The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

Today I bring you another Irishman and a fascinating one at that. Pat is a good friend of the Uncivilized world and has been leading a life worthy of the title of Uncivilized since before we were born.In this episode we follow Pat’s career going from fitness success and lack of satisfaction into the world of Breathwork and how that has radically changed his life. Pat’s openness about the truth of business and entrepreneurship as well as his deep understanding of the body’s use of breath makes this episode on you don’t want to miss.Pat also does Brazilian Jiujitsu which means he’s awesome. Fact.Please also share this with one person in your life, or twenty. Cheers,Traver

Considering the fact that it’s reason the species perpetuates, the difference between friendships and romantic relationships, as well as a MASSIVE source of both life’s pleasures and pain — it’s shocking that we don’t have more open and honest conversations about sex.In this episode I get to ask Dr. Kelly all the questions you men ask me, covering such topics and erectile disfunction, premature ejaculation, and even what happens if you “break” your penis — not something I have experience with or knowledge of, but apparently it happens!Please also share this with one person in your life, or twenty. Cheers,Traver

Michael Gay is Uncivilized royalty, having been there from the beginning and is one of our co-leaders in our workshops. He’s also a licensed therapist and would probably be happiest living in the woods.In this episode we explore the ways men and women both can create a deeper relationship with your intuition and the parts of your body and knowings that the civilized world divorces you from.This is a great episode for anyone who wants a greater understanding of the how’s and why’s you exist in the world in the ways that you do. Please also share this with one person in your life, or twenty. Cheers,Traver

Chris is an old friend of The Uncivilized Podcast and in his third appearance with us speaks to the ways that we all numb and disconnect from our bodies, and the truth we’re so afraid to acknowledge.In this potent exercise we speak of potent ways to be in your body, to live more powerfully, and experience who we are underneath lives shackled with fear and contraction.Stick around to the end of this episode as Chris drops some fiery gems in the last 10 minutes!Please also share this with one person in your life, or twenty. Cheers,Traver

NAME YOUR YEAR—START YOURS NOWIt’s February. Too late.(No it's not.)For years, men and women around the world have kicked off their journeys with my powerful ritual—Naming Your Year.It’s not a resolution.Not a wish list.Not another empty promise.It’s a stake in the ground. A declaration. A call to something greater.In this recorded call, Traver and the uncivilized crew walk you through the process of claiming your year, setting your intention, and stepping into the version of yourself that refuses to live on autopilot.It doesn’t matter if January slipped by in a haze.You can start today.Cheers,Traver

Let’s talk tantric sex, full body non ejaculatory orgasms, psychedelics, and the dark masculine… In this episode with renowned Men’s Leader Adayemi Adayosoye we get into all of it. We cover the conditioning and patterning that leads men to live lives of drudgery and quiet misery rather than truth and ecstatic joy. This is a powerful episode for men who are ready to live in a completely separate reality from the one you’re most likely walking around in. Listen at your discretion! Please also share this with one person in your life, or twenty.  Cheers, Traver

In this episode you get to peak behind the coaching curtain and watch me work one-on-one with a man who’s struggling bringing structure into his life. This is showing up in his challenge around meal planning and workout programming, as well as the deeper issue at hand: — This is a protection mechanism keeping him from getting what he really wants. What does he really want? A deep connection with the men in his life. A deep connection with friends and loved ones. And of course, not take all of the time and energy that he’s spending keeping every single option open to him (how exhausting) and use that time and energy to reach a higher purpose. This is potent conversation about responsibility, maturity, and discipline and how all three actually do foster more feelings and experiences of freedom. Enjoy. Please also share this with one person in your life, or twenty.  Cheers, Traver

I’m a True Crime dork, and if you are too, then this episode is for you. Hell, even if you’re not this episode will show the path of a man who was deep in a music career, had a hiccup, then on a whim after a single conversation decided to try something new. Millions and millions of downloads later with popular shows such as In The Red Clay, Drowning Creek, Fox Hunter, and In The Land of Lies — Sean’s life is going in an entirely new direction. We dive into his creative process, the toll these projects take on him personally, and how he balances putting himself in precarious situations for work now that he’s a husband and a father. Enjoy. Please also share this with one person in your life, or twenty.  Cheers, Traver

If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who is going through a breakup or divorce — then this episode is for you. In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who asked me a straight up question: How do I heal these Nice Guy parts of me? And boy do we get into it. As someone who figured out he was a Nice Guy during my own divorce, I had a lot to say on this topic. First about the painful power of initiation, then about the root causes of Nice Guy behavior and how he can start to heal himself without years of therapy. This was an incredible conversation about topics so many men struggle with. This is a powerful episode and I’m grateful of the openness of my guest. Enjoy. Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.  Cheers, Traver P.S. Want Traver as YOUR coach? Apply for coaching at www.manuncivilized.com/coaching!

Gavin Meenan is a world-class men’s coach in Ireland. But he wasn’t always. At one point, he was a porn-addicted young father, buried in grief and shame. And it wasn’t until his porn use became public when videos of him in chat rooms made their way around the internet that he was able to shift his life forever. In his candid and open conversation, Gavin and I discuss the secret addiction so many men suffer with and how you can start to change it. Porn’s not going anywhere, in fact it’s only going to become more personalized and prevalent.  This is a powerful episode all men should listen to. Enjoy. Please also share this with one person in your life, or twenty.  Cheers, Traver