] What can we do to help Melannie. [54:53] Where to find Melannie. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

Words are things. Words are things. Words are things. I can go on but I think you get it. The words we use shape our reality. Therefor the easiest way to change our reality is to change our words. In this short solo-episode I break this down for you. Enjoy. Traver

Music is one of the arts that can be healing for many people. From moments of sadness, joy, rage, music is there to accompany us, and like many of us, today's guest, Phutureprimitive, found passion and refuge in music. Imagine having a car accident and using the insurance money on a musical instrument that would change your life, leading you to fame, concerts, and a life where music is everything; this is the story of Phutureprimitive. Learn how self-commitment led Phutureprimitive to be the successful person he is today and start applying it in your life. Say no to excuses. ABOUT PHUTURE PRIMITIVE Phutureprimitive is the moniker of Bay Area producer and songwriter Rain. Early childhood photos reveal Rain sitting at the piano plinking keys, grinning from ear to ear... a true sign of things to come. Continuing his early fascination with music, Rain was later drawn to electronic music, inspired by its ability to combine the best of organically played instruments and the synthetic pleasures of sounds more exotic to the human ear. After beginning a DJ career in the 90s, Rain began incorporating the music he was making in his home studio into his DJ sets. That was all it took to trigger a full-blown love affair with electronic music and the process of its creation... and Phutureprimitive was born. Phutureprimitive's music is singular and unique in its approach. Lush melodies drift across intricate rhythms, groove-heavy beats, and warm, fuzzy bass lines. Often exploring a dark and dense palette, his music also manages to convey a sense of tranquility and beauty, engaging the listener into hypnotic movement and often escalating into a full-on kinetic experience. Shimmering with cinematic qualities, his music ultimately speaks to the body, mind, and soul. CONNECT WITH PHUTURE PRIMITIVE Website: https://www.phutureprimitive.com Facebook: Phutureprimitivemusic Instagram: @phutureprimitive Youtube: PhutureprimitiveMusic WHAT YOU WILL HEAR: [3:49] Meet Phutureprimitive. [9:00] Investing in the future. [17:52] Committed to excuses [26:02] The not good enough feeling. [29:42] Embracing the artist. [31:38] The business skin in the music industry. [33:37] Join the UNcivilized Nation. [36:13] The creative process. [41:16] Interacting with popularity and fame. [47:20] The new technology in music. [52:30] The healing power of music. [54:51] Where to find Phutureprimitive. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

Relationships are difficult for men. We always try to figure out our place in the relationship, especially when we love a strong woman.Leadership is one of the most attractive skills a man can have in a relationship. A man who takes control will always be admired by his partner.To talk to us a little more about the masculine in the relationship, we will have GS Youngblood as today's guest.GS will give us tips to manage our relationship effectively and achieve a better physical, mental, and emotional connection with our partner, including how to heat things up in bed.Be the man your woman always wanted. Press play now.⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠.ABOUT GS YOUNGBLOODGS Youngblood coaches men in relationship and help you see yourself more clearly.  He helps you bring more leadership to your relationship in support of creating more ease, play, sexuality, respect, and attraction.The nature of his work is laid out in his book The Masculine in Relationship:  A Blueprint for Inspiring the Trust, Lust, and Devotion of a Strong Woman. The book is structured around a clear three-part blueprint for developing your Masculine core.CONNECT WITH GS YOUNGBLOOD Website: https://www.gsyoungblood.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gsyoungbloodmir The Book "The Masculine in Relationship" by GS YoungbloodWHAT YOU WILL HEAR[3:13] Meeting GS Youngblood.[15:27] How to act or respond to the feeling of threat.[22:25] The word "ouch."[25:40] Male authenticity.[28:14] When is the woman responsible for their behavior.[30:42] Is stoicism interrupting masculine emotional development?[36:35] Bring leadership to the relationship.[43:00] Join the UNcivilized nation.[43:57] Creating security.[49:35] Why does rejection affect relationships?[54:22] Sexual leadership.[59:33] Three skills applicable in the bedroom.[1:05:48] GS's one piece of advice for men.⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠.

