With The Perrys

Dating Discipleship 101 with Melody and CD Fabien

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Nov 3, 2025
Join Melody Fabien, a Christian speaker and dating coach, and her husband C.D. Fabien, a pastor focused on gospel-centered courtship, as they dive into dating discipleship. They share insights on waiting for marriage, the dangers of cohabitation, and how to date with integrity and intention. The Fabiens discuss why many young people feel lost in dating and offer practical advice for building relationships that honor God. Discover the rewards of obedience and the importance of community and mentorship in their inspiring journey.
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ANECDOTE

How Their Story Began

  • C.D. met Melody on a mission trip in Uganda and discovered she was a committed virgin, which surprised him.
  • Their decision to wait (including saving their first kiss for the wedding) later went viral and framed their public testimony.
ADVICE

Present Intentions Clearly

  • Men should present clear intentions and initiate with purpose when pursuing a relationship.
  • C.D. urges men to state why they're pursuing someone and where they hope the relationship will go.
INSIGHT

Submission Shapes Leadership

  • Submission (coming under wise leadership) helped shape C.D.'s character and dating wisdom.
  • He credits elders and accountability for forming his leadership and integrity.
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