Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Dr. Morgan Anderson
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Aug 14, 2024 • 24min

EP 465: My #1 Mindset Shift for Success and Creating the Life You Want

🥳REGISTER FOR THE MOVE TO SECURE ATTACHMENT CHALLENGE: Click Here to Grab Your SpotStart your journey to becoming securely attached: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramGet ready for a mindset reset to make sure you are prioritizing the RIGHT things in your life. I share today’s wisdom with you because I wish I had realized this simple truth sooner. Inside of today’s episode: The simple mindset shift that will change everything in your life for the betterNo nonsense tough love on how to apply this change to your daily life My own personal journey to success and things I’ve learned along the way I know you know that you’re ready for mentorship and support to help you get to the next level of your life. To start your journey to becoming the securely attached highest and best version of yourself, apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program today! Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program
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Aug 12, 2024 • 42min

EP 464: What is Disorganized Attachment Style? Origins, Signs, & Treatment

🥳REGISTER FOR THE MOVE TO SECURE ATTACHMENT CHALLENGE: Click Here to Grab Your SpotStart your journey to becoming securely attached: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramInside this episode I give you a deep dive on disorganized attachment style; origins, signs, and treatment. As someone who lived with this attachment style for many years, I know how important it is to treat disorganized attachment. In today’s episode I discuss: The roots of Disorganized attachment (inconsistent and emotionally unavailable caregiving during childhood) The signs of Disorganized attachment in adulthood (including:  negative views of self and others, self-sabotage, confusion in relationships, dissociation and numbing, and attraction to abusive partners.) Understanding disorganized attachment as an attachment style is more empowering than viewing it as a mental health disorder like borderline personality disorder.If you have an insecure attachment style, you have suffered long enough. It’s time to attract the emotionally available partner you deserve by becoming securely attached. Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program
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Aug 7, 2024 • 17min

EP 463: The # 1 Shift You Need in Your Dating Life

🥳REGISTER FOR THE MOVE TO SECURE ATTACHMENT CHALLENGE: Click Here to Grab Your SpotStart your journey to becoming securely attached: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramSheeesssshhh this episode is the tough love you didn’t know you needed. Inside this episode: How to truly get off the dating rollercoaster for good and stop toxic dating patterns The truth about self-criticism Taking ownership in your dating life This short but powerful episode is exactly what I needed to hear when I was struggling in my dating life. It’s time to attract the emotionally available partner you deserve by becoming securely attached. Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program
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Aug 5, 2024 • 49min

EP 462: How to Have Securely Attached Communication

🥳REGISTER FOR THE MOVE TO SECURE ATTACHMENT CHALLENGE: Click Here to Grab Your SpotStart your journey to becoming securely attached: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramInside of this episode: What does it mean to have “securely attached communication” What are the factors that lead to secure communication Your questions about how to have healthy communication answered Aaaaand so much more! Ready to work together so you can become securely attached and effortlessly attract the relationship you deserve? The Empowered.Secure.Loved.Relationship Program is open for Application! Inside this 8-Week Science Backed Program, you will receive everything you need to embody your securely attached self, and easily attract your ideal healthy relationship: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program
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Aug 2, 2024 • 59min

Bonus Episode: Have a Healthy Relationship with Your Job with Special Guest, Dr. Tessa West

FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Start your journey to becoming securely attached: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramToday’s BONUS EPISODE is a real treat! We have Dr. Tessa West, a professor from NYU who has specialized in helping people improve their relationship to their job. Inside of this episode we discuss: The surprising fact that 80% of people are dissatisfied in their current jobs How to cope with your partner’s dissatisfaction in their work life What happens when women out earn their partners (and what you can do about it) Want to connect with Tessa? Check out her book Job Therapy, or say hello to her on IG @west.tessa Ready to work together so you can become securely attached and effortlessly attract the relationship you deserve? The Empowered.Secure.Loved.Relationship Program is open for Application! Inside this 8-Week Science Backed Program, you will receive everything you need to embody your securely attached self, and easily attract your ideal healthy relationship: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program
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Jul 31, 2024 • 29min

EP 461: Do You Stay, or End the Relationship? 5 Things to Consider

FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Start your journey to becoming securely attached: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramOne question I get asked alot is: “Is it normal to have doubts about my relationship?” Inside this episode: How to know when doubts are within the “normal” range, or if you should actually consider leaving The 5 things to consider when deciding if you should stay or end the relationship Identifying predictors of marital successEpisode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: Exploring the Question of Partner Compatibility02:20 Evaluating the Relationship from a Securely Attached Place07:29 Handling Conflicts and Challenges as a Team11:18 The Impact of Your Partner on Your Energy and Mental Health19:01 Considering Compatible Desires for the Future22:48 Addressing Doubts in the Relationship26:36 Conclusion: Striving for Secure Attachment and Great RelationshipsIf you’ve been on the fence when it comes to doing the work to rewire your brain for healthy love, now is the time to finally become the securely attached version of you. The Empowered.Secure.Loved.Relationship Program is open for Application! Inside this 8-Week Science Backed Program, you will receive everything you need to embody your securely attached self, and easily attract your ideal healthy relationship: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program
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Jul 29, 2024 • 47min