The connection we create around us will always be the key to build relationships where we can be ourselves without the need to hide any feelings.In this episode, I had a pleasant conversation with another exceptional man, my friend Mark Groves. Mark will explain what all these connections are about and why it is so important for us, as men, to establish strong relationships with other people.So, it is time to press play and start knowing how to build these connections, your integrity as men, and feel the freedom to be yourself.⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠.ABOUT MARK GROVESMark  Groves is a Human Connection Specialist and Speaker whose purpose is to help individuals and companies step into their most authentic, effective, loving selves by way of his bold, no-BS relationship guidance.Mark brings complex, academic concepts and research to life in a fun & relatable way, empowering teams and companies to transform the way they work, produce, and relate.He loves tacos, hiking, and making people laugh so hard they can't help but pee their pants a little.CONNECT WITH MARK GROVESWebsite: https://linktr.ee/createtheloveInstagram: @createtheloveWHAT YOU WILL HEAR:[2:58] Meeting Mark Groves.[5:50] How nutritious a good connection can be for our bodies.[11:00] Recovering connections.[18:20] Speaking to the universe.[24:11] Separating the man from the art.[37:56] The integrity as freedom.[46:10] Fearing reality[55:35] Protected but not connected vs. connected but not protected.[1:00:10]Where to find Mark Groves.If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

Want to know what few people will tell you about leaving the false safety of the conventional world? It’s fucking hard. And lonely. And frustrating. And oh so worth it. In this episode I share some of the truths you’re bound to experience any time you decide to live your life with authenticity and a lack of support from the conventional world. Enjoy, Traver

The initiation into masculinity has changed over the years to a point where the experience of becoming a man and reaching adulthood is different from those times where men had to fight for it in a forced way. Currently, the initiation to masculinity goes far beyond puberty, being maturity a fundamental point. In this episode, I will share a powerful conversation with Rainier Wylde. It will be a combined episode where you will hear us jam, a Q&A from both: Rainier and myself.  We dive into the experience of being male right now, what trips us up and we discuss how we experience loss and navigating out of that loss, how we look at myth and our greater lives. Men, this is for us and all that seek to understand us and our experience, press play and start listening to everything you haven't heard before about being a man. ABOUT RAINIER WYLDE Rainier Wylde is a teacher, writer, and facilitator who works with men and women around the world in the art of working with your unacknowledged shadow, balancing the masculine & the feminine, and experiencing spiritual awakening. Rainier has embraced life for all that it is. He has celebrated its highs and learned from its lows. He has managed a Fortune 500 company and built businesses, he has also elegantly blown them up, burned them down, and started over from scratch. Through the various positions he has held, he has discovered that life must be claimed to hold any worth. His work is to inspire others to live fully and deeply in the here and now. CONNECT WITH RAINIER WYLDE Website: https://www.rainierwylde.com/ Instagram: @rainierwylde WHAT YOU WILL HEAR: [2:58] Meeting Rainier and Traver. [7:50] The development of personal and cultural masculinity. [9:50] What it meant to be a man in past decades. [14:25] The role of information. [20:04] The main challenge men are facing in our culture. [26:27] Hitting bottom. [38:44] Creating safe environments. [52:34] Is there a guarantee of something in life? [1:01:47] Where to find Rainier. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

We have all heard about Norse mythology and its warriors. Besides being fascinating mythology, it has stories that captivate the attention of those who hear about it; to find out more about this mythology, today, we will have a special guest to enlighten us with her knowledge. Today's guest is Renate Haug, an expert in Norse mythology and the runic alphabet. Renate was born in Norway, and since she was little she created an appreciation for Viking culture, which led her to study and learn more about her own culture. In today's episode, Renate is here to show us how to interpret the world in a different way through the runes. Also, we will talk about paganism and initiation. You cannot miss this episode! You will not only hear about Norwegian culture but also know the meaning behind the UNcivilized logo. ABOUT RENATA HAUG Renate Elida Haug is a Norwegian Waldorf school teacher, naturopath, and Norse shaman. She is a teacher in a Norse shamanistic tradition and runic lore. Together with her friend and soul sister, she runs the Brisingamen, is a school where they teach Norse shamanism and offers rites of passage (birth rituals, confirmation from child to adult, and handfastings) and other yearly rituals. She grew up with a close and intimate connection to nature, with a great fascination with Norse myths and runes. She started off self-taught but, has for many years now, studied under a fantastic mentor and teacher in shamanism and rune theory. She is about to publish an oracle deck with runic drawings of the elder futhark. CONNECT WITH RENATE Runes and art on Patreon: Understanding Norse culture, paganism, and Runes with Renate Elida Haug Website: www.brisingamen.no Instagram: @renateelidahaug WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [2:37] Meet Renate Haug. [5:07] Is there a rejection of Viking culture in Norway? [14:59] The disconnection of the human being with the myths. [18:12] What are the runes? [26:47] The value of rituals. [32:51] The initiation of men and women. [36:20] Join the UNcivilized Nation. [39:30] How many runes exist? [45:53] Overview of paganism. [52:16] Where to find Renate. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.