Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Dr. Morgan Anderson
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Jun 19, 2024 • 24min

EP 449: Are You Settling, or Is It a Healthy Relationship?

APPLY TO THE ESL PROGRAM: Click Here to ApplyInside this episode I debunk the myths around “settling”! I go deep on: Why I don’t believe in the traditional idea of “soul mates” Learning how to prioritize what truly matters in a relationship (instead of arbitrary items on a checklist that don’t matter) Learning to accept emotional availability when you’ve experienced insecurely attached relationship dynamics in the past I am so grateful to this community and to express my gratitude, I am hosting a 444 Abundance Offer in honor of over 4 YEARS of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program, you will receive 4 BONUSES and a $400 discount on the program investment! Click Here to ApplyEpisode Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections02:57 Debunking the Myth of Settling06:15 Finding a Healthy and Secure Partnership11:04 Prioritizing What Truly Matters in a Relationship12:47 Embracing Conflict as an Opportunity for Growth
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Jun 17, 2024 • 51min

EP 448: Your Relationship as a Tool for Personal Growth with Special Guest, Sarah Yudkin

🤩 THE BREAK-UP ACADEMY $500 OFF ends tonight! Make sure you use code: OVERIT and grab it here:Join the Break-Up AcademyWoo-hoo this episode is SO FREAKING GOOD!You’re gonna love this conversation between Sarah Yudkin and I, where we discuss healing relationship anxiety, co-creating secure attachment, and dating intentionally.Inside this podcast episode we discuss: The importance of letting go of perfectionism and unrealistic expectations to create more fulfilling and authentic relationships.Understanding and communicating core needs is essential for building compatibility with a partner.Relationships serve as a powerful tool for personal growth and self-discovery.Becoming securely attached and having no expectations in dating can lead to a healthier mindset and approach to relationships.Emotional capacity and availability are important factors to consider when entering the dating world.Open communication and sharing past relational experiences can strengthen long-term relationships.Managing relationship anxiety involves regulating emotions, practicing self-awareness, and giving oneself permission to not have all the answers.Comparison in relationships can be used as a cue to check in with oneself and explore personal needs and desires.You’re ready to do the work on yourself, but you’re not sure if you need the Break-Up Academy or the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program?Book call with a Dr. Morgan Coaching Advisor today and you will be supported in getting all of your questions answered regarding the best way to work together:Click Here to Speak with My TeamConnect with Sarah Yudkin Here:https://www.instagram.com/youloveandyoulearn/Episode timestamps:00:00 Introduction and Background04:52 Sarah's Journey and Getting Engaged08:48 Letting Go of Perfectionism in Relationships12:17 Understanding and Communicating Core Needs22:27 Knowing When to Date and When to Pause24:06 Becoming Securely Attached and Having No Expectations in Dating25:29 The Role of Emotional Capacity and Availability in Relationships29:24 Sharing Past Relational Experiences for a Stronger Connection34:09 Managing Relationship Anxiety: Regulating Emotions and Practicing Self-Awareness39:28 Using Comparison as a Cue to Explore Personal Needs and Desires
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Jun 14, 2024 • 18min

Bonus Episode: How to Release Your Trust Issues & Get Excited to Date

TAKE THE ATTACHMENT STYLE QUIZ: Click Here to Find Out Your Attachment StyleGet ready for some Dr. Morgan tough love on today’s episode! Today I am sharing the necessary steps for releasing your trust issues, and attracting an emotionally available relationship that you deserve! Inside today’s episode I outline these four powerful steps to transformation: Take ownership of your love life and commit to showing up differently.Let go of past relationships to create space for new love.Rewire your beliefs about relationships to attract healthy love.Take action and start showing up differently in your love life.ENROLL in the Break-Up Academy with CODE: OVERIT for $500 off: https://drmorgancoaching.com/break-up-academyNot sure if you need the Break-Up Academy or the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program? Book call with a Dr. Morgan Coaching Advisor today and you will be supported in getting all of your questions answered regarding the best way to work together: Click Here to Speak with My Team
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Jun 12, 2024 • 35min

EP 447: 3 Steps for Creating Emotional Safety for Healthy Relationships

Enroll in the Break-Up Academy today (USE CODE: OVERIT for $500 dollars off!): Enroll Here 🥳 Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program: Click Here to ApplyIn today’s episode I get extra vulnerable, realizing how what I have experienced recently has led me to greater appreciation for the emotional safety that is in my securely attached relationship. Inside of today’s episode we discuss: How creating emotional safety within ourselves FIRST is crucial for building healthy and lasting relationships.Emotional safety allows for authentic expression of emotions and fosters deep intimacy and connection.Prioritizing emotional connection and support in relationships enhances mental health and well-being.The importance of effective expression of our emotions so we can be heard and supported by our partners I am so grateful to this community and to express my gratitude, I am hosting a 444 Abundance Offer in honor of over 4 YEARS of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program, you will receive 4 BONUSES and a $400 discount on the program investment! Click Here to Apply
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Jun 10, 2024 • 53min

EP 446: Challenging Limiting Beliefs About Worthiness & Breaking Relationship Patterns with Special Guest Ashlee Hogan