EP 460: Dating Intentionally (Relationship Pacing, Mindset, and Pro-Tips) with Special Guest Talia Koren

FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Start your journey to becoming securely attached: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramToday’s episode is going to be VERY juicy for anyone currently dating, or looking to get back into the dating scene. Inside of today’s episode Talia and I discuss: Why being your authentic self is a game changer in your dating life When should you have sex? (our perspectives based on building a healthy long-term relationship) Talia’s dating journey, and the importance of the slow burnYou will LOVE this value packed interview, and I know you will want to connect with Talia! Go find her at: @dating.intentionally on IG, or go check-out her podcast anywhere podcasts are aired, Dating Intentionally Make sure you share this episode to your IG stories and tag me @drmorgancoaching  I’d love to hear from you! If you’ve been on the fence when it comes to doing the work to rewire your brain for healthy love, now is the time to finally become the securely attached version of you. The Empowered.Secure.Loved.Relationship Program is open for Application! Inside this 8-Week Science Backed Program, you will receive everything you need to embody your securely attached self, and easily attract your ideal healthy relationship: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramEpisode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction and Background01:33 Talia's Journey to Dating Intentionally04:05 Volume and Enjoying the Dating Process08:33 Meeting Talia's Fiance and Building a Connection12:16 Becoming Exclusive and Navigating Physical Intimacy14:43 Attachment Styles and Relationship Dynamics18:03 Building a Secure Relationship24:25 Taking a Break from Dating: Focusing on Yourself26:51 Reflecting on Your Life Without a Partner27:21 Shifting Mindset: From Seeking Validation to Being the Chooser27:49 Making Changes: Reflecting on Past Actions28:03 Eliminating Expectations and Focusing on Standards29:08 Dating Apps as Opportunity Creation Tools29:55 Making the First Move: Approaching People In Person30:38 Designing Your Own Fun Dating Experience32:20 Navigating Sex: When to Have It33:17 Embracing Conflict: Building Secure Attachment
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Jul 24, 2024 • 25min

EP 459: Audience Q&A: Trauma Bonds, Long Distance Relationships, & Borderline Personality Disorder

FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Start your journey to becoming securely attached: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramToday’s episode is packed with some juicy questions submitted by the audience!Inside of today’s episode I discuss: How Borderline Personality Disorder is often misdiagnosed Anxious Attachment & Long Distance relationships: what do you need in order to make it work The importance of breaking a trauma bond Aaaaaand so much more! Make sure you share this episode to your IG stories and tag me @drmorgancoaching  I love to hear from you If you’ve been on the fence when it comes to doing the work to rewire your brain for healthy love, now is the time to finally become the securely attached version of you. The Empowered.Secure.Loved.Relationship Program is open for Application! Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program
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Jul 22, 2024 • 37min

EP 458: America is in it’s Insecure Attachment Era: Modern Dating Trends Explained

FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Start your journey to becoming securely attached: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramYou all know I am a research nerd, and today we are diving into a research study that examined the changes in attachment style trends over time. I think these findings will give you insight into today’s dating trends, and possibly give you some validation for what you are experiencing in your relationships. Inside of this episode I discuss: The shocking decline in secure attachment and a significant increase in avoidant attachment.Why the decrease in secure attachment is happening (hint: social media & an increase in fear in our society) Why I feel it is more important than ever to become securely attached If you’ve been on the fence when it comes to doing the work to rewire your brain for healthy love, now is the time to finally become the securely attached version of you. The Empowered.Secure.Loved.Relationship Program is open for Application! Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program
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Jul 17, 2024 • 22min

EP 457: Advice for Anxious Attachment Spirals: Listen to This Before You Block Him

FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz DR. MORGAN’S BOOK LOVE MAGNET: Find it on Amazon In today’s value packed episode, we discuss what to do when you find yourself in an anxious attachment spiral, and you’re caught bad mouthing the other person. Inside of this episode: The power of embodying secure attachment style in the early stages of dating Understanding how anxious attachment thought patterns keep you repeating unhealthy relationship patterns What to do when you’re needing reassurance in a relationship (hint: it doesn’t involve complaining to your friends)If you’ve been on the fence when it comes to doing the work to rewire your brain for healthy love, now is the time to finally become the securely attached version of you. The Empowered.Secure.Loved.Relationship Program is open for Application! Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program

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