ManTalks Podcast

The discussion dives into the intricate nature of vulnerability in male relationships. It challenges the idea that being emotionally open makes a man a better partner. Instead, it emphasizes the importance of emotional sovereignty and self-regulation. Women may prioritize emotional independence over raw vulnerability, adding complexity to what is often oversimplified. The conversation sheds light on these nuanced realities in romantic connections.

Simple idea, but not easy to execute. Far too often, we mistake being a control freak for leadership, and/or reactivity with decisiveness. Let's break it down a little and look at how to effectively (and authentically) take the lead in a relationship.  Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the self-leadership they’re looking for. Are you looking to find purpose, navigate transition, or fix your relationships, all with a powerful group of men from around the world? Check out The Alliance and join me today.  Check out our Facebook Page or the Men's community. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Doug McKinley, an executive leadership development coach with a doctorate in clinical psychology, explores the intersection of personal growth and organizational leadership. He discusses overcoming adversity and the impact of masculinity on leadership styles. The conversation highlights the significance of self-awareness and mentorship in developing healthy identities. McKinley emphasizes the importance of discipline, authenticity, and emotional intelligence in effective leadership, while also challenging self-limiting beliefs and advocating for a balance between creativity and structure.

The discussion dives into the paradox of nice guys in relationships. It uncovers why women may leave accommodating partners for those who are less predictable. The host explores psychological dynamics behind attraction, revealing how excessive niceness can lead to relationship boredom and inevitable resentment. This thought-provoking examination challenges common perceptions of what women truly want in men.

Forgive me while I geek out for the rest of the week about this fantastic conversation! After reading Angus' book Wonderworks: Literary Invention and the Science of Stories, I knew I had to get him on the show. Story, myth, and narrative are incredible tools for change, and knowing how they affect us down to the neurological level is Angus' specialty. Listen in for... -How narrative shifts not just our perspective, but our entire life.-How literature and apology are two of the oldest, most powerful human inventions.-A quick look at why AI will never surpass human intelligence-How we're losing narrative diversity—and why that's leading to polarization.-The function of anger. Angus Fletcher is a professor of story science at Ohio State's Project Narrative, the world's leading academic think-tank for the study of stories. He has dual degrees in neuroscience and literature, received his Ph.D. specializing in Shakespeare from Yale, taught Shakespeare at Stanford, and has published two books and dozens of peer-reviewed academic articles on the scientific workings of novels, poetry, film, and theatre. His research has been supported by the National Science Foundation, the Mellon Foundation, and the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences. He has done story-consulting for projects for Sony, Disney, the BBC, Amazon, PBS, and Universal, and is the author/presenter of the Audible/Great Courses Guide to Screenwriting. Connect with Angus -Website: https://www.angusfletcher.co/ -Book: Wonderworks: Literary Invention and the Science of Stories: https://amzn.to/3smnhjQ -LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/angus-fletcher-99713617/   Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the self-leadership they’re looking for. Are you looking to find purpose, navigate transition, or fix your relationships, all with a powerful group of men from around the world? Check out The Alliance and join me today.  Check out our Facebook Page or the Men's community. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Explore the journey of breaking free from the 'nice guy syndrome.' Learn how assertiveness can transform relationships and end passive-aggressive patterns. Discover the value of direct communication in expressing your needs, even if it feels uncomfortable at first. The conversation dives into personal growth and the challenges involved in shedding outdated behaviors. Join the dialogue about self-awareness and the path to healthier, more authentic connections.

Destin Gerek, a leading voice in masculinity and sexuality, shares insights from his pioneering work with The Evolved Masculine. He tackles the complexities of male sexual energy and challenges harmful stereotypes, revealing how societal pressures affect intimacy and relationships. Gerek emphasizes open communication, emotional connection, and the importance of understanding women's needs. He also encourages self-discovery and a mindful approach to sexuality, promoting healthier relationships and deeper connections.

Discover three essential daily practices that can elevate personal growth and resilience in men. Learn how challenging yourself can lead to breakthroughs and the value of continuous learning. Explore the power of meaningful rituals to help navigate life’s ups and downs. These insights promise not only to benefit you but also to enhance your relationships with others.

I've had the privilege of interviewing some incredibly wise, compelling, and inspiring people. This is a sampling of not just our most downloaded episodes of this past year, but also some of our more profound moments and profound guests: author Robert Greene, men's work expert Jason Wilson, psychiatrist Dr. Anna Lembke, and mythologist Dr. Martin Shaw. There is also some never-before-released material from spiritual activist Stephen Jenkinson, whose work I deeply admire. Francis Bacon said, "Some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested". I humbly suggest the same rule applies to podcast episodes.  Original Episodes: -Robert Greene: Define Your Relationship To Power: https://link.chtbl.com/H2X8p745 -Stephen Jenkinson: What The F*** Happened?: https://link.chtbl.com/7BxcbG3r -Dr. Anna Lembke: Dopamine Nation: Why We're Addicted: https://link.chtbl.com/SEId6mCO -Dr. Martin Shaw: The Depth And Value Of Myth: https://link.chtbl.com/vuagBOo3 Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the self-leadership they’re looking for. Are you looking to find purpose, navigate transition, or fix your relationships, all with a powerful group of men from around the world? Check out The Alliance and join me today.  Check out our Facebook Page or the Men's community. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover the vital importance of establishing direction in a man's life for true fulfillment. Explore challenges in relationships and careers, and learn how to create a personal vision. Get practical tips for making choices that encourage growth while avoiding the pitfalls of stagnation. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and harness the power of conscious decision-making for a more meaningful life.