ACCESS THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS: WATCH HEREAPPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM: CLICK HERE TO APPLYIn today’s  episode Ashlee Hogan shares her vulnerable and inspiring journey through the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program  We discuss: The impacts of growing up in a single parent home on our relationship beliefs How limiting beliefs about worthiness can hinder one's ability to form and maintain relationships.How our Attachment style can change based on the relationship and one's own self-awareness.Doing the experiential work and addressing deep-rooted issues is essential for personal growth and attracting healthy relationships. Give yourself permission to date the people you want to date, without worrying about societal expectations.You are worthy of love and acceptance, regardless of your sexual orientation. Ashlee’s story is so inspiring and such a wonderful reminder during this June Pride Month, that Love is Love. If Ashlee’s story inspired you, take the first step in your healing journey by applying to the E.S.L. Program today: Click Here to Apply
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Jun 5, 2024 • 26min

EP 445: 5 Step Process for Getting Over Your Ex

APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM HERE: Click Here to ApplyREGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE: www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit This episode is for you if you’ve ever wondered WHY you can’t seem to get over your ex. Inside this episode I do a deep dive on: : The 5-Part Process for fully releasing your past relationships Why most people mess up forgiveness The step that most people miss when processing a break-up (which involves getting to the root of your relationship patterns, so you don’t bring your unhealed relationship dynamics into your next relationship Send this episode to anyone you know who has struggled to release their past, I think it will be supportive and eye opening to them. It is TIME to  become the securely attached version of you so you can effortlessly attract the relationship you deserve: Introducing a limited time offer for the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program! In honor of FOUR YEARS of the ESL Program, and over 444 podcast episodes, I am celebrating with: ✨ The 444 Abundance Offer ✨Including 4 Juicy BONUSES & a $400 discount on the program tuition: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. ProgramDon’t wait to do the healing work that you deserve. Now is the time to choose yourself, choose your happiness, and decide to heal.You are worthy of becoming secure. Click Here to Apply
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Jun 3, 2024 • 29min

EP 444: How Insecure Attachment Styles Go Through Break-Ups

APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM HERE: Click Here to ApplyREGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE: www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit Ever wondered how your attachment style impacts how you process a break-up? Inside today’s episode we discuss: The thoughts each attachment style experiences as they go through a break-up WHY avoidantly attached folks tend to “jump into a new relationship” The ways a securely attached person navigates heartbreak Aaaaaand so much more! Make sure you don’t miss my upcoming LIVE Masterclass: ✨SO OVER IT: Your 3-Step Blueprint for Getting Over Your Ex and Getting Excited to Date ✨In this LIVE event with me your host, Dr.Morgan we will ⤵️✔️ Regulate your emotions so you can feel calm & confident.✔️ Build rock-solid self-trust that helps you easily know who you should date, and who you should drop.✔️ Process and release past relational trauma so you’re no longer repeating unwanted dating patterns.✔️Apply attachment theory to your life and relationships so you can finally attract secure, healthy love that lasts.REGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE: www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit *SPOTS ARE LIMITED: FIRST COME FIRST SERVE*
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May 29, 2024 • 42min

EP 443: Dating in the Wild: How to Meet People in Real Life

APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM HERE: Click Here to ApplyREGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE: www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit You are in for a special treat with today’s episode!! I was planning to record an episode on today’s topic, dating in the wild, and then on one of my recent client group calls, an amazing client of mine shared her take on meeting people in real life. (that’s right, NO DATING APPS REQUIRED) Inside of today’s episode my client Kayla and I dive into: How to meet people in real life (it’s easier than you think) The Power of Releasing Repetition Compulsion How to kindly say you’re not interested in dating someone when its not a match If Kayla’s story inspired you, I want to invite you to join us inside of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program!Introducing our May Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program:💞 Love Yourself First 💞****This Month ONLY Special Discounts for Moms & Helping Professionals****Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. ProgramDon’t wait to do the healing work that you deserve. Now is the time to choose yourself, choose your happiness, and decide to heal.You are worthy of becoming secure. Click Here to Apply
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May 27, 2024 • 32min

EP 442: Overcome Relationship Timeline Pressure & Reset to a Healthy Dating Mindset

APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM HERE: Click Here to ApplyREGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE: www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit You’re gonna love this episode! Inside this episode I discuss how: Timeline pressure can lead to feelings of fear, self-doubt, and comparison.Anxiously attached individuals may struggle to notice red and yellow flags in dating due to the fear of being alone.Avoidantly attached individuals may distance themselves further when faced with timeline pressure, fearing they won't meet expectations.Taking ownership of one's love life and committing to making progress can lead to immediate improvements in mental health.Releasing control of the how and timeline while maintaining clarity on desired outcomes allows for surrender and openness to love.If you’re ready to heal your attachment style so that you can attract the emotionally available dream partner you’ve always wanted, you are going to want to take advantage of this-Introducing our May Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program:💞 Love Yourself First 💞****This Month ONLY Special Discounts for Moms & Helping Professionals****Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. ProgramDon’t wait to do the healing work that you deserve. Now is the time to choose yourself, choose your happiness, and decide to heal.You are worthy of becoming secure. Click Here to Apply
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May 22, 2024 • 43min

EP 441: 10 Things You Need to Know About Securely Attached Relationships

APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM HERE: Click Here to ApplyREGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE: www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit In this episode I am giving you the TEN things I wish I had known earlier about securely attached relationships You are gonna love this HONEST list that is packed with valuable relationship insights that will help you understand what a secure relationship is like even if you have never been in one before. Inside of this episode I discuss: How the early stages of dating should ACTUALLY feel in a secure relationship The key to securely attached conflict How securely attached sex is different from sex in insecure relationships. Aaaaaaand so much more! You deserve to prioritize your HEALING and trade situationship summer for a securely attached summer. Take the first step today on your healing journey by applying to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program Click Here to Apply*Helping Professionals & Moms discounts expire May 31st*Don’t wait: Apply Today

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