
With The Perrys
With The Perrys is a podcast with a whole lot of truth given in a short amount of time. Preston Perry and Jackie Hill Perry will bring their humor, honesty, and insight into conversations on everything from relationships and theology to politics, race, and parenting.
Latest episodes

May 19, 2025 • 1h 8min
Let’s Talk Fasting and Prayer
The hosts discuss their evolving prayer practices, highlighting how life experiences deepen their relationship with God. They reflect on the importance of divine discipline in personal growth and encourage embracing challenges. The conversation contrasts testing and temptation while emphasizing reliance on God through trials. They also explore the transformative power of prayer and fasting, sharing personal anecdotes about its significance in their spiritual journeys. Ultimately, the episode highlights a sincere and honest approach to connecting with the divine.

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May 12, 2025 • 1h 17min
How to Be A Christian on Social Media
After a long break, the hosts share insights on the significance of character in social media use. They discuss the challenges of returning online, emphasizing how spiritual health can be affected by digital interactions. The conversation dives into the need for meaningful content creation, urging an authentic approach to faith in the digital age. Listeners are encouraged to navigate social media with humility and integrity, fostering genuine connections while prioritizing spiritual growth over visibility. Engaging with purpose is key.

Apr 7, 2025 • 1h 27min
Best of WTP: How To Fight For Your Marriage
While the podcast is on a break until summer, we're revisiting some of the Perrys’ most popular episodes. If marriage feels difficult, it’s not because you and your spouse are incompatible. It’s because you’re married. On today’s episode, Jackie and Preston are joined by mentors and friends CD and Melody Fabien for a conversation about fighting for intimacy. They talk about recognizing dysfunctional rhythms, finding opportunities to connect, not building cases against your spouse, healthy confrontation, and utilizing the greatest tool God has given us to find oneness in marriage: communication.
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Mar 3, 2025 • 52min
Best of WTP: Conflict, Confrontation, and Arguing Well
While the podcast is on a break until summer, we're revisiting some of the Perrys’ most popular episodes. Confrontation is a necessary function of a healthy relationship and it can create more intimacy. But how do we honor God and one another as we move through conflict? The Perrys have some thoughts from what they’ve learned over the years.
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Feb 3, 2025 • 1h 13min
Best of WTP: Men, Marriage, Sex, and Kevin Samuels
While the podcast is on a break until summer, we're revisiting some of the Perrys’ most popular episodes.Here's an episode from June 2023 with Jackie and Preston's friend Ezekiel Azonwu. Culture discourages men from being in community, and many men are confused about their call and spiritual giftedness. But guys are crying out for discipleship and voices that are in close proximity to them who will build them up. Let’s talk about it.
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Jan 13, 2025 • 55min
Best of WTP: Mormonism, Homosexuality, Parenting Tips & More
While the podcast is on a break until summer, we're revisiting some of the Perrys’ most popular episodes. In this episode from February 2023, Jackie and Preston sit down and answer questions sent in from their former Patreon community.
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Dec 9, 2024 • 58min
Social Media Break, Slander, and Sanctification
The hosts reflect on a busy year, discussing the balance of professional commitments and personal downtime. They delve into the challenges of social media, advocating for breaks to foster spiritual growth and meaningful connections. There's a focus on vulnerability in church communities and the dual nature of social media's influence on relationships. Resilience in faith amid adversity is emphasized, encouraging listeners to view challenges as opportunities for growth. Transformative perspectives on prayer and genuine worship experiences round out the conversation.

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Nov 18, 2024 • 1h 1min
The Forgotten Art of Lament with Sarah Benibo
Sarah Benibo, a worship pastor at Embassy City Church and insightful author, discusses the vital but often overlooked topic of lament in the church. She emphasizes how lamenting serves as an honest expression of sorrow while maintaining faith in God’s goodness. The conversation reveals the need for churches to embrace grief in worship, helping believers find strength and deeper connections with God. Through personal anecdotes, Sarah advocates for a balance between joy and sorrow in worship music, arguing that lament can lead to profound spiritual growth.

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Nov 11, 2024 • 43min
What if Porn Was Actually Satanic? An Honest Conversation With Ray Ortlund
Ray Ortlund, a pastor and author of "The Death of Porn," dives deep into the themes of human dignity, sexuality, and the pervasive influence of pornography. He highlights how pornography undermines relationships and discusses its moral complexities, likening it to historical injustices. Ortlund emphasizes the sacredness of intimacy and advocates for a transition from self-centeredness to mutual love in marriage. With powerful insights on faith's role in healing, this conversation challenges listeners to redefine their approach to sexuality and relationships.

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Nov 4, 2024 • 60min
Family and Parenting with Generations in Mind: A Conversation With The Ortlunds
Ray Ortlund, a seasoned pastor and author, and his wife Jani, co-author of "To the Tenth Generation," share insights from their 53 years of marriage and parenting. They emphasize the significance of the seemingly mundane moments in life and how these shape future generations. Their discussion touches on navigating family dynamics, the power of community in tough times, and fostering healing through relationships. They also reflect on the legacy of faith they hope to pass on, highlighting the transformative impact of commitment and love.